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Right I'm only posting on here because I don't really know who else to ask this question to and I wonder if I can get some guidance here.
I'm to all intents and purposes a straight guy, I split from a long term girlfriend a year or so ago, my choice. But I've dabbled on multiple occasions with guys and I know I like it. Never had anything serious tho, and not open about it.
I started going to a new class at the gym about 4 months ago. It's a yoga class. It's full of guys and girls some of the guys are obviously gay. Some not so. So I get chatting to a guy there. He's English like me. He has a kinda trendy east London look and also artistic but not gay acting in the slightest, quite 'laddy' in fact. We spark up conversation in the changing room every time we see each other. We shower next to each other. He's handsome, great body, big cock as well. I like him but the interaction is all a bit odd.
So anyway I'm thinking this is all just friendly behaviour. I have an inkling he might be interested but neither of us is giving anything away.
Then one day he asks me for my number so we can have a night out with our respective friends. Ie let's try and arrange a group night out. I think ok cool. Then he asks me if I'm single. I say yeah to which he suggests if I would be interested in being set up with one of his single girl-friends. I said well maybe, not sure how I feel about being 'set up' with anyone.
Do straight guys actually do things like this? Never encountered a a guy playing matchmaker like this before. Was he just trying to suss me out?
So it goes on a bit, he messages me a few times asking him to join him at the pub with his friends but I can't make it. Another time in a text he jokingly refers to us meeting up as a 'man-date', we never get round to meeting. He has left the class now so I don't see him.
It all goes a bit quiet and then out of the blue tonight I receive a text from him saying that he is taking 3 girls out for dinner tomorrow, wants to know if I am free and tells me that 'all fit and free'.
Am I reading too much into all this? Is this guy gay? Is he bi? Is he a swinger?
What's the deal.
I'm to all intents and purposes a straight guy, I split from a long term girlfriend a year or so ago, my choice. But I've dabbled on multiple occasions with guys and I know I like it. Never had anything serious tho, and not open about it.
I started going to a new class at the gym about 4 months ago. It's a yoga class. It's full of guys and girls some of the guys are obviously gay. Some not so. So I get chatting to a guy there. He's English like me. He has a kinda trendy east London look and also artistic but not gay acting in the slightest, quite 'laddy' in fact. We spark up conversation in the changing room every time we see each other. We shower next to each other. He's handsome, great body, big cock as well. I like him but the interaction is all a bit odd.
So anyway I'm thinking this is all just friendly behaviour. I have an inkling he might be interested but neither of us is giving anything away.
Then one day he asks me for my number so we can have a night out with our respective friends. Ie let's try and arrange a group night out. I think ok cool. Then he asks me if I'm single. I say yeah to which he suggests if I would be interested in being set up with one of his single girl-friends. I said well maybe, not sure how I feel about being 'set up' with anyone.
Do straight guys actually do things like this? Never encountered a a guy playing matchmaker like this before. Was he just trying to suss me out?
So it goes on a bit, he messages me a few times asking him to join him at the pub with his friends but I can't make it. Another time in a text he jokingly refers to us meeting up as a 'man-date', we never get round to meeting. He has left the class now so I don't see him.
It all goes a bit quiet and then out of the blue tonight I receive a text from him saying that he is taking 3 girls out for dinner tomorrow, wants to know if I am free and tells me that 'all fit and free'.
Am I reading too much into all this? Is this guy gay? Is he bi? Is he a swinger?
What's the deal.