How do men feel about sex toys?

[KTF40]

Have you evel felt self conscious about your penis size when a womans favourite toy is thicker and longer than you?

Hasn't happend yet, but yeah definitely. I probably wouldn't be interested in the girl anymore if this was the case.

As for the other toys, pretty indifferent about them. Female masturbation in general doesn't really do anything for me, but I'll still play along and help if she wants my assistance.

 

[hungscot]

Doesnt bother me tbh. Obviously it is nice to know that you are the largest things going in your partner, but its not something i get hung up about - and tbh, im larger than all her toys (except the make-your-own-dildo kilt she's yet to use! lol).

She wasnt interested in toys until i bought her some. Only one she has bigger than me is her double ender, though im girthier. Ive raised the question of big toys but she reckons she couldnt take it.

 

[RawDog]

One of my wife's toys is longer, but thinner, than me. Oddly, she says she feels nothing when she hits that deep spot and rarely sticks it in all the way.

 

[MrStarr]

In my BDSM-world (/playground :salook: ) all toys are My tools. I "force" my girl to use them on herself, as a "show" for me, and also uses them on her during play. I could never be jealous of a toy, beacuse i always control the situation when we play/have sex.

Ofcourse she uses the toys alone, but i dont have a problem with that. Then she's warmed up, and hopefully already sore and sensitive so i can drive her crazy with little effort later on *hehe*

And btw i use the cam as toy by myself, (as mentioned in my profile) and she has no problem with that, as long she gets what she needs...

 

[dolfette]

every ''quote mark'' i had an image of dr evil.

 

[FeroxFemina]

Wish I could get my wife interested in using a sex toy....

You could try buying her vouchers from somewhere like Ann Summers? Not sure if thats available near you but somewhere similar perhaps where she can have a look around and simply buy lingerie or can check out the toy section?

Any ladies agree or have a better suggestion?

 

[Stacy_lee]

Any guy that doesnt let me do toys does not know what he is missing

anyways on the question in hand, let him be apart of it

 

[petite]

My husband and I have been using sex toys for the past four months or so. When I first brought the subject up, it did not go well. After a few mixed up days, we were able to discuss the situation and he took me to the toy store. We now have a small collection of vib's for me and a few cockrings for him. I also have a few other small toys. We bought a few vids, but haven't watched them yet. Now that he understands my desire for the toys, he's totally into them and likes using them on me. We want to get a swing and some other furniture in the future. So all turned out well. I hope men reading this that are not comfortable with toys will understand that many woman need them to climax. It is not just about the guy or his size, shape or lovemaking abilities. Plus, they can be sooooooo very fun.

I would love it if you could add any of your opinions to the sex toy thread! It would be appreciated! :smile:

We have 2 toy chests full of delightful toys and supplies. I like using vibrators and other toys on my partners. The toys help with foreplay and arousal. Their also fun to use in their own right.

Wow! Maybe you could add some of your opinions to the sex toy thread, too? There's men's sex toys in there, too.

Hasn't happend yet, but yeah definitely. I probably wouldn't be interested in the girl anymore if this was the case.

As for the other toys, pretty indifferent about them. Female masturbation in general doesn't really do anything for me, but I'll still play along and help if she wants my assistance.

Dildos are almost always long. The assumption is that a woman will only use as many inches as she feels like, and the extra length provides a good handle for playtime. A woman who owns a long dildo doesn't necessarily seek out penises that long!

every ''quote mark'' i had an image of dr evil.

Ha! :lmao:

You could try buying her vouchers from somewhere like Ann Summers? Not sure if thats available near you but somewhere similar perhaps where she can have a look around and simply buy lingerie or can check out the toy section?

Any ladies agree or have a better suggestion?

I thought this was a great idea!

 

[MrStarr]

every ''quote mark'' i had an image of dr evil.

Ill' take that as a compliment.. (littlefinger to mouth...)

 

[TheRob]

This is a question for anyone but is aimed at the straight and bi men whose female partners like sex toys.

Are you jealous or annoyed? Would you rather replace the use of the toy? Have you evel felt self conscious about your penis size when a womans favourite toy is thicker and longer than you?

What about sex machines, sybians and monkey rockers?


And if you have any male sex toys, e.g. a flesh light or a dildo or your own, do you hide it from your partner?

I don't care as long as she isn't using the toy like behind my back
I would rather be the one giving her the orgasms then the toy but it dosn't botther me if she uses a toy (particularly if I am not around)
I have never known a woman to have a toy thicker or longer then me
sex machine is cool if I'm present, preferably at the controls actually : o ) but again I'd rather it was me then the toy because hell we are both having sex then! twice as good right

 

[TheRob]

My friends bf threw her vibrator out on the street, saying that she didn't need it and that she had him and yet I believe he had a porn stash.

My ex had a suitcase full of magazines, dvd's etc and he was surprised that I wasn't mad when I found out, he was even more surprised when I asked if I could have a look through them!

to be fair, porn and a sexual device are different
porn is really just replacing imagination where as a sexual device is replacing a lover

 

[dolfette]

porn is really just replacing imagination where as a sexual device is replacing a lover

just like your right hand is.

 

[OCMuscleJock]

Toys are GREAT!!! and sometimes better when you dont wanna have to deal with anyone else..lol
also... you dont have to do dinner or a movie to have your way with them...
you dont have to make them leave afterwards...
you dont have to worry about them stealing your favorite hat or shirt when they leave...GRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!! *i hate that*
also...they are always hard and ready to go at a moments notice OR depending on the type of toy... can take a pounding without complaining its too big..slow down...wah wah wah!

 

[B_quietguy]

to be fair, porn and a sexual device are different
porn is really just replacing imagination where as a sexual device is replacing a lover

hah! No sexual device can replace a real human being. If you asked women whether they would rather have man's penis inside them or a sex toy, I'd bet most would say a penis.

 

[MickeyLee]

i can't imagine being threatened by or jealous of a sex toy

how would my partners masturbatory habits have any reflection on our relationship or how they value me?

i could see if masturbation was becoming a substitute for the physical intimacy lacking in our relationship. but umm in that case, there are bigger problems than a dildo that need dealing with.

and a toy used in our friskiness? i got the boy a fleshlight and i've figured out heaps of new games to play with a fleshlight, a vibrating egg and one very willing boy :biggrin: any toys i am bringing in are just to enhance the goings on, not to augment what's lacking.

huge giggles from the all the boy comparing their penii to toy size
:big laugh:

 

[BigDallasDick8x6]

I love all my sex toys. Except when they knock at my door at 5am after a night of partying, wanting to get fucked. But they are so hot I usually forgive them.

 

[MickeyLee]

I love all my sex toys. Except when they knock at my door at 5am after a night of partying, wanting to get fucked. But they are so hot I usually forgive them.

aaawww ya so sweet
:kiss:

 

[TheRob]

just like your right hand is.

but my right hand (or left for some other people) is a part of my body
a toy isn't

 

[dolfette]

but my right hand (or left for some other people) is a part of my body
a toy isn't

ok, so wanking is ok but wanking with lube or handcream isn't?
some guys mattress hump instead, so they wouldn't be allowed to wank.

this is discriminatory, because some women find it so damn hard or even impossible to orgasm from fingers alone.
many need a vibe in order to make masturbation worthwhile.

 

[B_Jules7]

In my experience, women with sex toys are far more liberated, in touch with their bodies, know what they want and cum more easily. They also tend to be more open minded to trying new things.

I find it a turn on if she introduces a toy, or If I see one hiding in the drawer while getting condoms/lube. The size thing has never bothered me. I have often bought toys with previous partners, or given them as gifts.