How do I get my girlfriend to go along with this?

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  1. Mandingo Wannabe

    Mandingo Wannabe New Member

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    I posed this question last week, but as a newbie placed it in the wrong category. Here's the situation. My girlfriend of 3 years dated before me a guy of immense proportions. She told me of more than once measuring his cock and having the 12 inch ruler run just past the 11 1/2 inch mark. She told me she placed the ruler on top of his cock...so it was an accurate measurement. Evidently he is quite thick also...lucky bastard!! (LOL) Naturally I was blown away by all of this. She also tells me she was able to take it all, both in her pussy and ass. The thought of seeing her take this monster cock has me going crazy. We've done many roleplay sessions with me using a strapon on her with a crazy big dildo and her orgasms have been off the charts. She knows I want to see it for real but as yet hasn't taken this beyond fantasy play. She says he'd certainly be up for the performance (LOL...pun intended). They do email each other as friends from time to time so the ability to make it happen exists. To date she says if we go through with it, it will harm our relationship. Thoughts and suggestions? Thanks, Ken.
     
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    There are two options:

    1. Your girlfriend is lying to you.
    2. Your girlfriend had a partner even bigger than Mandingo itself (Mandingo is about 9.5" long).

    You can ask to her why this guy isn't doing a life out of his massive cock as a pornstar (since there isn't a porn actor as huge as him).
     
  3. Mandingo Wannabe

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    She's a very honest and straight forward person, so I'm inclined to believe her on this. I mean it is possible isn't it? The dildo we roleplay with is this "realistic" John Holmes version that measures 10 full inches, and she contends this guy is bigger. And as far as the pornstar career goes, he's a fairly mainstream corporate kinda guy, who's evidently had alot of business success.
     
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    maybe ask her why she thinks your relationship will suffer? maybe she has issues with getting together with someone she broke up with, or maybe she likes the fantasy of polygamy but not the actual practice? whatever it is, it sounds like you two are able to discuss such things so take the discussion a step further, let her know how much it turns you on and inquire why she feels it would be a bad idea. either you will get more insight into her feelings on the matter, or she will realize that any concerns she had over how you would feel are unfounded.
     
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    Big Jpgh...Thanks for your thoughts. I think she is worried about the trust issue. That if I'd like to see her with another man a.) he doesn't really love me and/or b.) maybe he'd want to be with another woman also. I agree more dialogue is in order. BTW, am I different on this one? Is it odd for a guy to want to watch his girlfriend fuck someone else, especially someone as off the charts big as this guy?
     
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    you forgot #3 everything he said was a lie. :) unless he post some picture
    with her taking the whole strap on plastic dick, I shall not believe it,,. :)
    First of all, 12 inches is 12 inches... I guess out of 10 people probably not many will have a hard erection.... so it would be almost impossible.. and that is even a push since I don't even believe there are more than 10 people in the world with 12 inches. Even on this site quercusone who is like 10 inches.. and the guy from NYC that has 13 inches that doesnt even get hard...
     
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    the inportant thing to be there between you both is trust and both of you willing too take part in what you both have as a fantasy too playing it out for really, if your both really thinking about it talk about everythink that could happen the up and down side the consequences.
    me myself love watching my wife getting fucked by another man bigger than my self (7 1/2) seeing the enjoyment on her face is enough for me, it turns me on no end watching her take his big cock making her orgasm, she my love big cocks but thats all it is just fucking no emotion. this is not for everyone you have to have a lot trust.

    hope you find the right thing for you both
     
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    John Holme's dick wasn't 10". In fact, he was about 8" x 6.5".

    Please, take a ruler and see where the 10" mark and the 12" are. A guy with a true 12" will be able to suck is own cock just by inclining his head downwards while sitting without any effort.

    For some reason your girlfriend is telling you this senseless bullshit.

    There isn't a single pornstar with a 12" cock.

    Many girls know that penis size is a very sensible issue for men. So, when (for any reason) they want you to feel bad, they say "My ex was 11 or 12" long".

    Please, don't believe that bullshit.
     
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    Don't believe what your girlfriend say (a 12" cock is simply stupid).

    And remember that this site is full of people posting photoshopped pics (or using dildos, tricky camera angles and things like that).
     
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    Ignoring questions of accuracy as to dimensions, the only real options are forget it or continue plugging away with the suggestion.

    Other than that, there's not much you can do.
     
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    Since this was in the "Sex with a large penis" thread, not in "women's issues", I'm not sure if you are soliciting women's opinions....

    Tread Very Carefully, my dear.

    Women are complex creatures and we do have a tendency to romanticize the past. Allow the past to remain in the past. Allow her the independence to email him from time to time....but if she SAID "it will harm our relationship", BELIEVE HER.

    Too many people say too many things they don't mean.

    The only true way to initiate CHANGE is to believe what people say. If they are lying, then that is THEIR cross to bear. If she believes her ex was 11.5 inches, so be it. Let it Be. Unless she's complaining about your sexual relationship, let it be.

    P.S. ...a better question for YOU might be...What makes you want to pursue having another man fuck your woman? Her orgasms are already "off the charts". You give her pleasure. Why would you want to see another man (possibly) give her more?



     
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    I think the issue your gf might be thinking of is this;
    A)What if you start bringing in other partners and you want it to continue but she doesn't. You may never be able to resolve this issue should that happen right?
    B)You could become jealous and not trust her anymore for some reason.
    C)She just doesn't want to be with anyone but you!
    I have been with a few guys who were as big or bigger than quercusone and they are very few and far between but if she wanted to be with that guy she would still be with him not you. Be happy that she wants you and stop thinking that it is the dildo she is responding to. Her response is heightened I suspect because you are willing to put it on for her to please her not any thing else!
    It can change the nature of the relationship once you start swinging with other people and your relationship will change with this perhaps not for the better.
    Very few couples can make that lifestyle work and my current husband was one of those for whom swinging did not work. It helped lead to the demise of his marriage.
    C.B.:saevil:
     
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    Yes yes I know you don't believe in big dicks but there are some men who do have dicks over ten inches. They perhaps don't have a need to show everyone.:eek: Having been with more than I ever wanted, they don't have a monopoly on anything except being large. My experience has been they were the most god awful lovers ever.
    Pounding away isn't making love or even having expertise.
    It just sucks!
    This does not apply to all of course. I can only speak to what I have been with and though it was most of them it wasn't all.:tongue:
    C.B.:saevil:
     
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    Maybe your girlfriend wants to break up with you and is trying to make you feel inadequate. But most likely this is a bullshit post and it's just a waste of bandwidth.
     
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    I had the same situation many years ago. He wasn't twelve inches, but good nine and at least six and a half around, if not seven at the base.

    I had a great couple of nights of sex and it didn't affect our relationship at all. As a matter of fact after we broke up, she came by with him about a year later and we did it again. The second time was even better, because he let me suck on him, which I wanted to try.

    There was some positives on my size, I was the second biggest after him, and he couldn't fuck as well as I could. Either he was just too big or he wasn't very good, so I came away happy with what I had and happy for the experience.
     
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    I have to say more and more it is making me feel quite sick the thought of someone wanting to watch the girl they love and adore and share life with, taking someone else's cock. It would make me feel terrible to see the love of my life react in ways she never has with me, and therefore never will with me from another man, be that bigger cock or whatever reason.
     
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    if any girl tells me her last ex was 12" or w/e and she could took the whole thing I would know since she will have no problems taking me haha and many can';t without discomfort. actually havent found any, only my current gf who about 10% of the time before or after the period can take me with no discomfort ( meaning I can go farther and harder than usual. :)
    so if you have a big dick and a girl lie to you , you may wanna try this experiment ram it all in.. touch the wall at the end.
     
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    Yeah so true Cuban - My girl is the same. I'm 7.2/3 x 6+ and only just after her period, at her most fertile and horniest, can she take a full balls deep pounding without pain. The rest of the time I have to ease off.
     
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