Last night was the final straw! I was told 12 years ago by a female that I should use Magnums, which I thought were the answer to my prayers, but grew out of those and have used MAgnum XL for the past 5. Now all I feel is pressure. No heat, slip and slide, nothing! Pharamcists think I am playing a joke when I call them for advice! I Googled the topic (which is how I wound up here) and saw a mention for Trustex Extra Large. I'm sure this topic has been referenced before, but alas, I am a newbie. I'd appreciate any output! I'm tired of taking risks. And by the way, how can one be 99% straight and 1% gay? I just put that I was because I thought it was so comical. Maybe I'm just too metro.