When the bills are mounting up and you feel cornered. And you never did become that millionaire by the age of thirty as you'd expected and promised yourself that you would be. And you've got kids to feed and rent to pay and there is too much month left at the end of the pay-check. And the last thing on your mind is sex (with anyone at all). How do you convince your partner that it's just a temporary glitch and that they are just as desireable to you as anyone else on the planet. Just not now. Now is about survival.