How do I know if he's curious or not?

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  1. big1xxx

    big1xxx New Member

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    Me and my long time friend something like a cousin just turned 18. We have in the past and more than once watched porn together and he has a huge cock and I have a fat ass..I could pleasure him like he's never been pleasured before. But he's also one of those "hood" guys who would never be gay but I know deep down inside he would try it if he felt comfortable enough. So how could I reel him in we've been completely naked in the same room with an empty house PLENTY of times. But I'm just not sure and I haven't came out and I don't plan on doing so and I don't want this to be a mistake and he tells everyone..please help me!!!
     
  2. D_Handsomme Volgard Rentboye

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    i think you should be smart about it, but the problem is the older u get, the harder it is for u to have sex with him and act like ur being "curious" or experimenting, you should work it out from masturbating together to asking to see his asshole and he can see urs and work it as if u want to role play as if u both are with women... example u can ask, what would u do if a beautiful woman is here right now, he ll describe, and u ll see how to act :p
     
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    That sounds great but the thing is idk how he'd react by me asking to see his ass hole...
     
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    I must admit to being a bit confused about how far things have gone between you. Am I correct that you have wanked together over porn and seen but not touched each others cocks or has it gone further?

    I agree that asking to see his asshole is a big jump from seeing each others hard cocks or even playing with each others hard cocks.

    What have actually done with him so far?
     
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    All we have done is j/o completely naked nothing more nothing less.
     
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    Be patient! Two horny guys with a zone of privacy can bond in ways that aren't so easy otherwise. Do you tell each other how you react to each other's bodies? Most guys don't mind compliments. Get to hugging and you may both find yourselves with healthy hard ons; and it doesn't hurt to tell him that he's doing that to you, which should make it obvious that you are doing the same to him.

    Given the right circumstances, it is absolutely amazing what two horny, guys who think of themselves as regular guys, may find to be perfectly natural and right when they are open to each other. The sex wonderfully confirms the bond that already exists. Keep it personal and private and his and your hang-ups will prove to be no bar to many repeat sessions.

    It happened for me and we were just fifteen; we were more than just friends during the last two years of high school. Yes, we both married but we continue to be very grateful for discovering that "other side" of our sexuality. I loved him then and I love him still.
     
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    I would suggest that next time you wank together you ask if you can take a closer look at his cock or feel his cock. If he says no just tell him he should have sen the priceless look on his face when he thought you were being serious and laugh it off. If not you can have a play with his cock and make sure you offer him a play with yours.

    You could also ask him if he has jacked off with anyone else and see where that takes you? Tell him your curious about his cock.

    This all has its risks - it might be better to find a gay or bi guy to play with that wreck a friendship as good as this one is.
     
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    i think this is a good strategy... u might want to compare sizes thats a good start, tell him his is big and that u are amazed by it, see how he reacts, or maybe ask him if he s tired maybe u could help him jerk off (or help each other) approach it in a scientific point of view, that if someone else is jerking u off, it feels better hehe
     
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    Thanks for the help guys. I will try these techniques. I have to have him. He has a tight butt hole waiting for me and I have one waiting for him. Maybe I'll get him drunk...;)
     
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    You're not ready to go there yet. You're gona jerk each other off first. You're gonna blow one another first. Then, maybe, you're gonna play with each others asses. But not as a first step.

    BTW: the fact you're already jerking together means you've already broken the most impotant barrier. Going from there to just a little blo job isn't a big leap.
     
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    It's called having bidar/gaydar. The guy obviously is not straight and he knows it and you know it.

    Just come out to him and tell him about yourself. Or you've said how you've masturbated each other or with each other alone so just ask to have sex again.

    Keep in mind that he may not want to do any anal sex at all by getting fucked, fucking, or with fingers or toys and rimming as not everyone is into anal sex like that.

    For example I don't like it when I'm dating a guy and we have sex for the first time and all I want to do is make out and jack each other off and he either tries to finger my ass or says he wants to, or one guy I dated we woke up in the same bed after sleeping together in his hotel room and I woke up horny and wanted to just make out and masturbate and do some rubbing around/frottage and he fingered my ass without even asking me if I wanted it. Thankfully he stopped when I told him how I'm not into it.
     
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