I do apologize for the long thread but I just really want to get this off my mind and on here and see/hear from all of you guys. I have no one to talk to about all this so I'm turning to you guys here and hopefully get some results. So I basically have 2 questions-1) How do I let a guy know that I'm interested in him? & 2) How do I know that a guy is interested in me? I don't call myself 100% gay nor 100% straight but I just have a thing for guys, especially Caucasian guys. I know I'm not one of those amazingly hot guys but I don't think I'm that bad looking. I always see & meet guys at school or out in public that I just really like, some that I really really have feelings for but in the end, I just bottle it all up because I know we're just friends and nothing more. But it seems like I cannot end up or even find someone to be in a relationship with. It's like no one is interested in me at all and just thinking about that really lowers my self-esteem & confidence. Plus, I think because I'm still a virgin at the age of 21, I think that might have something to do with all of this. I guess I want to experiment but what I really want is a relationship with the guy that I'll be happy with and want to be with for the rest of my life. I mean I've chatted with several guys over the years but when it comes to meeting up, I tend to freak out and bail. Other times, all they want it just straight up sex and nothing more. There are times when guys find out that I'm Asian and that is a deal breaker for them. It just seems impossible to find a guy that has even the slightest interest in me or it just might be me, not being able to pick up his signals. So what signals should I be giving off to him? What signals from him should I be picking up that indicates that he's interested in me or want my attention? If any of you guys out there have any tips or advice, it would be appreciated. Stories or experiences would definitely help. This has been bothering me for years already and definitely would like to find closure or even small results would do for me. Thanks you guys!