How do older gays feel about showing 35 yr old first time?

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So I am brand new to this site … and to this side of the field. I have always been curious. Ive gotten a few messages from some guys my age - with really direct questions. I don’t mind the questions. But the vibe i got wasn’t all that exciting. I feel i would be a lot more excited if it were someone older than me with not so high expectations for a first timer who seems to like penis.

are older gays into this sort of thing? Showing a newcomer around a bit.
 
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So I am brand new to this site … and to this side of the field. I have always been curious. Ive gotten a few messages from some guys my age - with really direct questions. I don’t mind the questions. But the vibe i got wasn’t all that exciting. I feel i would be a lot more excited if it were someone older than me with not so high expectations for a first timer who seems to like penis.

are older gays into this sort of thing? Showing a newcomer around a bit.
I’m sure you can find a guy who can help you out. And don’t worry about being inexperienced— that only makes it more enticing! (For the record, I’m not interested in doing anything myself, but I’m happy to share tips, experiences, or whatever else would be helpful.)

The real question is what you want. If I’m hearing you right, it sounds like you may not be 100% of the answer but you want to explore. Is that a fair statement?

If you wanna chat privately, feel free to DM me—
 
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I’m sure you can find a guy who can help you out. And don’t worry about being inexperienced— that only makes it more enticing! (For the record, I’m not interested in doing anything myself, but I’m happy to share tips, experiences, or whatever else would be helpful.)

The real question is what you want. If I’m hearing you right, it sounds like you may not be 100% of the answer but you want to explore. Is that a fair statement?

If you wanna chat privately, feel free to DM me—
Thanks so much! Once i figure out how to dm. I will send you a message. Been trying to figure that out for a few minutes now. Lol.
 
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So I am brand new to this site … and to this side of the field. I have always been curious. Ive gotten a few messages from some guys my age - with really direct questions. I don’t mind the questions. But the vibe i got wasn’t all that exciting. I feel i would be a lot more excited if it were someone older than me with not so high expectations for a first timer who seems to like penis.

are older gays into this sort of thing? Showing a newcomer around a bit.
My own response is YES – there are older guys like me who are looking for younger guys who want to be coached or mentored, and introduced to new things. Taking a slower pace would be extremely appealing to someone like me. It would be enjoyable for me to answer YOUR questions, rather than expect you to only answer lots of MY questions.

Obviously both guys – the younger, curious one and the older, mentor one – are motivated by and desiring physical and sexual connection. But in this type of "first time" situation, the building of a friendship relationship would move more cautiously before things get too physical. Finding an older man who understands this and is willing to be patient might not be so easy. But you deserve to have your first time, and your first M2M relationship, be on your terms – without pressure and definitely without fear. Be honest (as you have been in your post here) and keep looking for someone who agrees with you, and who will treat you right.
 

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So I am brand new to this site … and to this side of the field. I have always been curious. Ive gotten a few messages from some guys my age - with really direct questions. I don’t mind the questions. But the vibe i got wasn’t all that exciting. I feel i would be a lot more excited if it were someone older than me with not so high expectations for a first timer who seems to like penis.

are older gays into this sort of thing? Showing a newcomer around a bit.
i love guys who are doing their first time--they want to go at a slow pace like i do not like alot of guys want to rush and get it done--what you curious about doing?--we are on opposites sides of country but still if wanna talk we can