How do I let my friend know I'm willing to blow him

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with no strings attached
hes straight
its like
yeah ill suck your dick
what are friends for?

you know?
 
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Unless he's hinted to being interested in you doing that, it sounds like a bad idea. I wouldn't do it personally. It really can fuck up your friendship.

well i openly flirt with him and he just blushes and laughs
hes never hinted to being interested in anything of that sort
 

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well i openly flirt with him and he just blushes and laughs
hes never hinted to being interested in anything of that sort

Some men are just very comfortable in their sexuality. You're very lucky to have a straight friend that you can do that with. Like I said, I personally wouldn't cross that line. As harmless as it can be, that's something you should hold off on pursuing.
 

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well i openly flirt with him and he just blushes and laughs
hes never hinted to being interested in anything of that sort



I think friends can be for a lot of things.

But usually it's just talking. Laughing, joking. Maybe enjoying a common interest together. Sport, films, an art, eating out. Whatever.

But it has never occurred to me that one of the key obligations of friendship is to suck each others penis.

I do however think that one of the key obligations is not to embarrass each other for spurious, selfish reasons.

Hope This Helps ... :smile:
 
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Some men are just very comfortable in their sexuality. You're very lucky to have a straight friend that you can do that with. Like I said, I personally wouldn't cross that line. As harmless as it can be, that's something you should hold off on pursuing.

i probably should pursue it, just cant help that im mainly attracted to straight guys
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edit; i meant shouldn't
 
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it really depends on the situation and the guy, I always flirt with everyone, but basically because they're all very homophobic and it's so funny. but im still waiting for someone to ask am I really gay and to tell them that there's only one way to find out, and then find out together. it'll happen:)
but whatever you do, do it sober or after a glass or two, while heads are clear, otherwise there's space for second thoughts and friendship ruining tomorrow, but that depends on him... enjoy.
 
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it really depends on the situation and the guy, I always flirt with everyone, but basically because they're all very homophobic and it's so funny. but im still waiting for someone to ask am I really gay and to tell them that there's only one way to find out, and then find out together. it'll happen:)
but whatever you do, do it sober or after a glass or two, while heads are clear, otherwise there's space for second thoughts and friendship ruining tomorrow, but that depends on him... enjoy.

we don't drink
im 18 hes 19^^
 

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I think friends can be for a lot of things.

But usually it's just talking. Laughing, joking. Maybe enjoying a common interest together. Sport, films, an art, eating out. Whatever.

But it has never occurred to me that one of the key obligations of friendship is to suck each others penis.

I do however think that one of the key obligations is not to embarrass each other for spurious, selfish reasons.

Hope This Helps ... :smile:

Yeah. Unless it really is something you think HE wants I wouldn't bring it up.
 

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Try and get into a situation where you're both horny and joke about the idea. If youre both gonna get off does it really matter how.. type of thing. If he's remotely interested you'll get a response.
 

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I've had many friends in my life, both straight and gay, and not one of them has ever offered to suck my dick - and I'm glad I was never put in that position.

I'm not sure how long the friendship could have continued had it ever.

And no, this would not have been a homophobic response, it's just such a stupid thing to do, and I can't bear idiots.

Don't you have other gay or bi friends you get your sexual kicks with?

Why jeapordise this relationship?

Perhaps you don't really mean 'friend', maybe just an acquaintance who you fancied and if he refuses you'll not really care if he drops you?
 

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I mean, I suppose if you already jokingly flirt with him, you can just add in a bj joke as part of your act. But I'd really doubt anything would come of this, and if you pressed the issue, it probably would be disastrous. I mean, imagine if one of your friends (who you aren't attracted to!) suddenly brought up that sort of thing with you and made a big deal out of it. Wouldn't it be weird?
 

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I agree with the "joke about it while horny" idea, and the "just don't" idea.
I was in the situation several times where I wanted to "play" with my friends, but wasn't sure if they would. So, I would joke about it to get a response- either positive or negative. If I got no negative response, I would push the joke further. Just be gradual and cautious. If you get ANY negative response, drop it completely!
This way, you might be able to feel him out more, and you won't be risking your friendship just for a possible dick sucking.
I wish you luck!!
 

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if he makes a first move, go for it!

never push it on him. he'd have to make the first move.

i agree its the safest not to ruin friendship or work atmosphere but what to do if the other guy feels the same, waiting for you to make the move? i even think its much worse if theres this tension if you like him, he will eventually notice you acting strange, which you will.
tehres the option of cooling your feelings down, it works for me, the Time. hang out as much as you can wit this guy, then take a month off, with as little contact but as much thinking about him as possible, to make him look super amazing in your head, then see him again and hang around, and youll see he is not that super cool, but he still is a great guy and then you are just great buddies. it helps me every time...