How do i properly give a bj

[Mamawolf]

What is a good bj? What are your needs and how would you like that done. Im trying to understand a mans oral sex needs. I enjoy doing it but i want to do it good to my husband. Guys please help! Gay Men know it best. I'VE heard you give a bj better than us females. Please help loves!

 

[pb23ab]

maybe you can ask your husband what he likes to explore by your mouth,

because usually they have different preference, for example some male like when we lick their scrotum, another male like when we just sucking the penis head, or they like to get deepthroat etc etc

the most important thing is communication

 

[Mamawolf]

maybe you can ask your husband what he likes to explore by your mouth,

because usually they have different preference, for example some male like when we lick their scrotum, another male like when we just sucking the penis head, or they like to get deepthroat etc etc

the most important thing is communication

Thank you. I do constantly ask him what he likes....his answer is always "anything". It doesn't give me pointers or guidance as to how a man properly likes it done. If you don't mind me asking; how would you prefer it to be done? I just sorta want an idea. I want to know how to make him orgasm quickly.

 

[pb23ab]

Thank you. I do constantly ask him what he likes....his answer is always "anything". It doesn't give me pointers or guidance as to how a man properly likes it done. If you don't mind me asking; how would you prefer it to be done? I just sorta want an idea. I want to know how to make him orgasm quickly.

watch his reactions, there is married male, that use me as his cock sucker, when i ask him which part that i need to explore with my mouth, he always say that just concentrate on the dick, but on my second meeting he seem like when im concentrating on his inner thighs and his ass

just observe more when you suck your husband dick

 

[deleted907269]

Don't go for it full on, start always slowly and teasing from the balls to the head, then start sucking the head with just wet lips foreplay and increase the intensity and depth till you deepthroat.

Always use your hands to work the balls and the shaft while sucking and increase the intensity slowly if you want his load without getting exhausted. Ps, a blowjob should be noisy and messy too.

 

[find83]

Don't go for it full on, start always slowly and teasing from the balls to the head, then start sucking the head with just wet lips foreplay and increase the intensity and depth till you deepthroat.

Always use your hands to work the balls and the shaft while sucking and increase the intensity slowly if you want his load without getting exhausted. Ps, a blowjob should be noisy and messy too.

I totally agree
This may sound weird but I find most people don't use enough saliva, it can never be too wet . Since he's not giving you any hints listen and watch his reaction if you are doing something and he begins to moan more continue and increase. Also most guys like it when they see their girl enjoying giving head, so show that you like doing it.

 

[Mamawolf]

Thank you all! I appreciate your comments. They are very helpful to me. I love to hear a wide variety of different answers to get a better idea. Is there a special area i should concentrate more on to make him orgasm? I heard it was under the head. And if it is, how do i stimulate it so that he orgasms? Thank you

 

[Mamawolf]

Also what is the best technique for it?

 

[328982]

 

[dad4you]

I found this last year....

 

[Mamawolf]

I found this last year....

Thank you so much, it's very informative. I appreciate it. It was a bit funny too. Does he have more videos? And where can i look?

 

[328982]

I found this last year....

Wow, he's a maestro

 

[328982]

Thank you so much, it's very informative. I appreciate it. It was a bit funny too. Does he have more videos? And where can i look?

This is just my personal preference but by the end I think he's going at it too hard - that could spoil it for me. In my experience a lighter touch is better with tongue action on the underside rather than a vacuum pump approach. Others may disagree!

 

[Brodie888]

The video does a good job with the basics.

I'd add a few other tips.

1. Remember the balls. One hand on balls, one hand on shaft. Gently give them a rub like you are feeling the surface of a raw egg.

2. It's actually a suck job not a blow job. Suck somewhere around the force of drinking a thickshake through a straw.

3. Make it sloppy. Lots of saliva is a good thing.

4. Add a bit of a twist. As you stroke and suck him twist your wrist and head as you slide up and down his cock. The grip needs to be light enough for his skin to slide easily as you move.

5. Fake it till you make it. He will enjoy the BJ much more if he thinks you are getting pleasure from sucking his cock. Asking him if you can suck his dick without having to ask is like music to his ears.

I could go on but I can't give away all the tricks, otherwise staight guys will stop using our services!

I'll give you one last tip though for a man who can't tell you what he likes. Get him to hold your shoulder, tell him to squeeze tighter the better something feels.

The most accurate measure is the firmness of his erection. The firmness will naturally fluctuate based on what you are doing. if what you are doing makes him harder, keep doing what you are doing at exactly the same pace.

 

[evolution]

I always feel if you're using hands you're cheating. It's oral sex, I prefer it done with the mouth.
Teeth - please, watch the teeth. OUCH.
The deeper in the better it feels.
Definitely, gentle firm tugs on the nuts. A thumb rolling / massaging (gently) my nuts is icing on the cake.

 

[2xistTrunks]

Definitely, gentle firm tugs on the nuts. A thumb rolling / massaging (gently) my nuts is icing on the cake.

Second this. Most guys enjoy having their nuts played with, and some even like them sucked and/or licked. It's best to ask, as some enjoy it more than others.