the obvious is obvious. how can rape be consensual, when it is consensual. con non-con is more than just play fighting or rough sex. is (at its best) a powerful from of sexual expression, where one takes on the responsibility of controlling the scene while pushing the receptive partner up to and maybe past comfortable limits. without douching out and taking advantage of their role. the receptive partner expose great vulnerability by allowing their will to be stripped from them.
is frippin awesome in my book. sorta my scene bread and butter for years.
rape is just suck, rolled in fucked up, and sprinkled with terrible. :frown1:
the glitch might have been my own opinion that rape play ain't a contradiction.
Thank you for the in-depth response on your point of view, I understand you much better now, and for the record me and me GF also have a dom/sub thing going on at times, she likes it when I push her limits and I agree it is frippin awesome as you put it when the trust is there, can really let yourself go and get in the moment, pure awesomness.
my bad side says "whatch'ya gonna do bout it?"
my good side says, "she is so over due for an ass beating"
What am I going to do about it? Well your good side agrees with my bad side hehe, you are indeed overdue for a good spanding methinks so lets see if we cannot do something about that....
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