how do I get my friend to give me head?

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  1. slick rick

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    Well winter break is coming soon and I'll be alone for a few weeks. I have a friend that I've known for a while now. He's 3 years younger than me. We're both straight, but have "experimented" a few times when we were younger. I've jacked him off for a few seconds and he's jacked me off for a few seconds. I've even rubbed my cock on his ass cheeks before. And I've seen him completely naked. Nothing more.

    Now we haven't done this for years or even discussed it, but I really really want to do something with him this winter break. I'm not willing to give him oral, maybe a hand job, but that's it. I really want to receive (sounds selfish huh? haha). Any tips on getting him to do what I want? How do I go about doin this? Please help
     
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    Beer and porn
     
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    LOL - why does that always seem to be the formula?
     
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    bcuz it's most likely to work... esp since they've already experimented before... :wink:
     
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    Dude, I sympathize, but my main question is...What do you want? If you don't want to offend him, then don't do anything.

    If you want to wank with him or suck his cock, then create the scenario where that can happen. Sounds like he's already open to that.

    Don't be afraid. If it doesn't work out like you thought, then just know that he is the one with the problem, not you.

    Cheers and peace, bud!
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    I want him to suck my cock. I just don't know how to approach it.
     
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    Easy, just bring back the times when yall did whatever it was with each other "just so he knows you have something on him". Then ask him if he would ever do that again, better yet say something like ( That was crazy, but when you're horny anything goes) just so he knows you're down :smile: that's a starting point. GL!
     
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    How about just asking him nicely?:biggrin1:
    cigarbabe:saevil:
     
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    Its just hard to because whenever I try he's always playin video games. And doesn't seem to be interested in watching porn. I need some tips to help him focus on sucking my cock. haha
     
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    you can't just ask him to suck you off and then give him a hj. be prepared to swallow his load too.
     
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    ya that's what I don't want to happen. i can do the hj, but giving him oral... no way jose
     
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    so you just want SOMEONE to give you head, not necessarily your friend, but you think it would be easiest to accomplish this with him. i see now
     
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    yes, pretty much. I feel like that is the easiest way to receive oral pleasure. at least for me any way
     
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    What do you have again'st giving him oral? Does he have an ugly cock?
     
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    No. Nothing wrong with his cock. I just know that I can't put another man's penis in my mouth.
     
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    have u ever tried?
    or is it something you just never wanted to do?
    or is it something you've been curious about, but can't bring yourself to actually do it because of what you think it might mean?

    this is not a 3rd degree...just trying to see where your head is...
     
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    Forget your friend. Don't you know any slutty girls? :confused:
     
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    I've never wanted to suck on another man's penis. its doesn't turn me on at all. the only reason why i would want to give him a hj is so that he would suck on my penis or give me a hj.
     
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    I can understand that. Some of us have it the other way around. I can give a guy head, but I have no interest in him reciprocating.
     
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    no, most girls I know have a boyfriend or want a relationship blah blah blah
     
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