How do women feel about men using herbal supplements

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  1. bigkev2007

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    Im living with my girlfriend who seems to think less of me for buying herbs to help me stay hard longer and increase sex drive. I always thought of myself as very sexual, but wanted to increase my performance since she liked having sex really late at night. This was a problem since I worked alot and had to get up very early in the morning. We had sex just about everyday, but a couple of times I didn't want it, and then i got drunk one night and didn't last very long. So ever since then, Ive been taken herbs to improve my performance, and it has helped. She hasn't said a whole lot about it, but that she teases me. We are still pretty new in our relationship, but I think the more comfortable I get with her, the herbs will not be an issue. My question is how big of a deal is this for women?
     
  2. D_Bob_Crotchitch

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    Well, in my previous life, I was Shirley McClaine, and....

    :laughing:

    Miss Bliss or any of you want to help him out?
     
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    And people think I'm a bitch??? Dude, GOOD FOR YOU! You're doing all the right things. You obviously care about her enough to be concerned with her pleasure, and she's teasing you? Do this:

    KICK HER BITCH ASS OUT OF YOUR BED. TELL HER TO GO FIND SOMEONE ELSE. CHANCES ARE, HE SUCKS SHIT IN BED, CAN'T FIND HER CLIT TO SAVE HIS LIFE. SHE WILL BE RUNNING BACK TO YOUR ASS IN NO TIME.

    And when she does come back, tell her you're already taken by someone else who doesn't treat you like dirt.

    Personally, I want a man who is willing to do whatever it takes to go all freakin night. If that means Viagra, so be it. If you can get the job done with herbals (and I'm curious to know what you take), then that's good, too. Whatever works.
     
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    She should be happy that you were concerned enough to do something about it!
    I never agree with Bette but this time perhaps she is on the money.
    cigarbabe:saevil:
     
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    Thanks for all your help! I figured that's right on the money too! She is always been very demanding, and all I want is to please her even after I've got my nut off. for your information, I used some horny goat weed and would take about two to three times a week.
     
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    Thanks.
     
  7. Not_Punny

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    My main guy LOVES to take herb supplements. He is always looking for things to make him bigger and better -- and as the beneficiary of his efforts, who am I to complain?! :biggrin:

    Anyway, sorry to hear you're being teased about this.

    I have no idea if it's good natured or nasty teasing.

    Good natured teasing can be teased back, like, "yes, wink wink, ain't it great that it helps keep me long and hard after my long, hard day at work!" Or, "just think of all the naughty things we can do tonight, as the pills make sure I'm not too tired to play with you, you sexy little thing!"

    If the teasing is mean... well, I'd probably have a talk with her about it.
     
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