I don't think you're immature just because you're lying. I think you're immature based on the whole way you're viewing and treating the situation. For one, you're treating her like a child and a victim. It's like you're saying "Oh, this poor ugly girl. I have to protect her." She's 40. She's a grown up. Show her some respect and don't coddle her.
You did get the part where I said she has a low self-esteem of herself, right? Also the part about having depression issues, right? I guess I also forgot to mention the part that after I canceled the first date, she was telling me how "frazzled and discontent" she has been over the past couple weeks since I canceled on her. Yeah, I do feel like I have to protect her somewhat.
I'm just calling it as I see it. Didn't mean to disrespect you. I agree: I wasn't there, and I don't know all that did or did not happen. Neither do I know how accurately you remember it, or how much your own ego may or may not have coloured your perception of what happened.
See there you go again. Your continued attempts to imply that my memory is fuzzy or I have ego issues is making you come across like a complete douche bag. You've done this three times in this thread now in attempt to put me down and insult me. It's getting old and making you look pathetic.