How do women view/judge penis size?

[Goosehawk]

I'll start off by saying im 20 years old and until recently was a very inexperienced virgin. I watched porn and all that but never really thought myself to be 'enormous'. I've measured myself and im about 7" long and 6" around. Now I don't think im larger then average and im not on an ego trip here, especially compared to some of the cocks on this site.

Well, about a week ago me and this girl I've been seeing for about 6 months finally decided to have sex for the first time. She was not a virgin, and said she'd seen about 5 penises in her life.

When it came time for me to take off my pants, her eyes got huge and she told me my cock must be about 9 or 10 inches long. I naturally didnt correct her, as it aroused me that she thought that.

Now here is what im wondering. Since women don't regularly measure penises like men seem to do, does a slightly larger then average penis get enlarged by women like that all the time? I can imagine her talking to her friends and telling them all its 10" long, when I know its only 7.

My real question is, does this happen a lot? When you initially see a larger then average penis do you think its larger then it actually is when you take a measuring tape to it? Do you ever tell a man his dick must be 12" when its only 8? Or is this just the case of shock of an unexperienced girl?

 

[transformer_99]

That's about right, it's always huge when the relationship still has a chance. Wait until it's on the rocks, you'll have a small penix that day. :biggrin1:

 

[D_BobN_Weave]

haha! i had that happen to me before transformer!! when me and my ex were going out, she told all her friends i was huge.....but when we broke up, she reversed it and said i was tiny.

funny thing is she and i had a mutual friend, who i was really good friends with. and one day she asked me if what my ex said was true, if i was small....and finally after hesitation, i dropped my pants for her and she actually called my ex up and was like "you said he was small!" and my ex said "yes, he is!!" my friend said "No he isnt!!" "how do you know??" the ex said and my friend told her "i have him in my hand right now!" and that was one of the best things that ever happened to me it was sweet vindication

 

[Sassy]

That's about right, it's always huge when the relationship still has a chance. Wait until it's on the rocks, you'll have a small penix that day. :biggrin1:

Too funny! Lol

If you've read some of the other threads, women are not very accurate when seeing one. They even measure incorrectly if measuring with a ruler.

That said, the size doesn't matter to me - technique does! (In case you're curious, most women prefer girth to length.) :smile:

 

[FantomX]

"... size doesn't matter to me..." says luvembig

Sorry... I couldn't help but point this one out

 

[transformer_99]

luvthembig, this thread reminded me almost instantaneously of the thread that was started about the 12 foot snake. After all was said and done, the 12 foot snake really was only 8 1/2 feet long, yet the women in the news team kept harping and playing on the perception of the 12 foot snake being somehow much more dangerous than the real 8 1/2 footer, the bigger the snake the more interesting the story ?

Anyway, now-a-days it's getting harder to figure out what the agenda is any more. Whether it's a preference, as a motive to make another preferable mate jealous, whether sex is a bartering tool to trade on something else in the relationship or whatever else goes on in another's mind.

The other day I saw "Forgetting Sarah Marshall" again, and just died laughing at the bedroom scene when the two couples were going at it. Looking back, perhaps we've all been there or will be at some time in our lives, a situation where things weren't as they seemed to be ?

 

[transformer_99]

(In case you're curious, most women prefer girth to length.) :smile:

Yep, bore x stroke, it matters with automobile engines too.

What does `Bore x Stroke` mean?

Look up: Bore x Stroke



Bore x Stroke
In an engine, the relation between the diameter of the cylinder bore and the length of the stroke of the piston. This measurement tells you if the engine is designed to deliver more speed or more torque. A long-stroke engine (where the length of the piston stroke is greater than the diameter of the bore of a cylinder) delivers more torque at the expense of maximum power; while a short-stroke engine delivers more engine power with less low-end torque.

WikiAnswers - What does bore and stroke mean

 

[D_Langhorne Hangsleft]

haha! i had that happen to me before transformer!! when me and my ex were going out, she told all her friends i was huge.....but when we broke up, she reversed it and said i was tiny.

funny thing is she and i had a mutual friend, who i was really good friends with. and one day she asked me if what my ex said was true, if i was small....and finally after hesitation, i dropped my pants for her and she actually called my ex up and was like "you said he was small!" and my ex said "yes, he is!!" my friend said "No he isnt!!" "how do you know??" the ex said and my friend told her "i have him in my hand right now!" and that was one of the best things that ever happened to me it was sweet vindication

LOL pwned:lmao:

 

[RawDog]

Bore x Stroke
In an engine, the relation between the diameter of the cylinder bore and the length of the stroke of the piston. This measurement tells you if the engine is designed to deliver more speed or more torque. A long-stroke engine (where the length of the piston stroke is greater than the diameter of the bore of a cylinder) delivers more torque at the expense of maximum power; while a short-stroke engine delivers more engine power with less low-end torque.

Did anyone else find this oddly erotic?

 

[Enid]

i guess i'm the odd one out, i prefer length to girth. (though i'd still like average girth or thereabouts, not too much below.)

i think it's just an inexperienced girl who does this, inaccurately assess measurements i mean. i use body parts to measure (forearm, palm to fingertip, et al).

what is pwned?

 

[transformer_99]

Urban Dictionary: pwned

 

[transformer_99]

Did anyone else find this oddly erotic?

speed vs power f*cking ?

 

[TinyPrincess]

Since women don't regularly measure penises like men seem to do, does a slightly larger then average penis get enlarged by women like that all the time? I can imagine her talking to her friends and telling them all its 10" long, when I know its only 7.

Well, if her former boyfriends all told her they were 8" when they actually were 5-6", I can imagine why she thought you're 10"...

Guess, guys are the reason most women can't estimate size - they get lied to all the time...

 

[Mr_Cumalot]

Girls get lied to all the time (man says he is 8 but he is 5 or 6 and so on)

Guys get lied to all the time (that's the biggest I've ever had!)

End of the day, as long as the cock works and both parties get off it shouldn't matter. Reality is, girls don't want to be lied to, and guys don't want to be lied to. With the two examples above though - its probably best that both parties say nothing than lie.

 

[bravestarr]

Personally I find big fat cocks much easier to take and more pleasureable. Not that I'm greedy , but I have a few quite small ones fuck me too and I have find those sometimes painful. For an odd reason. So I think in this case... big is definitely better ... but then having said that it can also depend on the place, position and person fucking too ... phew so I guess I will base it on the Girth too not the length ---- It is better to have a ripped pussy than a new holed body. lol

 

[D_Forrest Phallately]

I've measured myself and im about 7" long and 6" around. .....When it came time for me to take off my pants, her eyes got huge and she told me my cock must be about 9 or 10 inches long.

You may have identified the source of all those mythical 10 inch monsters that seem to be everywhere in sexual folklore but rarely wash up on the beach.

 

[D_Otto Nobetter]

yes i think its that women are exaggerated to, i have been with some women who claim they have been with 10 or 12"ers and then they see my dick and they are like holy shit and im not close to that

 

[Goosehawk]

Thanks for the replies.

I sometimes drive my sister and her friends to and from clubs drinking and stuff, and when they are drunk they often forget theres a male in the car and start talking about 'girl stuff'. Well, I distinctly remember one time when they were talking about this penis they saw, and it was "NINE INCHES LONG OH MY GOD". I guess it just really, really, weirded me out to realize today that my penis could be viewed as something like that.

If I would of whipped myself out would it have been comparable to the one they saw? Really weird to think about it.

 

[340120]

I'll start off by saying im 20 years old and until recently was a very inexperienced virgin. I watched porn and all that but never really thought myself to be 'enormous'. I've measured myself and im about 7" long and 6" around. Now I don't think im larger then average and im not on an ego trip here, especially compared to some of the cocks on this site.

Well, about a week ago me and this girl I've been seeing for about 6 months finally decided to have sex for the first time. She was not a virgin, and said she'd seen about 5 penises in her life.

When it came time for me to take off my pants, her eyes got huge and she told me my cock must be about 9 or 10 inches long. I naturally didnt correct her, as it aroused me that she thought that.

Now here is what im wondering. Since women don't regularly measure penises like men seem to do, does a slightly larger then average penis get enlarged by women like that all the time? I can imagine her talking to her friends and telling them all its 10" long, when I know its only 7.

My real question is, does this happen a lot? When you initially see a larger then average penis do you think its larger then it actually is when you take a measuring tape to it? Do you ever tell a man his dick must be 12" when its only 8? Or is this just the case of shock of an unexperienced girl?

She was obviously trying to boost your ego. That's all. Girls know the different between big and average.

 

[crossy]

Like BONKY has stated in the real world, women rarely remark about dick unless its visually really long or quite thick (potentially painful) . Most gals can't or won't relate to inches.