How do you deal with other guys hitting on/checking out your partner?

how do you generally feel (elaborate though in the thread)

  • i don't particurlarly like it and get jealous

    Votes: 4 10.3%
  • i neither like it nor care

    Votes: 11 28.2%
  • i love when it happens

    Votes: 13 33.3%
  • it sometimes gets to me if even just a little

    Votes: 11 28.2%

  • Total voters
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overly_straight

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People should be able to check out whomever they want. Hitting on them, however...

If they know she's with me, that's not cool. Some guys need to feel like they can "steal" someone's girl, it's the source of their manliness. They can die in a fire, ideally.

Otherwise, if they don't know she's spoken for, what's there to be upset about?
 

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My ex, who was a total fox, was approached by a rather inebriated younger guy while I was gone to men's room. When I returned he was insisting that she dance with him. The amusing part of it was that the band was on break. LOL She politely said no for the 4th time and grabbed her by the arm and said "comon baby, we are gonna dance". I tapped him on the shoulder and said "the lady said no thank you, its time for you to leave". He said LOUDLY "who the hell do you think YOU are?" I said I think I'm her husband, and I think you are screwed, then backed up 3 steps and rammed his stomach into the edge of the bar. I could hear all the air come out of him and he collapsed to the floor. I told my buddy Gary to grab his ankles and I picked up his arms. We carried him out to the the elevated loading dock out the rear of the club. A rent-a-cop looked at us carrying him and I said he had grabbed my wife. The cop grinned and nodded. I started counting slowly. ONE.....TWO.....THREE and we tossed him into the open top of the dumpster which was filled with broken down beer boxes. He landed softly and was totally unharmed. That part was fun, but watching him try to get out of the dumpster for ten minutes was as much fun as I've ever had. To my total amazement the guy came back in the club, over to where we were, and sincerely apologised.
 

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My partner and I both make fun of it. We always catch someone checking him or me out. It doesn't seem to bother us.
 

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I used to get real prickly about it, Scorpio and all that. Dealt with it over the years but have got in to a lot of trouble over my reactions in the past. Now I avoid the girls who would put me in that position in the first place.
 

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Because she is an adult, I leave it to my partner to handle the brush off. I only step in if her efforts are not working. And I always do so with the least amount of animosity. Most guys back off when they realize that they are intruding. I've only had to get physical once...and, of course, the guy was inebriated so it was an easy fix.
 

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I like it when my wife gets attention, she's got bigger tits than most of the girls around here and she's very good looking. Even when she was pregnant last spring when we traveled to the beach lot of younger and older guys kept checking her out. I kinda fantasize about letting some other young stud to fuck her (or maybe it has happened already who knows, we are in a kinda open relationship).
 

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theres nothing wrong with a man trying to talk to a woman. its human nature. but if the guy knows shes taken and still pursues, we're looking at disrespect.

but some people have partners who flirt back. so its a tricky situation
 

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People should be able to check out whomever they want. Hitting on them, however...

If they know she's with me, that's not cool. Some guys need to feel like they can "steal" someone's girl, it's the source of their manliness. They can die in a fire, ideally.

Otherwise, if they don't know she's spoken for, what's there to be upset about?
+1
 

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My partner is very attractive. Woman and men often check him out.
I know he is with me, so I find it very flattering that my gorgeous man
attracts attention. I guess I have good taste....
 
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It makes me feel good when someone checks out my lady. I trust her, so I know she will respond appropriately.
 

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I'm no badass, but if he were to hit on my gf right in front of me, like I'm a joke, I'll probably snap the fuck out.

If it's a situation where he thinks he's talking to a random girl who might be single...Can't blame a guy for trying.

Checking her out is cool..My gf likes it when I say "Hey, that dude over there was checking you out big time!"..Her chin goes up a little bit, little grin, she gets that look like "I'm hot shit!"...Everyone likes being checked out.
 

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They can look all they want...
But hitting on her in front of me
smacks of disrespect

Having said that, In my youth
I once chatted to a nice young lady
only to be assaulted by her boyfriend
and thought "What's with him !"
now I know.