how do i pound a girl?

MASSIVEPKGO_CHUCK

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This is an example of one of those dysfunctional threads that are problematic here.

Guy asks an innocent question, gets a first, excellent response from AlteredEgo, then gets smartass responses, putdowns, and comments from people not thinking outside the box or reading between the lines, or otherwise not on-topic, until MASSIVEPKGO_CHUCK redeems herself and then shaq724 gives a great response.

Maybe it's the ESL teacher in me, but I see language issues in his post (likely not the best in English skills), a general type of issue that underlies a lot of threads that end up going off-the-rails here, needlessly.

I think what he means is "how do I fuck my girlfriend really hard?," a natural question given that one can find hundreds to thousands of posts from women here (and comments elswhere, esp. online--many which might be coming from men pretending to be women) talking about how they like getting fucked (really) hard. And he's coming from an inexperienced male mindset (which I had when very young) that that's the way sex goes. Look at the language: nailed, drilled, screwed, banged, rammed, even pounded itself are used commonly as descriptors. What are the analagous "easy" "soft" fucking labels? They're not a big part of the discourse. It's no wonder.

Instead what I consider language pedants--or worse: people trying to show off how bright (read: superior) they are--jump all over the use of the word "pound" rather than giving some thought to (the spirit of) what he's getting at and addressing that. It's not insightful or a display of an expansive intellect to be overly literal and condemning based on the use of one given word. The intelligent thing to do is look beyond the surface and think about the theme of the comment, not merely literal text, and respond to that. That language issue is a major cause of discord in threads that get out of sorts. Obviously this was an innocent question from a guy who presented no other possible agenda, which isn't always the case, of course.

Is it so hard to give a straight answer to a straight question?

A couple of people put the issue in a light that taught him how his thinking might be skewed to help him. Good. But The crap responses are just obnoxious and counterproductive, leading, usually, to replies to themselves making for more wasted time and bandwidth. And potential conflicts between posters.

I'm sure some people will be pissed and that I forgot to commend someone for their helpful post. Whatever. The theme of this post is to use this as an example of recurring problems that produce less effective use of given discussions and the discussion boards in general, a topic that has been under discussion here.
:biggrin: Heh. Didn't know worthless prickbait newbies were in full bloom this late in spring.
Now, my caustic fellow poster, what gives you the right to be overly crass when I just answered this guy's question honestly and without restraint? It would seem tome that you tend to over analyze this thread, posts and site in it's context and then some. I would suggest you concentrate on giving the op more dedication to your replies rather than go on a righteous critique of others if that's at all possible.
 

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How can I make a girls tits jiggle when I fuck? (I found this one entertaining)

Is my dick too small? (a common one that I'll let slide, Google will tell him he is in the average range)

Is my dick shaped funny? (look at about ten different cock pics here and he can answer that on his own with an absolute "no", every dick is different)

Seriously? Really?

And now we add How Do I Pound A Girl to the asinine questions he's asked.

I need a drink...
 

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The first thing is that your dimensions are just about in the middle of the bell curve of size so you are not really small.

When people are not particularly gifted with vast quantities of experience they see something on a screen in a porno movie and think: That looks neat!" "Pounding" per se is not necessarily guaranteed to be 100% pleasurable for either partner and the genders of these partners is not important.

In the beginning what you need to work on is maintaining control and prolonging the experience for as long as possible. Each sex partner is slightly different in what will bring the best satisfaction. The best sex that is best remembered is that where you and your partner both get the most fun from it. "Pounding" in both gay and straight sex most often takes place when two partners who like "kink" participate in activities commonly known as "S&M". The "right" people can derive pleasure from this, but it is as a whole a little less mainstream than you think. Usually people see this in a porn DVD or Vid and want to try it. In those circumstances it is very much "staged" and is more like animals in rut than actual sex.

Learn how to satisfy your partner conventionally before branching out. I can guarantee you that when the time is in fact really "right" for the "S&M" aspects you will have no problems figuring it out and you will respond to that one out of instinct.

If we as a group need to try and instruct you, the truth is that you really aren't ready for it. Give yourself time and allow your true abilities to perceive need of a certain thing to develop. There are women who like things very hard and fast, but they are a definite minority. A five incher is capable of creating great pleasure with only a few exceptions. Those deal with a few anatomical rarities and are so few as to not be an issue. Make the regular sex great and the rougher aspects will develop through learning and experience.

You've gotten a great deal of good advice here. Build technique, find the right person and the rest will happen on it's own.
 
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