i have a bigger soft cock (longer and thicker) than a hard average cock so i have to hide it well when i go dressed if i dont want to start to hear comments around about the huge bulge that i can do in my pants. so normaly i go with very wide trousers where my dong can swing freely without calling attention. And if the trousers are a bit tight then i put very tight undies to make like a semispheric bulge otherwise because if i would go comando or with boxers it would be tooooo obvious the shape of the cilindric bulge of the dong hanging half of my left leg. I have had some not very pleasant experiences when my bulge it is very obvious if i an dressed, that is the reason i try to hide it. When i go searching sex, i just go to the nude beach here and everything is exposed there mine and others too.