First off I want to mention that this is a legitimate concern, not me exaggerating a situation to evoke a discussion that is sexually appealing to me (I have noticed that theme on a thread or two here), If anyone has any advise or similar experiences please help Hey, I have a question/vent/opinion, I don't know, but the bottom line is that recently I have been experiencing situations that I just don't know how to handle. I work in an office and work closely with a core team many of whom are very conservative and most are guys (they are all straight too, not that it matters to me either way). Anyways, recently I have been sitting around the table discussing whatever business is the subject and I have been noticing that some of the guys are starting to stare at my crotch! I usually am wearing jeans and when I sit down they ride up and tighten round the crotch, like every other person, but apparently it is creating a large bulge or something because I have been getting all these stares recently, but not from women! Mainly there is this one guy, and he is very weird to me, he is the really conservative, but tries to come off like he is sexually skilled, and he just got married (he is 20 yrs old), he is just awkward. Recently I have noticed that I have been getting a lot more stares in the crotch from guys, mainly that one guy, (and he is definitely not gay, this I promise you), and it makes me very uncomfortable, I am straight and very much in love with my beautiful girlfriend, and don't know what to say to these guy(s) when I catch them staring. I don't act all embarrassed when I catch them, but just continue on naturally. Basically, I don't know what to do, it makes me very uncomfortable when I am in a discussion and I know that some of the guys (mainly that one) is probably staring at my crotch. It wierds me out so much that I try not to look him in the eye because I don't want to pan over to him and catch him staring, so I just look away. It has been making me so uncomfortable that it's actually bothering me now. It's not like I am wearing tight fitting jeans or clothes that flaunt my junk, he just keeps staring.! I don't know what to do, just try to let it go, or should I talk to him, and if I do, what do I say, I will be working with this guy again for the next year.