how do u hit on a str8 buddy?

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If he's a good friend you should consider sharing with him the fact that you are bi and take it from there. He may share something back, or tell you that he is totally str8. Either way, it will open up an opportunity to talk about it and see where it goes.

I wouldn't recommend making a blind move on a str8 friend. That would be extremely disrespectful and will probably end your friendship.
 

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I think it's ok to tell him you're bi. If you've had experiences with other guys, tell him that way. If you just say you're bi curious, he might assume you're bi-curious with him (which is true, but you don't want to convey that).

That'll tell if he's homophobic -- and if he is, you don't want him as a friend anyway.

If he isn't judge his reaction and see what he tells you.

I don't think the not coming right onto him is a homophobic thing, it's just good sense to separate sex from friendships. So I think check his thoughts on bi/gay sex. Then that might help you guage the next step. One step at a time.

(wish I had a gay/bi friend like you)