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Hi Guys,
I got circ'd in late 2017 (low cut, no frenulum). Dr who did it was all for keeping as much sensitive skin as possible but I guess health reasons dictated how much foreskin I could keep. Also tried first line treatments.
Anyway, while masturbation has been good and I've had 1-2 really good blowjobs, what can I do to accept my circumcision? I find it hard to accept because:
1) Sex should be "natural" i.e. I don't need surgery to have it
2) Sex is meant to feel good and it's therefore hard to accept anything that may potentially take this away (and this can be other things than circ). In a way, I am greedy for as much pleasure as humanly possible.
Even if I am not looking, I here plenty of people who say that sex is crap after circ (but also the opposite, to be fair).
Sex toys and sex tips seem to be biased to being intact which creates isolation, as well as some toys I've tried so far have not done much for me (so it creates resentment and a feeling that I am impaired).
P..S. I do get counselling for this and other topics.
I got circ'd in late 2017 (low cut, no frenulum). Dr who did it was all for keeping as much sensitive skin as possible but I guess health reasons dictated how much foreskin I could keep. Also tried first line treatments.
Anyway, while masturbation has been good and I've had 1-2 really good blowjobs, what can I do to accept my circumcision? I find it hard to accept because:
1) Sex should be "natural" i.e. I don't need surgery to have it
2) Sex is meant to feel good and it's therefore hard to accept anything that may potentially take this away (and this can be other things than circ). In a way, I am greedy for as much pleasure as humanly possible.
Even if I am not looking, I here plenty of people who say that sex is crap after circ (but also the opposite, to be fair).
Sex toys and sex tips seem to be biased to being intact which creates isolation, as well as some toys I've tried so far have not done much for me (so it creates resentment and a feeling that I am impaired).
P..S. I do get counselling for this and other topics.