OK, so maybe you fine women can correct information an old faggot/bi-sexual/faggot regarding something I probably have incorrect.
I've got an odd penis. Instead of a mushroom head I've got something similar in size and shape to a large Granny Smith apple. It's big. My shaft is unusually long (trust me, it's side show long) and sort of flattens and becomes wider when I have a major erection. More than once I've had a prospective partner say, "What am I supposed to do with that? Burp it?" Yeah, real funny. Great turn on.
My girl friend (and still good friend) from the time we were hippies in San Francisco always semi teased that she needed an epidural and an episiotomy for me to get just the head of my penis inside her. And she wasn't exactly tight. On those occasions she was swollen, wet and eagerly receptive, I always felt the sensation of pushing and stretching open a muscular ring just inside her inner labias. She did a lot of teeth clenching and heavy breathing until I finally entered her. It was like passing what felt like a loose (but still tight) sphincter muscle until things were a bit easier, but I've never been able to get more than four inches inside a woman without her saying, "Whoa, please stop."
My college girlfriend and I probably had semi successful intercourse two and a half times with each other. But it wasn't all bad. I enjoyed going down on her and working her into a frenzy according to her instructions, getting three fingers up inside her hoping to find the "mystical" G spot and nibbling on her clitoris at the same time. She liked to enjoy as many orgasms as possible and I'm fairly certain I followed her instructions on how to get her off with great success many times. She was also good at frottage, just pressing her genitals against my erection and leisurely sliding herself up and down against the head and shaft of my penis. When we included another male or the occasional couple, she never had a problem with the other guy having 7, 8, 9, 10+ inches and a normal big glans.
So, was it (and is it) my imagination that my dear old squeeze -- and women in general -- have a sphincter-like limit to the circumference of what you can take? Even older women who have had children tell me to "Stop, please." After all, 9 pound newborns have been popping out of vaginas 24/7 since women started having babies. Would stretching exercises have been of any benefit? Isn't it possible for most women to engulf a fist at the entrance of their vaginas with patience and practice?
My old girl friend still insists that vaginas are much better at accommodating a penis than the rectum. However, with most gay men I don't often have a problem. Maybe it's just psychological?
Seriously, I've had poor success engaging in intercourse with the fairer sex, although many (most) at least have wanted to "try it" with me before saying "Sorry about that. It isn't comfortable." or "Please, stop."
Any thoughts on this and then I'll be worried about "bottoming out"; although most women have told me they've never had that particular problem.
A still somewhat innocent and naive Midlifebear would like to know.
Thanks in advance.