How do people think that...

Discussion in 'Et Cetera, Et Cetera' started by IntoxicatingToxin, May 21, 2007.

  1. IntoxicatingToxin

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    This qualifies as normal, everyday conversation?!?! Why do people feel the need to share this information with perfect strangers? And was my response wrong? I mean, I guess I could've been more open-minded, but seriously... This is the entirety of my conversation with this young man.
     

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  2. lemont77

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    Christ...that's not cool.
     
  3. rob_just_rob

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    1) Sounds like fantasy material to me. I hope.
    2) Even if true, it was possibly communicated with the intent that you might respond with something equally "exciting".
    3) This is the internet. Many people assume that anyone chatting on a sexually themed site (this one can be interpreted to be such) wants to talk about sex, immediately.
    4) Thank you for reminding me why I don't chat anymore.
     
  4. Gillette

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    Nothing wrong with your response.
     
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    Definitely some might sick fucks out there.
     
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    I'm just hoping it's no one who hangs on here a lot.
     
  7. Blocko

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    I think my brain just threw up a little reading that.
     
  8. CajunInjector

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    I think you handled it fine.
     
  9. MASSIVEPKGO_CHUCK

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    Well, right off the bat, your response was just fine, and the young man in question has had either an unusual childhood, or a vivid imagination.
    Don't sweat it too much there, Meg, some people just have no restraint with regards to topics this primarily because they were brought up believing from a young age that this sort of behaviour is acceptable to no matter who.
     
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    There's no good recovery to that. It's a horrible thing to hear, and even more horrible, he thinks it's ok!!!
     
  11. Yorkie

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    It's why I've never used the chatroom.Whether it's fantasy or reality I'm not interested in stories of incest or child abuse.
    My impression is that too many people just use these places to be offensive.
     
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    It is not that you are too old to know better; the guy either has issues stemming from actual abuse as a youth or is one sick fuck. At this point, and undoubtedly because I am a little jaded I would go with him being sick.
     
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    [quote=Blocko;832198] I think my brain just threw up a little reading that. Mine Too!

    [quote=lemont77;832209] There's no good recovery to that. It's a horrible thing to hear, and even more horrible, he thinks it's ok!!! YUP!

     
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    LPSG's chatroom has always been about 80% shitheaded.

    Though I've had worse encounters than TMM (I'm sure we all have)... including a few that I really wish I would've alerted the authorities to. But I didn't because (1) I didn't want to bring harm to LPSG and (2) I was too lazy. That makes me feel selfish and guilty as I think about it now. Guess I'm no better.

    If this site goes down, it'll be the chatroom's doing. It always is, on every site I've ever been on that found itself in legal trouble.
     
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    I don't think you reacted badly - I think I would have just stopped the conversation after he first mentioned it, mainly because I believe it is a sick fantasy - I would have just left with no comment. The way he presented it he was not looking for council, sdvice, a shoulder to cry on - nah, you did fine.

    As to whether this is OK chat material - um NO!!! but there you go - it's an internet thing - Be it fantasy or reality you're posting about, you can hide and be open at the same time. Echoing many of the above - this is why I do not chat..
     
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    good grief, you handled it fine my dear. That is sick, and sad that something of that nature happens...what a great way to start the day!
     
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    I disagree... I doubt this site is going down for the chat room.... Meg probably reported this guy... she isn't stupid.
     
  19. Mr. Snakey

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    I would take this with a grain of salt. So often people are mearly playing fantasy roles. The first few sentences of the conversation i would have ended the conversation. You can usually tell were someone is going in that short of time:cool:
     
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