How do you ask someone if they are clean without coming across as being rude?

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by hot97, Mar 17, 2010.

  1. hot97

    hot97 Active Member

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    Just curious how you guys/girls ask someone if they are clean before sleeping with them without getting slapped in the face lol.........no i was not slapped in the face:tongue:
     
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    B_Hickboy New Member

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    Wear a condom unless you can see their recent test results, which you have a right to ask to see. There's still a risk, because people can be carrying some diseases before they show up in the tests. There are also false negatives. It might be better if you put your trust in latex.
     
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    Yeah, dig it, I don't care if I came off as weird, but if I don't know the chick, the questions are gonna be asked if she & I wanna go any farther, otherwise it's NO GLOVE NO LOVE, period. 'Nuff said.
     
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    You can show them your test results first. Then ask them to reciprocate.

    Showing yours first says you care about their health and peace of mind. It also says you are serious about wanting sex with them and serious about taking care of your own health. It opens a conversation that can lead to a win-win outcome.
     
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    I guess I misunderstood the question. I was going to reccommend that you suggest showering together first.
     
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