How do I stop getting erections when I get naked in public

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I love nudity but I can't stop getting semi's when nude. I want to separate the experience of being nude from sexual arousal.


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After a few nude experiences in saunas I'm truly converted. Being fully nude around other men has helped me get over body dysmorphia and just made me feel way more comfortable with my body in general.

I want to go to more nude saunas because there is really nothing like boiling hot air being wafted on your exposed genitals by men with giant leaves.

The only problem is, for years now, I have been unable to get fully nude without getting at least semi-hard.

Sometimes, I manage to stay flaccid. Generally, it's once I get over the initial 5 minutes of increased bloodflow, im back to normal. Thats how I managed to do these nude sauna experiences, I sat nude in the corner with my legs positioned so no one could see I have a semi. Eventually it gets easier.

I've been "practicing" being fully nude in locker rooms and showers, and sometimes I feel like it's getting better. But I still get a semi about 50% of the time.

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Has anyone had similar experiences? Have you ever had problems with sexual arousal when nude but wanted to get over it for the benefits of being nude in non-sexual experiences? How long did it take?
 

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I used to get erections during prolonged nudity into my early 30s. It never seemed to bother anyone and in fact, in shower situations, after I got hard it was not unusual to see one or two other guys getting hard. It just kind of stopped on its own and probably will with you, too.
 

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I've known of 2 people who seemingly got erections every time they were nude in the showers
One was a guy that was in my Army barracks. Every time I saw him in the showers his dick was pointing outward. One time it was just the 2 of us in the showers. I got soap in my eyes. I had my eyes closed as I was walking out of the showers. I didn't realize I was so close to him, I actually brushed up against his outward pointing dick as I walked past him. Neither of us said anything about it.
Another time seeing a guy with an erection every time he took off his clothes. He didn't act embarrassed or try to hide it. This was in a gym locker room. But I don't think I ever saw these 2 guys that their dick wasn't pointing outward. Neither of them seemed bothered about their dicks pointing outward.
 

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I have this same issue. If I even TALK about nudity, I get instantly hard, and I cannot make it go away. This is why I have never gone to a nude beach or spa, for the fear I will be hard the whole time and be judged
 
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Don’t stop! I often do just that intentionally and as you have noticed boners are contagious (which proves that ALL men check out every dick in the room.
I find it extremely manly to show off one’s throbbing cock in a casual and chill way.
It shows self confidence, potency and alfa manliness to not hide nervously before other men.
Enjoy showing it openly - because 90% of all males present will too! (Again, just look how they immediately start swelling too.
 

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Don’t stop! I often do just that intentionally and as you have noticed boners are contagious (which proves that ALL men check out every dick in the room.
I find it extremely manly to show off one’s throbbing cock in a casual and chill way.
It shows self confidence, potency and alfa manliness to not hide nervously before other men.
Enjoy showing it openly - because 90% of all males present will too! (Again, just look how they immediately start swelling too.
i mean i dont really care about alphaness lol
i just want other guys to feel comfortable being nude too because being nude is great. if people think i am making it sexual they wont feel comfortable being nude and thats a shame. obviously its not my job to make them comfortable but i do want to help people discover how great nudity can be in a non sexual light!
 

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I love nudity but I can't stop getting semi's when nude. I want to separate the experience of being nude from sexual arousal.


My story:

After a few nude experiences in saunas I'm truly converted. Being fully nude around other men has helped me get over body dysmorphia and just made me feel way more comfortable with my body in general.

I want to go to more nude saunas because there is really nothing like boiling hot air being wafted on your exposed genitals by men with giant leaves.

The only problem is, for years now, I have been unable to get fully nude without getting at least semi-hard.

Sometimes, I manage to stay flaccid. Generally, it's once I get over the initial 5 minutes of increased bloodflow, im back to normal. Thats how I managed to do these nude sauna experiences, I sat nude in the corner with my legs positioned so no one could see I have a semi. Eventually it gets easier.

I've been "practicing" being fully nude in locker rooms and showers, and sometimes I feel like it's getting better. But I still get a semi about 50% of the time.

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Has anyone had similar experiences? Have you ever had problems with sexual arousal when nude but wanted to get over it for the benefits of being nude in non-sexual experiences? How long did it take?
Its something that happens I guess to a lot of guys but I never let it worry me. A semi looks good when you strip off, prick perk if you like but once "it" realises there's no action down it goes to a mini chub.
Happens to me in the gym at the lockers, especially in the showers, stripping off at a nude beach and in the sauna. Nature will do what nature does and usually the new found unclothed freedom expresses itself in a flaccid member
 

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I've been "practicing" being fully nude in locker rooms and showers, and sometimes I feel like it's getting better. But I still get a semi about 50% of the time.
We are programmed by society to equate nudity with sex. Some guys get hard when they are ALONE, the minute they are naked.

As others have said here, the more you expose yourself to group nudity (or even nudity alone in your home), the less you will respond. You will become de-sensitized.

Most people who are confident enough to visit a nudist venue report that after 5 or 15 minutes, they are unaware of their own nudity.
 

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I love nudity but I can't stop getting semi's when nude. I want to separate the experience of being nude from sexual arousal.


My story:

After a few nude experiences in saunas I'm truly converted. Being fully nude around other men has helped me get over body dysmorphia and just made me feel way more comfortable with my body in general.

I want to go to more nude saunas because there is really nothing like boiling hot air being wafted on your exposed genitals by men with giant leaves.

The only problem is, for years now, I have been unable to get fully nude without getting at least semi-hard.

Sometimes, I manage to stay flaccid. Generally, it's once I get over the initial 5 minutes of increased bloodflow, im back to normal. Thats how I managed to do these nude sauna experiences, I sat nude in the corner with my legs positioned so no one could see I have a semi. Eventually it gets easier.

I've been "practicing" being fully nude in locker rooms and showers, and sometimes I feel like it's getting better. But I still get a semi about 50% of the time.

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Has anyone had similar experiences? Have you ever had problems with sexual arousal when nude but wanted to get over it for the benefits of being nude in non-sexual experiences? How long did it take?
This really ought to be a non-issue. If you're naked, you might get hard. So what? If anyone comments just smile and say, "Yeah, the damn thing has a mind of its own." I promise that'll work.
 

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I have this same issue. If I even TALK about nudity, I get instantly hard, and I cannot make it go away. This is why I have never gone to a nude beach or spa, for the fear I will be hard the whole time and be judged
From what I see you'd be judged favorably.
 
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Being nude around others in a non-sexual way is awesome! It took me some getting used to as well, but now I'm very comfortable with being nude. Even in public. Love going to saunas, nudist beaches, you name it. :)

The thing is: the more you think about this, the bigger the chances are you will indeed get a a semi. Being focussed on not getting hard often results in the opposite.

My advise would be not to think too much. If it happens around others, laugh it away ("it's got a mind of its own") and nobody will be offended. Keep "practising"! Make no big deal about being nude around others and you'll get used to it 100%. And visit nudist spots in Summer! Go early when it's still quiet and don't be shy.

Side note: at some point I had the exact opposite... I needed to "train" myself allowing getting hard on say a nudist beach when the occasion was there :p

Cheers from Amsterdam!
 

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It is called being young. Those of us who are a little older we once were that way, now, we are older, we still want sex all the time, our bodies just can’t keep up or keep HIM up like we could and you can.
Enjoy it. Don’t blow cum everywhere, that is rude, pre-cum leaking is fine. If you cum hands free, just clean it up, don’t make a big deal out of it.
Don’t play with yourself to get or stay hard, don’t hide that you are hard, everyone sees it.
Every dude out there has been hard in public either with jeans on or nude. We get hard easily when young. Us older guys wish it happened to us more often now. It is normal and health.
 

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Being nude around others in a non-sexual way is awesome! It took me some getting used to as well, but now I'm very comfortable with being nude. Even in public. Love going to saunas, nudist beaches, you name it. :)

The thing is: the more you think about this, the bigger the chances are you will indeed get a a semi. Being focussed on not getting hard often results in the opposite.

My advise would be not to think too much. If it happens around others, laugh it away ("it's got a mind of its own") and nobody will be offended. Keep "practising"! Make no big deal about being nude around others and you'll get used to it 100%. And visit nudist spots in Summer! Go early when it's still quiet and don't be shy.

Side note: at some point I had the exact opposite... I needed to "train" myself allowing getting hard on say a nudist beach when the occasion was there :p

Cheers from Amsterdam!
ahah thanks, ive never been to a nude beach... goals! Theres one in jersey thats not too hard to get to but really I want to go to Europe and check out some there because I feel like it'd make me way more comfortable. Nudity in the US is just a different vibe than nudity in europe lol
 

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ahah thanks, ive never been to a nude beach... goals! Theres one in jersey thats not too hard to get to but really I want to go to Europe and check out some there because I feel like it'd make me way more comfortable. Nudity in the US is just a different vibe than nudity in europe lol
I've heard good things about Gunisson Beach, it's on my list. :) Have you been to Blacks Beach near La Jolla? Tha'ts one of my favorites in California. There's another beautiful pristine beach south of SF that runs for miles... can't think of the name now.

But true, in Europe there's a different vibe indeed. Especially in countries like Spain and France, where nudist beaches are pretty common. If you have the chance, go for it!

I've been to quite a few nudist resorts in west USA; people are always friendly and welcoming. Don't know if there are any in your area, but might be a good start as well. They know the drill of getting comfortable ;)