How do I convince my friend to let me suck his dick?

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  1. GLORYDICK790

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    He's straight but he talks all the time about how he would let a dude blow him and told me he doesn't think a dude blowing another dude is gay. He said he thinks he would like it. I kinda jokingly hint to him that i'll do it but he's like no were friends. He's kinda of morally ambiguous though and I think he is playing hard to get. He always tells me he is horny and asks about how I blow dudes. He once asked me "Would you rather blow me or____ (our other friend) and I said him. He got super happy.

    Should I just get him drunk and do it?
     
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    If you guys are drunk and it happens that's one thing, but if you get him drunk in the hopes that it'll happen, well that's kinda slimy if you ask me.

    I'd just call his bluff next time he's going on about it. "Yeah, right. I don't believe you. You talk all the time about it, but I bet if I offered to blow you right now there's no way you'd go through with it."

    If he goes through with it, good for the both of you; if he doesn't, he's full of hot air and you know to move on.
     
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    if he keeps bringing it up I think he's looking for you to take charge and take what you want
     
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    I agree, I don't think he would even say anything like that unless he really wanted to try it. I thinks he's nervous and wants you to just make it happen. Sounds like he's pussyfooting if you know what I mean. Especially if he gets happy when you pick him in his hypothetical questions.
     
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    I agree
     
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    No. Alcohol is not a solution. Its not a good feeling for you that you needed to drunk him to blow him. Just tell him directly ok I want to suck you off.
     
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    Go to the swimming pool and change in the same changing room (not sure how it's called) and see what you can do from here. It seems from the way he's talking to you that he wants this to happen... So, well, when you're almost naked next to each other, get closer, start slowly putting your hand between his legs and make the magic happen (or not)
     
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    Exactly what fbneros said.... next time it comes up.. just be like...."dude..... take it out and let me do my thing"
     
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    Find the balance between wanting to suck his dick, and it possibly ruining your friendship. People talk a good game but when it comes down to the act itself, people get nervous. If you think it will ruin your friendship afterwards, then it isn't worth it. If you think otherwise, then go for it. Maybe it will become a regular thing.
     
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    It sounds like the other guy knows you suck dick and he interested in what that means. Sounds like he wants to be a special case, so tell him it is something you for friends you can trust.

    Or, start out by just suggesting that you both jerk off together and see where that goes. Truth be known he may be looking for a chance to play with your dick too.

    ***Or, find something the guy does that is a bit annoying (like slurping a drink through a straw), and just bold faced tell him, “Man, Ill suck your dick if you will stop doing that”

    ^^^^^ It worked for me.
     
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    Did anyone realize this post is 4 years old lol
     
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    Sounds like hes playing mind games like a lil phag. Turn off. I like real men that know what they want.
     
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    I am going thru the same thing with my straight friend Richard , Except my straight friend never talks about wanting a guy to suck him off , as a matter a fact Richard gets so much pussy it's unreal really ..... I have heard so many stories from a lot of the chicks that have fucked Richard that he is hung like a horse ...I've heard from 10 inches to 12 inches and as thick as a beer can ... I have also heard many girls brag about how good he fucks and how sore they are for days after fucking him, I have even heard a lot girls talk about how amazing riches cum tastes ...And all this talk about how good Richard is in bed is driving me crazy wanting to suck his cock and swallow his cum ..But how the hell do i even bring it up ??? Please Please help !!?? Thank You from Lee
     
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    Boundaries and respect, people.
     
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    The word *Convince* should never be used when discussing a potential sexual encounter.

    Don't manipulate people, don't trick people, don't coerce people.

    That's just fucked up.
     
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    Now a 5 year.old post . I wonder if he ever got that cock In his mouth ???
     
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    I'd be down with "entice." That leaves the other some agency.
     
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    But there will be hundreds more of the same question.
     
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    It is an old thread... but @Vegaslee66 might be able to get something out of the recent posts by myself and @Scarletbegonia
     
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    If the OP was written by a man about a woman, we'd call it what it is rape culture. At least male privilege.

    It sounds pushy, objectifying and sad.

    What's the appeal of going for straight guys as a gay guy anyway?
     
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