How Do I Get this Guy to Stop Staring At My Crotch!

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I have caught like 2 people in my life looking at my package that made me feel unconfortable because they were of the same sex and I didn't really know them. What I did is just lay my hands or something in my hands on my lap so they couldn't see nothing and they would stop trying to peek at it.
 

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My suggestion is - Why don't you invite them to work out, or go swimming at the club and just nonchalantly show it to them while in the locker room while you are dressing, or in the sauna or steamroom or in the shower and just get it over with. Their curiosity will be cured and the staring will probably stop since they already have seen your monster in the flesh.
 

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I am kinda suprised by most of the posts. I guess I have been stared at since I was in high school. And I got over it when I was 17. Maybe the problem is you. Why do you even care if some guy is staring at your dick. Women and men look at my crotch all the time. I could care less. Men look at women with big breasts all the time as well. I don't hear any of them whining about it. It is just part of the deal of having a big dick. If this is the first time in your life that you have been stared at, then count yourself lucky. If you just cant live with the stares, get some duct tape and tape your dick to your waist, loosen your belt and wear baggy shirts. There I solved your problem without talking to anyone.
 

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Hall Wildcat,

The best thing that you can do it ignore it. You are in the workplace, and you do not want to do anything that can jeopardize your job or interfere with your performance. You've got to move on and forget about it. I know that it is easy to say that, but you've got to consider the problems associated with making any statements or comments. Everything can be taken out of context, and the situation will probably get worse. It might be a good idea to discuss this with someone who works someplace else ... someone who knows you and you can trust.

TED
 

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Just remember...It's all good clean fun til somebody gets an eye poked out or in the words of so many, Ralphie, You'll shoot your eye out. You could always ask, as I did a female I used to work with....What you starin at.....haven't you ever seen a bulge in a man's pants. This was the same female who asked me when I was going to start wearing tighter pants again, after I started wearing looser because I was tired of her stares and comments.
 

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I am sorry but the original posting was so amusing on several levels.

I especially enjoyed the need to qualify almost every statement

Wear baggy pants or baggy jeans. If you are showing a box and KNOWING that people are staring yet continue to do the same thing you are asking for it.
Be a man and say Stop staring at my big dick, It has worked for me before . :biggrin1:
You should question WHY it bothers you so much moreso than WHY they are staring at you . You are putting the goods on display and it sounds like you do this continuously so of course they will stare .



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As an addendum to my reply I have to say I see nothing to stare at so what is the big fuss all about LOL
 
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I have a big bulge. I like the idea that guys and girls will look at it. Although I wont hold back if some guy I am talking to face to face looks at it real obvious. I will do somthing. Maybe grab it and say "You want some?":rolleyes::cool:
 

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i catch guys (and gals) staring all the time. i try not to be too revealing but sometimes things show. i'm flattered but i ignore it to try not to encourage anybody. often i find myself at meetings where the guy across the table from me stares into my eyes the whole time, metaphorically falling into them. that is also awkward. but they're pretty eyes and what are you gonna do? just take it as a compliment. most of the time people aren't aware of what they're doing.
 

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DON'T address the subject with him. It will put IMMEDIATELY in a hostile stance with you.

And you don't need to change your wardrobe.

Get to know him more. The more you converse with him and make him feel comfortable, the less he will fantacize about you having a big package that he only wishes he had. That's what it's about. He WISHING he had what you have. Just reassure him that he's capable and get to know him, and make him a friend and it will disappear soon enough. Take the mystery out of it, and all of sudden the problem is gone.

Hope this helps. Let us know what happens.
 

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If you are showing a box and KNOWING that people are staring yet continue to do the same thing you are asking for it.

Good post. If you are sitting at a table, why not sit under it so nobody can stare at your crotch?

There are plenty of ways to keep your crotch out of the limelight. If you had a big birthmark right on your face it might be a different story. You can always find some way to sit that doesn't put you crotch on display, and there are plenty of pants that don't reveal everything.

So protests about guys staring at your crotch always sound a little hollow to me.
 

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Consider the advice of auncut10in. This guy is simply taking note of something that he has not seen before. He's probably not trying to be rude and he's likely not aware that he's even staring. If he is, he probably thinks you're accustomed to such behaviour. After all, if you saw a woman who was very tall, say about 6'5", you'd certainly notice her, and likely look at her more frequently in a given time period than a woman of more modest height. It's not that you're trying to be rude, but it's something you don't see every day.

In all likelihood, people notice your "bizness" more than you're aware. You just happen to notice your co-worker's attention as it's something that you're exposed to every day. It's probably not a sexual curiosity, but even if it is, so what? It's just that, a curiosity. Make a joke about it, if the opportunity presents itself. He'll likely be mildly embarrassed, but at least he won't feel antagonized.
 

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First off I want to mention that this is a legitimate concern, not me exaggerating a situation to evoke a discussion that is sexually appealing to me (I have noticed that theme on a thread or two here), If anyone has any advise or similar experiences please help

Hey, I have a question/vent/opinion, I don't know, but the bottom line is that recently I have been experiencing situations that I just don't know how to handle. I work in an office and work closely with a core team many of whom are very conservative and most are guys (they are all straight too, not that it matters to me either way).
Anyways, recently I have been sitting around the table discussing whatever business is the subject and I have been noticing that some of the guys are starting to stare at my crotch! I usually am wearing jeans and when I sit down they ride up and tighten round the crotch, like every other person, but apparently it is creating a large bulge or something because I have been getting all these stares recently, but not from women!

Mainly there is this one guy, and he is very weird to me, he is the really conservative, but tries to come off like he is sexually skilled, and he just got married (he is 20 yrs old), he is just awkward. Recently I have noticed that I have been getting a lot more stares in the crotch from guys, mainly that one guy, (and he is definitely not gay, this I promise you), and it makes me very uncomfortable, I am straight and very much in love with my beautiful girlfriend, and don't know what to say to these guy(s) when I catch them staring. I don't act all embarrassed when I catch them, but just continue on naturally.

Basically, I don't know what to do, it makes me very uncomfortable when I am in a discussion and I know that some of the guys (mainly that one) is probably staring at my crotch. It wierds me out so much that I try not to look him in the eye because I don't want to pan over to him and catch him staring, so I just look away. It has been making me so uncomfortable that it's actually bothering me now. It's not like I am wearing tight fitting jeans or clothes that flaunt my junk, he just keeps staring.! I don't know what to do, just try to let it go, or should I talk to him, and if I do, what do I say, I will be working with this guy again for the next year.
my advice to you is simply .....tell him if he wants it itll cost him BIG MONEY!yes,pimp yourself out.fuck it,you only live once,if he wants you make him PAY!
 

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Just put one of those neon color Post-it notes on your crotch with a message written in big, black marker that says "STOP STARING AT MY CROTCH".

That should do it.
 

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So a bunch of conservative guys sit around staring at your crotch when they are being paid to work for the company? :confused: Go to the boss.