how do I get it into her butt?

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  1. FreeRangeVeal

    FreeRangeVeal New Member

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    have several doubts about anal sex

    I try again and again to put it in the butt but it does not work

    she say it cause a great deal of pain

    crying screaming

    sometimes goes in momentarily and fires back out like a rocket rocket

    use many kind of lube and still find this extreme difficulty

    please advise on how to do the needful

    kindly,

    vindaloo
     
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    Sounds like she doesn't want it in her butt, end of story really.
     
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    this is not possible

    every other woman had little problem taking the girth and length
     
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    If she doesn't like it you might want to stop.

    If she does want anal sex buy a butt plug or something of the sort to work her upto your size.
     
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    thanks for the advice i will try this

    never had to use a plug before but perhaps other women were more familiar with anal sex

    it is not possible to be too large correct?

    kindly,

    vindaloo
     
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    Trust me, crying and screaming are signs that she's not loving it.
     
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    She doesn't want it. Period
     
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    Same situation with my gf and I. I've brought it up and so has she but she really wants no part of it. She has said "maybe if I'm really really drunk." I've rub my head up against her backdoor a few times but she gave me a stern "don't even think about it!!!", so I'll just have to deal with it.
     
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    Maybe it is because of the fact that the anus was not meant for penetration...
     
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    Dear Vindaloo:

    You must do it after you have obtained an erection.

    Best regards,

    P.
     
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    Some of us like it penetrating - the ones who aren't crying and screaming and reacting as if you tried to stick a cactus up our bums :)
     
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    HA! :mad::12::eek13: You don't need it and neither does she. You must stop at once!

    AMEN!! This guy is a putz!

     
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    If you doubt whether her commotion is sincere or not, may I suggest that you try inserting something the size of your erection into your own anus, just so you can better judge her response?

    Are you attempting foreplay? Oral (cunni- & analingus)? Fingering to open the way?

    Have you ever fucked anybody in the ass before? Was it always just slam and grind?
     
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    First she has to want you and then she has to at least have some interest in being penetrated anally. If she wants to be receptive she should try the following and you need to be patient and wait for her to get used to having something else in her ass other than turds.

    Relaxation
    Vibration
    Lubrication
    Dilation

    If she isn't willing, you aren't able.
     
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    You don't really want to go down this route of discussion, do you?
     
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    Im with Bbucko on this one. I think you should try it out before making her take it.

    Confucious says: Stop assraping your woman!
     
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  20. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    And incase the OP didnt notice, all asses arent created equal. I have an incredibly small ass and if my husband made me feel the way you are making her feel, well i'd be on sex strike for sure. Thats incredibly insensitive. Anal is not a must-have in your sex reportoire. And your orientation is labeled as UNSURE, since you dont seem to object of sex with a man, why not go find one? In my experience, men have larger asses to a degree to handle that sort of girth.
     
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