How do i find out if my wife wants a bigger dick?

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  1. BWC8888

    BWC8888 New Member

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    Title says it all . I have a feeling that my wife want a bigger dick, she never actually said that but when we have sex especially doggy she tries to position herself so i go in as deep as i can. Btw i am 7x5.5 . i asked her if my dick is big enough for her and she said its fine but i have a feeling its just something she is telling me not to hurt my feelings . Is there a way to find out if she would prefer bigger?
     
  2. redz_rule

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    Ask her? Radical, I know.

    For future reference, this is not a Women's Issue - it's your issue. The are 45859403837465 other thinly veiled wank-fodder threads, practically identical to this one, already on the site.
     
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    i did ask her, if u read my post u would see that . Also i am asking in womens issues because i want to get some of the women's opinion on the matter
     
  4. Drifterwood

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    How big is she when fully aroused?
     
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    Go buy a dildo or vibrator bigger than you and introduce it while you two are having sex. See what happens.
     
  6. Jillang

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    My opinion is ask her again then. I'm not sure why you think she is lying, maybe she is, idk. If that's the case you have bigger problems in your relationship or maybe you are just being insecure.
     
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    7 is plenty. Its likely your technique or the dick isnt hard enough. Try supplements to make your erections harder (see one of the many posts on lpsg about increasing cum, they also work on stiffer erections). Otherwise..just give it to her harder :)
     
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    You asked. She answered. Case closed. Reopen at your peril. Seriously.
     
  9. MickeyLee

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    eta: how the fuck is positioning herself for more pleasure mean she's not happy with the sex/your peen?
    :confused:
    how dare she be an active participant in her orgasm!!
    ya think, that just maybe, she's positioning herself so that when you go deeper she doesn't feel ouch?

    any position that arches my back tightens me jenny.
    doggy, depending on exact arrangement of limbs, shortens me jenny.
    during sex in general, angling me hips/body is intended to bring max stimulation to the sweet spots/not grind an ouch.
    or, to get me off my hair. :redface:


    don't ask her again.
    you asked, she answered.
    continued repeats of the question imply she's a lair, or you are an insecure ass.

    if ya are not "introwebz"ing your inches..
    ya are larger than most dudes walking the planet.
    finding larger would require a dimension specific advertising campaign.


    get over your issues, man.
    your wife + larger is all in your head.
     
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    She does. I have no doubt that she wants to know what it's like to have a really lovely big cock. It doesn't mean she doesn't love you or that the sex you two have is not awesome.

    Admitting it to you is probably not going to happen. Why would she want to hurt you? Buy a big dildo and some lube and see what happens. She'll like it, but will you?

    On the other hand, most men want a tiny and very pretty pussy too. Right?
     
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    I did read your post.
    Two different things.

    To clarify - If your wife was having the issue it would be a Women's Issue, but you have indicated she is not - you are. If you specifically want a woman's opinion, your post belongs in 'Ask a woman' which is the only way answers can be restricted to women. If you want to discuss lying partners it should go in 'Relationships'. This info may come in useful in future :smile:

    Stand behind her and ask again. My mum always told me the back of my neck would go red if I was lying.
     
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    :rofl:
     
  13. MickeyLee

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    for true, what Ms. Redz says about Woman's Issue vs. Ask a Woman... is thoroughly spot on. ya thread is An Issue.. with Relationships, Trust, Women... not a Women's Issue.
     
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    To be fair, he has only been here a few months. There are so many rules here to learn and who actually reads the sticky in each thread? If it's in the wrong place, then ask a Mod to move it. No biggie.
     
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    With your size, I wouldn't wish you were bigger. I haven't wished that most men were bigger. I've only been with one man I wished was bigger. When it comes to sex, I usually wish other things are different, different technique, different or more kissing, different ways of communicating, a different way of touching me, a different mood during sex, things like that.

    Maybe she's not concerned about your penis length the way that you think she is. How do you know that in doggie she's moving to make you deeper? I mean, she could, but not necessarily for the reason you think. In doggie I'm shorter, so too deep is a concern, but I'm usually also making sure that I don't get a painful hit in the cervix because that position makes it easier for that to happen. It's a more "dangerous" position, cervix-wise.
     
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    When I first read this it looked like, "thickly veined."
    Got to get my mind out of the gutter....
     
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    This is an excellent point here. In my experience, I've found that most women aren't as concerned with penis size as men are. We men are obsessed with how big our penises are. Of course, there are some "size queen" women out there, but most often, women are more concerned with other things (i.e., how gently are you touching and carressing, where you are touching them, how you are kissing them, the things you are saying to them, etc.) Really, man, I wouldn't worry about it if I were you.



     
  18. Drifterwood

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    Wrong. Hating on men and making us out to be like paedophiles isn't OK either.
     
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    Just tell her that if her dick is over six inches long, then it's just fine and she doesn't need to have a bigger dick. She's probably just watching too much porn and that probably makes her feel small. Just tell her to watch less porn.
     
  20. MickeyLee

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    okay.. i admit it...

    Mr. Miller just won at this thread
    :rofl: