How do straight guys feel about being check out by gay guys?

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just a curiousity. How do you really feel about gay men checking you out? What would your reaction be if they gave you a compliment?


Let me spare you, I see you're new, welcome.

It's hard, but this question gets asked weekly by new guys. Good intentions.

The straight guys understandingly get annoyed.

Very sore subject, happy posting.
 
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I think I have responded before to similar queries. No matter. If a gay man respects my boundaries, really, who cares. The simple fact is on many levels gay men are more interesting to visit and have a beer/drink with. They are well versed on an array of subjects, and engaging. I have sat and visited on several occasions with gay men-a nice time. They all understood I was heterosexual. Not a problem-we laughed, had some drinks, good conversations. I have no problems with anyones sexuality at all-one caveat. Pedophiles and sexual offenders. Enough said.
 

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just a curiousity. How do you really feel about gay men checking you out? What would your reaction be if they gave you a compliment?

Flattered/thankful. I wouldn't go gay over it, but compliments are always flattering.
 

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It doesn't bother me at all. I view it as a compliment, and I'll take a compliment from anyone! When I get a message here from a gay guy, I just usually respond with a) thank him for the compliment, and b) I clarify that I really am 100% straight. After that, some guys say, "I wish that you were gay" (or something like that) and I also take that as another compliment.
 

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I like showing off on LPSG and like the photo comments and likes... in the gym I'm a little more shy not sure why but I'm flattered if a dude checked me out however I haven't really noticed that I get checked out in real life or maybe just haven't paid that much attention
 

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I like showing off on LPSG and like the photo comments and likes... in the gym I'm a little more shy not sure why but I'm flattered if a dude checked me out however I haven't really noticed that I get checked out in real life or maybe just haven't paid that much attention
I'm the same. I love getting likes and comments but in person I'm very shy to show.
 

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If your gay, straight or bisexual, you should enjoy being complimented or being checked out by anyone who does, because lets face it, not everyone finds everyone attractive.What you find attractive might be very unattractive to another person. When you at times feel attractive, someone else might find you very unattractive. You won't get people checking you out and complimenting you all the time, so anyone who finds you attractive, I say...enjoy the attention. ;)
Great point never though that deep about it thanks for the incite :)
 

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BTDT. I tell them I'm flattered, but I am not interested and that I am straight, and married. never had a problem, don't expect I ever will.
 

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BTDT. I tell them I'm flattered, but I am not interested and that I am straight, and married. never had a problem, don't expect I ever will.

I can admire your big cock - and even be obsessed with it - without wanting to interact with it. Lots of straight dudes get fascinations with studs' dicks in porn.
 

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just a curiousity. How do you really feel about gay men checking you out? What would your reaction be if they gave you a compliment?
Same s with any compliment... Flattered.... If they want anything more than to compliment me I'd obviously explain, and I'd probably say thank you?