How do straight members feel about the gay members?

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  1. balboajo

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    A question for you straight (or mostly straight) guys: How do you feel being on a site with lots of gay men who like to look at your cock gallery and talk about sex with men? Does it please you in a non-sexual way to have sraight and gay men admire your cock?
     
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    Well I can't answer that because I'm gay but judging by some other recent threads you may have just opened a can of worms. I may be wrong but time will tell.
     
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    Coming from the mostly straight perspective, I actually don't have any cock shots on here but I am sure it is a case of people like to be admired....I think guys like assurance and sometimes I think we need our egos stroked....And I am sure it is much easier to talk to guys about guy issues than the ladies, at least that is my opinion....I use the board as a learning experience and I have definitely become alot more comfortable w/myself....Also is is somewhat theraputic....I share some things on here that I don't even share w/my best friends....People are people - gay or straight....
     
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    I may be in a minority here, but I am a male. We all like to discuss our love muscle and I have learned a lot here at LPSG. Additionally, I would like to think that I have provided some information to others. We are a support group first and last.

    I am 100 percent straight. Some of my post have reported experimental activity with members of the same sex in my tender formative years. I do believe that is a valid part of growing up and/or reaching maturity.

    I do believe that the majority here appreciate the male penis. I know I do, and I have a rather nice gallery, if I may say so myself.

    In summary, we are all males, and we all appreciate the male form, i. e. a penis. A review of art work of years gone by reveals that the human race has always appreciated the nude male body, just as it has appreciated the nude female body. I recall with great fond memories my visit to the Vatican and other places of great Art in Europe when I was much younger.

    I sincerely believe that we all can appreciate each other.

    I continue to enjoy life.
     
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    I don't have a "cock gallery", but I do get occasional compliments on the pics I do have (or have had). Nothing wrong with compliments. It doesn't bother me.
     
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    There are gays on this site???:eek:
     
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    Yeah and I watched you great new video earlier :yikes:
     
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    It doesn't matter to me if someone I enjoy discourse with or read his posts is str8 or gay. End of story. Really, I just don't understand why some people think a person's sexuality is relevant to anything outside the bedroom.
     
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    I personally dont have any pictures but have found that I dont agree with the prospect of being gay that I dont find mself disliking them cause i have learned alot of what i know about the male anatomy from talking to gay males.
     
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    I am ashamed to admit that I previously thought and behaved like what many gays would think was a homophobe!:eek: :eek: :eek:

    Since learning about homosexuals on this site and exchanging PMs, and replies in threads, I now find that I rather like homosexuals in general.
    I would even like to find some homosexual friends other than the ones I've made on this site.
    The main difference that homosexuals have from heteros is that they're not interested in vaginas and breasts, otherwise we have similar interests.
    The flirting that goes on is interestng to me because I think that a similar approach would work well with the ladies, so I usually take notes.:tongue:
    Learning about what turns gays on is an education but confirms to myself that I am purely hetero, I just don't get turned on by the same things!

    If and when I post some photos of my manhood, I think that, like NineInchCock_160IQ, I'd be very flattered by the attention that I might get from gays - since gays are usually fashion pioneers with an eye for what looks good, any compliment about my looks from them has added value!

    Usually I don't think about sexual orientation when reading posts unless there is a biased opinion because we are all males after all, with similar concerns.

    I only have a problem with narrow minded gays that can't tolerate heteros' sexual preferences but luckily they are as rare as homophobes at LPSG!
     
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    Tsk, and I so wanted to continue pursuing my interest in Julie Strain's mammaries [http://www.juliestrain.com/legwarmers/index.html].

    *sighs breastlessly* :rolleyes:
     
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    I don't think there is ANything wrong with a person (gay or straight) looking at my pictures.

    We post them so people can look at them, and hope for compliments or constructive criticism. Nothing wrong with having people look at you.:tongue:

    I suppose I am just an exhibitionist at heart.
     
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    Maybe you can be my new gay friend and we can do that together!:biggrin1:
     
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    How do you feel being on a site with lots of gay men who like to look at your cock gallery ?
    Not applicable, no gallery.

    Talk about sex with men ?
    Not applicable, discuss only sex w/ women.

    Last question, see first answer.

    Doesn't bother me straight or gay, everyone has their opinion and if I can break out of my "square peg in a square hole" mentality, I stand to gain more perspective on the topics discussed rather than focusing on another's orientation/preference. Thanks in advance for sharing the ride in the carpool of life. To be honest, I really have had only one remark publicly directed towards me regarding straight or gay, that fellow was "glad that I was straight" and I'm not sure yet how to take that ? I'm glad I'm straight, can't be swayed any other way, not an option I ever considered.

    I have several questions though, and not wanting to be antagonistic or anything ? What's up with this % straight, % gay thing ? Is it's significance pertaining to bi-sexuality or the %-age ratio of male to female partners or vice versa depending upon gender ? To me, either you're straight or you're not or vice versa ? When it was indicated in the profile, what did it mean to you ? Is it a statistic that needs updating from encounter to encounter or depending upon where you feel you are in terms of a preference either way, a vaccillation of position ? What is the criteria for the evaluation and assessment ? Maybe I should't be asking and should just continue forward in my own blissfully, ignorant world ?
     
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    Do a forum search and you'll find a few threads about the suject. Change your percentage if you want to see the significance!
     
  19. Mr. Snakey

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    Im not straight Im bi sexual Which means if i want sex i have to buy it!! I hope they welcome them and treat them with respect I say more the better!!:wink:
     
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