NineInchCock_160IQ: I tried posting once before the site went down, but then all the posts were deleted so I'm trying again.. Anyway, like almost everyone here I am a well endowed male. I'm not freakishly huge or anything like that.. but I'm probably a good eight and a half inches when fully erect. My problem is this.. though all of my male friends and even people I barely know keep telling me how lucky I am, and what a great thing having a big dick is.. and even though culture seems to reinforce this idea all the time... I haven't really gotten anything out of having a large penis. It's been a nuisance more than anything else. I have a hard time getting dates with girls.. I'm not unattractive but I am very shy and also very busy with school and work full-time. I love sex, am good in bed, and would love to find a nice attractive girl or girls to use me for my big dick. But so far almost all of the women I have been with have had problems with my size.. some complain that vaginal sex is painful, that it makes oral sex difficult, and as far as anal goes.. it's really not even worth broaching the subject. Though almost all of them have noticed and commented on it, only a small handful of the women I have been with have enjoyed my above average endowment- and it has never been a tool that I could use to seduce women in and of itself. That's another thing I get told a lot.. that because of my big dick it should be easy for me to find sex. Simply untrue. Outside of the bedroom my not-so-little friend makes it uncomfortable to wear briefs, awkward wearing boxers, and sometimes dips into the toilet water if I'm not careful sitting down in the restroom. So.. a lot of good it's done me. Anyone else have these problems? Have any suggested solutions? How do I make this supposed blessing actually work for me? More importantly.. are there any cute girls in the Northern VA/DC/MD area who think they can handle a well-endowed man in bed... or is everyone on this site a gay male?