how do i meet you?

[B_subgirrl]

this part of the forum is devoted to women and i hope has a primarily female audience. my question is, how do i meet you all?

i mean it like this... there clearly is an demographic and populace of women who like big men. my question is, where do i find you?

on this site, it seems to be an audience of gay men. sadly, i am straight.

Are you asking how you find women on this site, or how you find women who like big cocks in the real world?

In the real world, my advice would be to hang out with women based on whether you actually like them, then hope you're compatible. (Except on this site) I've never asked anyone their size before screwing them, and if they brought their size up themselves it would probably be an instant turn off. Having said that, I know some of the women here think differently.

On this site, well there's lots of us here in WI. Most of us also venture out into other parts of the site. You have a gallery which may draw in those who are visually stimulated. But I would also advise posting a lot. The men here who I badly want to fuck are friends who I have been talking to for months. We exchange PMs, but lots of our contact, and all of our early contact, was through posts on the forums. Basically, while I really like big cocks, a man's personality comes before his cock on my checklist. When I want to fuck someone, it's because their personality has impressed me.

So......

How is this a woman's issue?

Well men are hardly the best people to answer a question about what women are likely to find appealing on a dating site...

I agree that it's not a woman's issue, however women ARE the best people to answer it. Another instance where we need a 'Ask the women' sub-forum.

I would be interested to understand what women seek to get out of this website - is it merely mutual appreciation or something more, both are more than fine I'm just keen to find out.

Check out this thread:

http://www.lpsg.org/199053-women-what-was-your-reason.html

 

[RawDog]

I agree with subgirrl in that there should be an "Ask a woman" subforum. I've asked it over and over again. I think a good compromise is to move this thread to the "Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy" sub-forum. I know the OP wants a woman's opinion, but I think in this instance, both genders can answer equally well.

Having said all that, I have two things I want to point out. Firstly, the only thing that makes the women here so distinct from the rest of the female population is their outspokenness. Dig in deep enough with almost any woman, you will find the same propensity for the more "raw" nature of sex. Learn to speak more frankly about sex in real life, you'll find your discussions with women almost sounding like you were on the boards.

Secondly, about advertising your size; This wasn't my intention, but I have my keys hanging from my belt by a carabiner hooked on to a cock ring. I used to have it on a belt loop, but the carabiner kept getting snagged. I was rifling through my junk pile and found a cock ring that I never threw out (it was too small and didn't have a use for it). Long story short, I've relayed that handy keychain tale long enough and enough people have heard about it that it's just casual conversation now.

Probably tasteless and classless, but there you have it. Free advertising.

 

[B_subgirrl]

Secondly, about advertising your size; This wasn't my intention, but I have my keys hanging from my belt by a carabiner hooked on to a cock ring. I used to have it on a belt loop, but the carabiner kept getting snagged. I was rifling through my junk pile and found a cock ring that I never threw out (it was too small and didn't have a use for it). Long story short, I've relayed that handy keychain tale long enough and enough people have heard about it that it's just casual conversation now.

Probably tasteless and classless, but there you have it. Free advertising.

Advertising is fine in that case - I'm guessing you tell the tale when they ask what it is that your keys are hanging from? It's OK because you aren't just talking about your cock out of the blue - they asked. My FB does a similar thing.

 

[RawDog]

Advertising is fine in that case - I'm guessing you tell the tale when they ask what it is that your keys are hanging from? It's OK because you aren't just talking about your cock out of the blue - they asked. My FB does a similar thing.

Well put. When you say your FB does a similar thing, how so?

 

[aajjxx]

I always thought it best to keep my endowment hidden until the last second. That way the big dick is a nice surprise, but the reason she was with me in the first place was that she liked me, not my cock. But I don't like hooking up or screwing around, when I was in the market, I was in the market for a mate. I guess if I was whoring around it would be different.

PS - I also LOVE the looks of surprise and sometimes fear when a woman sees 8" hanging from my tiny 5'6, 120 lb frame.

PPS - One thing that's better than finding a size queen is turning a woman who previously thought size didn't matter into a size queen.

 

[B_subgirrl]

Well put. When you say your FB does a similar thing, how so?

We both do medieval recreation. He had a codpiece made true to size. And when people comment, he gets to say that it's NOT false advertising :biggrin1:

 

[petite]

We both do medieval recreation. He had a codpiece made true to size. And when people comment, he gets to say that it's NOT false advertising :biggrin1:

LOL! That's great!

BTW, have you seen Basincreek's parody in the Etc section? I thought it was pretty funny.

 

[B_subgirrl]

LOL! That's great!

BTW, have you seen Basincreek's parody in the Etc section? I thought it was pretty funny.

I have seen it actually. I'll be posting there before the end of the night.

 

[RawDog]

We both do medieval recreation. He had a codpiece made true to size. And when people comment, he gets to say that it's NOT false advertising :biggrin1:

Good one. Hazzah! (My ex is a Rennie).

 

[B_subgirrl]

Good one. Hazzah! (My ex is a Rennie).

ROFL at the huzzah :biggrin1:

 

[IntoxicatingToxin]

yes, but how do you let her know you're huge in a non-offensive manner?

Are you really asking this question? The answer is simple. You don't. If all a woman cares about is penis size, she'll make it known very quickly. If she doesn't ask how big your cock is, or cop a feel at your crotch, she obviously isn't too concerned about it, and you bringing it up is going to turn her off.

wow. this was a simple innocuous question and everybody is getting hostile. not sure why.

I don't see much hostility really. People are probably laughing more than anything.

What they're saying is right...

No self respecting woman is going to drop to her knees the second she discovers you're hung. The women that would, you probably don't really want (even if you think you do at the time)

Like anyone who has something they consider note worthy when looking for a partner, be it large penis or breasts (generally not on the same person, but sometimes!!) a good job, nice house or a shit load of money, you have to attract them by other means - Failure to do so will result in finding partners who only want you for which ever feature you've foisted upon them.

This.

 

[DasLeezard]

Enough about your dick size, sluggo. Can you make cheesecake?

 

[B_Hickboy]

YouTube - Fill your hand...

 

[D_Etienne Neerdowell]

Check out this thread:

http://www.lpsg.org/199053-women-what-was-your-reason.html

Will do.

 

[D_Etienne Neerdowell]

I think the responses here are quite critical of the original poster. He's clearly looking for casual encounters which is not strictly a "women's issue".

Perhaps Admin should have saved him from any grief by moving the post or just maybe this verbal bashing will teach a valuable lesson.

 

[Redheadchi]

Not sure if it has been posted yet but there is a dating website called 7orbetter.com. you could try that.

 

[basincreek]

Has anyone here tried using that service?

 

[D_Connor Condompopper]

yeah. i have. it's lame. a lot of fake profiles.

 

[QOTD]

Yes. I've fucked a few girls from there...you have to be willing to fly them to you since almost no one will live in your town unless you live in LA

 

[D_Connor Condompopper]

what site? i live in LA. i didn't see any women on there that were real or authentic.