Im living with my girlfriend who seems to think less of me for buying herbs to help me stay hard longer and increase sex drive. I always thought of myself as very sexual, but wanted to increase my performance since she liked having sex really late at night. This was a problem since I worked alot and had to get up very early in the morning. We had sex just about everyday, but a couple of times I didn't want it, and then i got drunk one night and didn't last very long. So ever since then, Ive been taken herbs to improve my performance, and it has helped. She hasn't said a whole lot about it, but that she teases me. We are still pretty new in our relationship, but I think the more comfortable I get with her, the herbs will not be an issue. My question is how big of a deal is this for women?