ok...I know that my stats say I'm 70% straight and 30% gay, but I tend to identify myself as straight, with some gay courosity...any way....I have been hit on by a couple of gay guys and it really didn't bother me too much....however, once I told them (this has happened several times) that I wasn't really interested, they proceeded to crank up the flirting. I was at a friend of a friends apt. one night on campus of the university here, and was sitting around shooting the shit with my friend and with their friend...I went into the situation knowing fully well that this guy was gay, and I had no problem with that...anyway my friend was called away and myself and my new aquaintace(sp?) were sitting in his living room chilling out...as soon as our friend leaves the apt., this guy moves closer to me....everythings fine so far...well we started talking about sex and stuff and he says he's gay and that he has the hots for me. I say that I am flattered, but thats not my thing. I thought that this was the end of the conversation and that what I said clearly stated my choices. Well next thing I know this guy has moved and is now sitting in the oversized chair I was in, and I was uncomfortable with my situation, and before I can get up and move, or say anything, he starts rubbing his hand all up and down my inner thigh, and leans in like he wants a kiss... I'll have to admit that this freaked me out and I jumped up and said I have to go, and just walked out the door. It wasn't the fact that he was gay and had a thing for me, it was the fact that he pushed the envelope further than was necessary, and it freaked me out, and over reacted by hauling ass outta there...anyhow....what was the question??? oh yeah, I would think that a gay guy hitting on me was cool and even flattering, but he went a step too far, and after that night, I had nothing to do with him anymore, which was a shame, because we shared many of the same interests....