How do i get a girl to say yes to a threesome with your male buddy?

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  1. buddy7706

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    HEY JUST WONDERING, WELL i need some advice again. im trying to get a girl to have a threesome with me and my bestfriend, i want to try it so bad and so does he every time were drunk at the bars well talk about it and i have had sex with this girl who is pretty easliy persuaded to have sex with... only i dont think shes that bad of a slut since she only has sex with me ...and she really does not have much a relationship with my bestfriend other than a hello or goodbye but anyway hoow doo i convince her to do it ... i think we all would have to be drunk definitely but where or when or howwwww cann i get this going or even get her to do it i have 2 weeks too since she is going away for a month... so help a brother ouuutt!!!
     
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    Stop drinking.. shake your head.. and good luck.
     
  3. whatireallywant

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    I've always wanted to be the F in a MFM. :wink: Of course, it would depend on the attractiveness and personalities of the two men involved, as well.
     
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    my best friend and i did it before, it was by chance, but he happened to walk in the room while we were fucking, and it all went from there.
     
  5. dolfette

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    in the uk, getting a girl drunk so that you can manipulate her into sex with a man she doesn't want to have sex with is classed as rape.

    arsehole.

    either she wants to or she doesn't.
     
  6. buddy7706

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    stopp crying i just suggested drinking to ease up the mood none of us have ever done this before and we all arent most outgoing people so i figured a little alcohol will hellp get sum nervs away REEELLAAAXXXXX dolfette! im not trying to force anyone one to do anything just dont know how to bring it up or start it or evenn ask THATS WHY IM ASKING FOR SOME STORIES OR ANY SUGGESTIONS FROM OTHER GUYS OR GIRLSS... TO HELP ME OUT
     
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    Everybody watch some MMF porn together? I found some I like pretty well called Double Delight. They show the guys a little more - body shots. I hate it when they are so close up you can't even tell what the guys look like or what they are built like.

    I always wish the guys would make eye contact sometimes - like buddy, that feels so good. That's the point, eh? Or touch the other guy sometimes. It's like their dicks are rubbing on the inside but they behave as if they hardly know the other guy is there.
     
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    On the issue of the "getting drunk", reading the OP, it appeared that he was suggesting that they all get a little drunk, not just get the girl drunk. It appeared to me to be a case of nerves (on the part of all three potential participants). While getting drunk is not the best way to go, I don't think it is rape in this context.

    I would like to try a MFM myself but as shy as I am, I'd probably have to be a bit drunk to do that! (or know both of the guys really well.)
     
  9. dolfette

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    have you bothered finding out her secret desires?

    swap fantasies?

    ask her! then after you listen to her dreams you can tell her yours & watch her reaction.

    you can't make her want to.

    the cheezy "we all watched porn together" thing rarely works.
     
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    and MFM threesomes are ok but nothing mind blowing.
     
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    re: the question in the subject heading... I've heard good things about water boarding.
     
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    sorry for calling her a slut but wen i call her over she knows its for one reason yet she still comes and once were done she leaves ... i dont think a lot of girls do that ...anyway so i should bring it up while sober ???
     
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    I think a good way would be for the 3 of you to get together and go out as group.

    Maybe end up back at your place...you and your gf start to fool around a little with your friend there and it might happen on its own.

    Don't try to force anything but I think you will be able to tell if she is up for it.

    Or you can always be straight and ask her if she would be interested in something like that, you never know it might be something she has thought about.

    I think it might be a fairly common fantasy for a lot of women and she just might be into it.
     
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    "Ever had a threesome?"
    "Want one?"

    My question though is why do you want one with your best friend? I can understand it if you're gay or bi...but what's the big attraction? The only threesome I want is with two girls.

    Anyway just ask her, when she's sober. If you get her drunk and she regrets it in the morning or doesn't have a clear recollection, you could be in trouble. Is there no unwritten rule that you don't want to see your friends naked? Or am I the only one.
     
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    Ok...let me get this straight. You think that because she's there just for sex that makes her a slut? If you're the one calling and asking her to come over, what does that make you? I'm wondering what the attraction is for her.

    You can't make her do anything she doesn't want to do. Ask her point blank. Don't try and get her drunk. That's just idiocy. Please refrain from using the word "slut" if you want to make progress with her...or any woman for that matter.

    There wasn't when I engaged in a MFM. They could have cared less about each other; they were too involved with me.

    I find it interesting you think girls should be ok being naked with each other but not men.
     
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    Having a MFM 3sum has nothing to do with seeing the other guy (unless you are of course bi) its just very hot to some people when a girl gets fucked by more than one guy.

    If its something you are not into thats your personal preference and thats cool, but don't put someone else down just because its something your not into.

    I am not gay or bi but a MFM 3sum is one of the hottest things I have ever been involved in, and that includes FMF 3sums.
     
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    No, two men who don't know each other and one girl I can see that. But when its your BEST FRIEND!? No f'in way! I don't want to get that 'intimate' with my friends.
     
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    Well this just goes to show how everyone can have different views and feelings about sex.

    I enjoy MFM 3sums and have had them with my wife and I only have done it with friends of mine. For whatever reason I am more comfortable in that situation when I know and trust the other guy.

    If the women was not my wife then I don't think I would really care who the other guy was, but have never had any kind of 3sum without her, so...
     
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    Buddy,

    I would tell her that your friend really has a crush on her and would die to sleep with her. He respects me and you too much to do anything about it. Even if we stopped seeing each other he still wouldn't. So I told him that maybe if you are interested we can mess around together some night. If you are not comfortable, you can always back out?

    Let it drop for a while. She will think about it, fantasize about it and then setup a scenario to let it happen. Just starting making out with her while he is in the same room and see how she responds.
     
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    That sounds like a good approach to me. It shows that you're willing to respect whatever decision she makes, without pressuring her into it, and that you and she are going into the situation as a team (ie. not just you and your buddy going "yeah, let's do it, right on!"). As long as she feels that her wishes are being respected and taken into account, I can't imagine her being outright angry about it.

    It's not something I'd personally pursue, but it has happened in the past (I wasn't really "with" either of the guys...we were all sort of close friends, and they were best friends with each other).
     
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