How do my size reaction experiences add up?

[growtoshow]

Hi all,

So I've always been sceptical of the "average" sizes published and I have good reason why.

I'm curious to know how do your experiences stack up to mine, have I had extremely bad luck or are we being lied to!

I had a 7.5"x5.3" penis initially, a few girls were impressed but that's when we were 18-21. After ~21 when girls naturally started increasing their body count I have NEVER had a single girl since be even that happy with it never mind impressed! No over exaggeration here, I've had comments like

"Well it's not exactly big is it"

"It's not like small or anything, it's fine for me don't worry"

You get the idea...

I haven't had any improvement in this since increasing to 8" x 5.5" either, I haven't slept with huge amounts of girls I would say 10-12 probably, so, basing it on those numbers...

If we are to believe ~5" x ~4.75" is average and anything over ~7.5" x 6" is unlikely, shouldn't the majority of girls I've slept with consider me one of the larger and at least a couple consider me the biggest?

 

[swooooooosh]

Just curious - how the hell did you increase your size?

 

[growtoshow]

Just curious - how the hell did you increase your size?

Jelqing, stretches (mainly using a traction device but also some manually by hand), pumping and most recently added hanging and clamping.

There's a lot of PE threads on here that can go in to more detail, it took lots of time and dedication BTW it wasn't like a few months and it grew but slowly slowly you can increase it a bit.

 

[marriedasian]

your data pool is too small. 10-12 girls is no basis for ANYTHING...

you need up your count to at least 50 or so and spread it across different ages, races, social circles, economic circles, and perhaps even throw in a few married ones too.

 

[growtoshow]

your data pool is too small. 10-12 girls is no basis for ANYTHING...

you need up your count to at least 50 or so and spread it across different ages, races, social circles, economic circles, and perhaps even throw in a few married ones too.

That's is true, is it not still odd though that those 10-12 girls all seemed to have experienced larger than me more frequently than smaller That's why I wanted to see if this is a common experience or if that's just what I happened to find.

I'm terrible at maths and averages etc... but I am just very surprised by what I found. I guess I'll see if I get enough responses!

Thanks for your input

 

[Gj816]

I think you're putting way too much emphasis on your expectations that women are going to feed your ego.

It's been my experience that with women what counts is if you're a good lover. If you're bringing your "A" game to the bedroom. If you're making them orgasm. More than anything else, what will tell you that you're a good fuck is if they're coming back for second and more.

I've been with women who've been with men with bigger dicks than mine, who have said he was a lousy fuck. Having a big dick doesn't necessarily make a man a good lay. Likewise, there are men who are not as big as I am who know exactly how to please the women they are with.

If you are leaving them exhausted and they are asleep not long after you're done fucking. You've given them a good fuck and they'll be back for more of the same. That is the ego boost that's way better than them telling you you've got a big dick. No woman wants to sleep with a selfish lover. You make her feel desirable, make her haveing orgasms your priority. Trust me they'll definitely be boosting your ego by wanting more of you and your dick.

With us men, we're visual creatures. We get off watching her pussy take our dicks. Watching their eyes roll back in their heads as we bring them to orgasm. Feeling their bodies quiver while we're eating their pussy. Nothing sounds better to me than hearing the woman I've just brought to orgasm eating her pussy scream "FUCK ME".
Women are not the visual creatures we men are. They are more mental. It's how we make them feel while we're making love to them. You make love to them the first time, like it's the only time you're going to get the chance to prove yourself. Give her the fuck of her life. Talk about ego boost. I've had women tell me "you're the first man to ever make love to me". That's a serious ego boost.

 

[Evenflow618]

I don’t believe you are 7.5 by 5.3. Most women would tell you have a long penis and good girth if that truly was your size. Show proof because too many men are deceptive about their size.

 

[marriedasian]

That's is true, is it not still odd though that those 10-12 girls all seemed to have experienced larger than me more frequently than smaller That's why I wanted to see if this is a common experience or if that's just what I happened to find.

perhaps those 10-12 girls are of the same demographic? or pretty close? we tend to like a certain "type" of women/men and tend to go for the same ones over and over (blonde, big titties, blue eyes...).

for example, when i was young and word got out that i had a big dick, all the white girls with asian fetishes came my way. i thought i was the "shits" and could pull any girl... wrong! i was shocked when i found out that there were white girls that had zero interest in asian men no matter how big my dick was. "how is this possible?!"... lols at myself thinking back... my point is that you're pool of women may be creating a false sense of perspective for you.

Add another 30+ girls/women to your belt and then come back.

 

[deleted22352871]

You're measuring length not girth and girls care about girth. If you go to calc.sd 5.3 girth for western average is top 20%. I was 5x6 and girls told me I'm their biggest

 

[Ranxerox]

No offense, but you are measuring wrong I think. High percentiles in both length and girth (mid shaft - don't be one of those base measurement guys). Both stats are rare.

Roxx.