how do u handle size queen bravado

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true, if he had kept up his old ways i would have cut all ties, but when i met him he was tee total and only drank orange juice and hadn't done anything like that in years

*blink* so he was sober as a judge, only becoming a threat to society.... because of beer? cuz beer makes you do/say stupid things.

kness :smile:

but..........

ya earlier post made is seem that when you first met him he was a alcohol-fueled funny car of sexual violation? and only after ya conscientious
objection did he "change" is wicked ways.

:confused:


if you missed it the first time: ya thread so belly flopped into the shallow end of the pool. made a big splash, might have caused internal damage and generally annoyed witnesses to ya spectacular fall.

ya dredged up some ugly memories and feeling for some folks. the counter argument has been laid out nicely, there is no wiggle room to make this seem no so fucked up. to continue on is just a shitty thing to do at this point.

let it go. maybe a new thread on a completely different subject. before ya are marked as that "creepy-rape-thread-dude", being CRTD is worse than being Pee Boy in primary school. nobody wants to be the Pee Boy. nobody wants to sit next to Pee Boy. :no:

don't be the Pee Boy.
 

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I've gotten that alot, I think what it comes down to is that the majority of dudes have a small penis, and of course most act like it's huge.
So when someone huge does come around they're tongue tied.

Now to answer your question as how to handle a situation like that, it depends.
If she's willing then go for it, just be loving, don't try and rip her apart.
If she says OMG! there's no way, then lady luck would definately have to be on your side.

I've found the best way for me when it comes to dealing with this situation is to make sure they're very wet, dripping in fact, making them cum first from sucking their hot juicy hole helps also, then it's easier to slide my thick cock inside. :cool:

Where did "she" and "her" come from all of a sudden?
 

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Where did "she" and "her" come from all of a sudden?
The Op, while gay, did not limit this thread to only male size queens. A straight hung man, would presumably reference his own experiences and insert the ferminine pronoun, just as the OP referenced his and his friend's experiences with the masculine pronouns.:wink:
 

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as for my comment about my friend, its true, and believe me i told him str8 off the bat hes wrong for doing what he did,
umm no you didn't.

my friend was kind and let him go, i said he shudda made him take it for being a bragger lol

the lol adds a touch of humanity and class. really. it does. no sarcasm here.

one friend of mine who is crazy big when drunk would force them to take it, especially if they promised in the club they cud and wud handle it


these are just comments from the OP. i didn't even cover the squick provided by other people.


Dr. Dante.... umm after reading and re-reading the OP and follow up comments... the topic at hand seems to be supporting rape, condoning rape and minimalizing the severity of rape as an act of violence.

the OP could have asked a very simple " how do you deal with a partner's eyes being bigger than their....." you know what. he could have asked if anyone had experience being rejected for size*. a question that has been repeatedly asked on LPSG without tossing up rape as part of the query.

* or he could have used the search option. :rolleyes:

wanna see just how bad the OP? swap orientation and gender. the backlash from his thread would resurrected and re-kill of 18 back generations of his family.

dude, serously could never and would never condone rape or sexual assault for very personal reasons. The question at hand i posed was whether you put the effort in to change his mind or just find somone more willing, the terms i used in my quotes of experience are all based on guys getting drunk together, lets face it beer makes us say dumb crap! as for my friend forcing people, i was anti it from the get go, so please dont tell me i wasnt unless u were in the room during the conversation which im pretty sure u werent

Glad to know this. You still have not defined his forcing. We could all be getting worked up for little reason; you guys are sounding duochebaggy, may have sufficed.

Now I could leave it at that, but I had this whole thing wirtten out throughout the day between jobs, and i think i ought to include it, redundant though it may be:

ML has brought this up and you still have not provided an acceptable timeline. Let me put it this way. If you indeed met him well after his forcing (read: raping) past and told him that it was wrong, and he agreed and said "I am sober now, blah, blah, blah" and you then went and encouraged another friend, however jokingly, that he should have done the same thing (especially in light of apparently not being all that discriminating where friends are concerned) then you are a douche bag, with no respect for other people. The fact that you made light of it (forcing someone) here (and apparently there as you were referencing the incidents) does not make you look to good dude.

If you made your lame comment before, than it was in poor taste at best, and hey, we all fuck up and say things we may not have thought through completely. You may have had your wake up moment when you found out the past of your other friend. Of course your joking attitude here makes me think (and I am not the only one) that if that scenario is closest to the truth, then maybe that wake up moment didn't take. You did not indicate that it was wrong, or you were disapproving of it. You said it in a jocular way, and then others began chiming in. In fact is it wasn't until a few of us expressed dismay at some of the things being said that the story seemed to shift and mutate before our eyes.

Here is a horrid scenario number 1: You were friends with them both. You knew damn good and well what friend skeezy was doing, and after thinking about it, began to feel uncomfortable and said something. Around this time, maybe after, your other friend has his "let them go free" moment and you make your statement of he should have made him take it. Perhaps the joking helps you feel less guilty of what was happening.

As for Mr. Teetotaler, he could have very well forced himself on them. Maybe he got them in a compromising position and restrained them, playfully at first then with more force before showing his junk. Then when they panicked he forced his way inside. He might have convinced himself that there screams were of pleasure, or that they would learn to love it, or they would be bragging the next day. They for their part said nothing, or joked that they did take it, and wore it as a badge of pride to try to rationalize their feelings.

Or maybe he wasn't that horrid. Senario 2: Maybe it was more of an emotional blackmail, and they went for it. Or perhaps he did pin them playfully, but stopped when it was too much and he used the poor choice of words "forced"

We don't know cuz you haven't really said anything new. So which was it?

And before you think me a prude, I like pushing my limits. I enjoy some pain (I have addressed this on many of RawDog's treads), being scratched, my nipples squeezed and pinched and bit and scraped to hell and back. I enjoy pressure at my neck and being restrained by someone I trust and love. I am not against rape fantasies. Nor am I against two (or more) consenting and mentally stable people acting them out. I have a problem with people minimizing the seriousness of their words and actions.

I have also mispoke whilst drunk. I know how things can get. Stupid things can be said. Of course if you were all drunk, I guess you can all be glad you didn't say something that someone could have construed as permission to violate you. Hell, be glad you never said anything your ex-possible-rapist friend coundn't have mistaken as a challenge where he would have felt the need to teach you a lesson, bring you down a few notches, or make your ass cash cheques he thought it wrote.:wink::eek:
 

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If I say no at anytime...the person I'm with had better stop. No questions. Any other act is rape, period. Anyone who hangs out with someone that has knowingly forced someone else in the past into any kind of sex act, is painted with the same brush and should expect to be.
 

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Blah blah blah consent and the guys right to change his mind. Now your friend needs to return to the club and wright this guys name all over the bathroom wall as a cock tease. Put his picture over the urinal and if someone wants to take the photo down they have to fight you in the bar first...like any good comedy film of last summer
 

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i am gonna tell you all something that happened to a friend and i want to know how you guys would have handled it

we were in a club, and this guy (girl if ur straight) was there and bragging about how the shag they had last night had been huge and they could handle any cock, so my friend went and hit on him because hes a bigger guy (9x7) who likes to fuck hard, but being bigger most wont let him due to his size

they went home and to quote my friend as soon as the pants came down the confident size queen who claimed to have handled dozens of bigger guys was panicked

how would you guys handle this situation? have u had this happen? im curious as to how often this kinda thing happens :p

thanks

Where did "she" and "her" come from all of a sudden?
Need I say more. :rolleyes:
The Op, while gay, did not limit this thread to only male size queens. A straight hung man, would presumably reference his own experiences and insert the ferminine pronoun, just as the OP referenced his and his friend's experiences with the masculine pronouns.:wink:
Thank you;)
 

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consensually non-consensual.

rape play and the like.

Rape play and actual rape are too completely seperate things though, one is done against the will of the recipient while in the other scenario its just roleplaying, the way the OP phrased the part which I quoted sounds like he was reffering to actual rape and not "fantasy" rape.

Anyway, don`t wanna take this thread of course yet again so to answer your question OP if I found myself in a position where someone who claimed could accomodate my dimensions but when push came to shove turns out they actually can`t and don`t even wanna try, I`d say at the very least they owe me a BJ so get to work and start sucking.

:cool:
 

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ummm yeah.

is why i used the word play, ya know, instead of Rape Actual. :rolleyes:

this is a pee boy thread. :sigh:
 

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Wow, this thread sure went places.. ;P Anyway, I just wanted to say..

correct dante and i was quoting him, hes into the whole cave man "ur mine" thing

..that this is hot. :X



You're only as good as the company you keep, these are words to live by.

Well, I wouldn't say so. :eek: I'd rather try to stay and help, than abandon someone who needs help to change. Besides, my company doesn't define who I am, it could define who I like to surround myself with I suppose. :)
 

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you was all, like, questioning.

Since when is rape ever consensual?

then i was all, like, answering.

consensually non-consensual.

rape play and the like.

then you were all, like, Captain Obvious observational.

Rape play and actual rape are too completely seperate things though, one is done against the will of the recipient while in the other scenario its just roleplaying, the way the OP phrased the part which I quoted sounds like he was reffering to actual rape and not "fantasy" rape.

Anyway, don`t wanna take this thread of course yet again so to answer your question OP if I found myself in a position where someone who claimed could accomodate my dimensions but when push came to shove turns out they actually can`t and don`t even wanna try, I`d say at the very least they owe me a BJ so get to work and start sucking.

:cool:

and, i was all, like, excellent Captain Obvious, dude.

then, my bad side was all "duh, CO, fripping, duh.

then, i thought for a second "did he read the thread at all?

and i was all, like, "nah!"

and then after that last line, i was all, like, "then, eewwww pee boy thread continues *blech face*"

ummm yeah.

is why i used the word play, ya know, instead of Rape Actual. :rolleyes:

this is a pee boy thread. :sigh:

so i pointed out my use of delineating qualifiers.

I`m not quite sure what you are saying in reply here.... and just what the hell is a pee boy thread??

look up there ^^^^^

this is a pee boy thread.
:biggrin1:
 
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you was all, like, questioning.

Not really, I was pointing out the obvious.


then i was all, like, answering.

In your own unique way, yes.


then you were all, like, Captain Obvious observational.

Haha, I seriously LOLed at that bit, good one.


and, i was all, like, excellent Captain Obvious, dude.

Allrighty then.

then, my bad side was all "duh, CO, fripping, duh.

I like your bad side, you bad girl you.
:wink:


then, i thought for a second "did he read the thread at all?

and i was all, like, "nah!"

I did read it from beginning to end before posting, so your wrong there.


and then after that last line, i was all, like, "then, eewwww pee boy thread continues *blech face*"

Well, I STILL don`t know what a pee boy thread is but it doesn`t matter, your allright in my books.


so i pointed out my use of delineating qualifiers.

Indeed you did, didn`t help though.


look up there ^^^^^

I did:rolleyes:

this is a pee boy thread.
:biggrin1:

If you insist.

:cool:
 

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ML said:
you was all, like, questioning.
BoxingMan said:
Not really, I was pointing out the obvious.
the obvious is obvious. how can rape be consensual, when it is consensual. con non-con is more than just play fighting or rough sex. is (at its best) a powerful from of sexual expression, where one takes on the responsibility of controlling the scene while pushing the receptive partner up to and maybe past comfortable limits. without douching out and taking advantage of their role. the receptive partner expose great vulnerability by allowing their will to be stripped from them.

is frippin awesome in my book. sorta my scene bread and butter for years.

rape is just suck, rolled in fucked up, and sprinkled with terrible. :frown1:

the glitch might have been my own opinion that rape play ain't a contradiction.
ML said:
then i was all, like, answering.
BM said:
In your own unique way, yes.

hmm true. next time i might try shadow puppets or interpretive dance

ML said:
then you were all, like, Captain Obvious observational.
BM said:
Haha, I seriously LOLed at that bit, good one.

thank you, i'll be here all week. try the veal :tongue1:

ML said:
then, my bad side was all "duh, CO, fripping, duh.
BM said:
I like your bad side, you bad girl you.
:wink:

my bad side says "whatch'ya gonna do bout it?"

my good side says, "she is so over due for an ass beating"

ML said:
then, i thought for a second "did he read the thread at all?

and i was all, like, "nah!"
BM said:
then, i thought for a second "did he read the thread at all?

and i was all, like, "nah!"

makes note to self: invent time travel. go back in time and delete erroneous comment.

ML said:
and then after that last line, i was all, like, "then, eewwww pee boy thread continues *blech face*"
BM said:
Well, I STILL don`t know what a pee boy thread is but it doesn`t matter, your allright in my books.

pee thead - is not a good thing.:no:

mutual alright-ness has been achieved

ML said:
so i pointed out my use of delineating qualifiers.
BM said:
Indeed you did, didn`t help though.

enthusiasm > effectiveness

ML said:
this is a pee boy thread.
:biggrin1:
BM said:
If you insist.

i did, i do.
feel free to believe i am a complete nutter :redface:
 
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