How do you deal with such a taboo lifestlye?

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im curious, like if your parents found out etc. there are lot of old school people who will "insist" that if you are bisexual then you are actually gay. But they neglect the fact that you like the opposite sex for some reason. its like how people call Obama black, but he is equally white as much as he is black. i guess some people dont want to see the other side a coin. I hate how people make themselves "authorities" on what someone else is.
 
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im curious, like if your parents found out etc. there are lot of old school people who will "insist" that if you are bisexual then you are actually gay. But they neglect the fact that you like the opposite sex for some reason. its like how people call Obama black, but he is equally white as much as he is black. i guess some people dont want to see the other side a coin. I hate how people make themselves "authorities" on what someone else is.

My lifestyle is not "taboo." No matter what you think.
 

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My lifestyle is not "taboo." No matter what you think.

i told you, i dont think its taboo. society in general does. i believe the majority of human beings are bisexual but dont admit it. my family is against it, and thinks that means you are gay, and i cant stand when people say that. just wondering how you deal with it. i guess you havent met people like that as i have
 

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I can categorically state, without a doubt, that I don't give a flying shit what society thinks about my private lifestyle. The only thing that makes me "different" from the uptight, self-homophobic people in this modern society is what goes on in my bedroom; and that's NONE of anyone's business but mine.
Now, if someone is going to "judge" you based on your private activities; then they are not worth the time of day.
There are too many other people who enjoy my company, my humor, and my general outlook on life. Fuck all the rest.... ain't got time. :biggrin1:-
 

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I have a very close str bud, he was always saying how do you suck a cock, how do you fuck a dudes ass. He loves me, but couldn't understand why I would do such a thing. One night couple of months past, My girl and I and my best str bud, all started drinking and ended up in hot tub. YOu know where this is going right? He sees my hard cock, says brah, that's huge, then he goes down on my girl and I start eating his ass, he goes crazy with lust. Long story short, he sucked my cock, I fucked his ass. Hes still my best bud, it will never happen again, but he said, I completely understand now man, sorry about my ignorance.
 

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I hate that bisexuals must be referred to as taboo! As an emerging bisexual man and an emerging activist. I have seen a lot of disbelief and bashing of my identity. It's massively frustrating, and brought me to tears on many occasions. I just fight back and stay strong. I don't try to hide who I am or fit it, I come right out in your face, say I'm bisexual, and let them know I'm serious and need to be seen! It doesn't help that the bisexual term is often a crutch that gay people use when they first start to come out. They are still lying to themselves and abuse our identity. Not to say, it's easy for gay people to come out, but it'd be best not to stop at bisexual if you can help it. It makes it look to everyone else, that bisexuals are a disregarded, unrealistic orientation.

So yes, I deal! I have to. It sucks! But I will always be honest and people come to respect and understand that I'm not kidding about my sexual identity!
 

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"Taboo" seems to me like an appropriate characterization of the reaction of most of society to the concept of bisexuality.

To me bisexuality implies the legitimacy of long-term relationships of threesomes or more. That is what really seems to scare so many people, along with anything other than maintaining a sharp distinction between heterosexuality and homosexuality.
 

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"Taboo" seems to me like an appropriate characterization of the reaction of most of society to the concept of bisexuality.

To me bisexuality implies the legitimacy of long-term relationships of threesomes or more. That is what really seems to scare so many people, along with anything other than maintaining a sharp distinction between heterosexuality and homosexuality.

American society itself is like a homophobic bisexual.
 

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I don't know if I "deal with it". You're right a lot of people don't understand and don't want to. Out of all the people I know, only one a female cousin seems to get it. I have one or two people in my family that reassure me that it is okay if I am Gay. LOL! I don't even try to explain. Then I have another person in my family that will condemn me as though it is shameful and then judges me or the actions that he might think he knows about. He thinks it means that all ass is open game including his! LOL! I don't say nothing to him. He asks me if I think different ones in our family has ever gotten freaky. Myself, I see the difficulty and have even stated it on previous posts. I have a friend that is bi, and when he wants a man no woman can compete. But when he wants a woman, no man can compete. It can be very frustrating and I used to wait until he came back around. But I won't do that to myself anymore. I'd much rather have a male hook up then invest in another Bi man. I know I am considered that same Bi male. I do feel like I have to compete with everyone, not just another man but also the women. I do know that my friend is truly Bi as his relationships with women are usually last for quite a long time period. In the end, people do have to live for themselves and do what makes them happy. If you get too caught up in what other people think or desire for others to accept your sexuality, you waste time that you could spend enjoying yourself.
 

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1Cody, people experience or act out bisexuality differently. There is no right way to be bisexual, and it may vary! Not all bisexual guys will be like your friend, so don't rule us out. You don't have to be like that, and you don't have to go for people like that. Nevertheless, his way is perfectly acceptable if that's how he is! Sexuality is fluid, and you may not be able to control how it swings, what gets it going, and when.
 

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im curious, like if your parents found out etc. there are lot of old school people who will "insist" that if you are bisexual then you are actually gay. But they neglect the fact that you like the opposite sex for some reason. its like how people call Obama black, but he is equally white as much as he is black. i guess some people dont want to see the other side a coin. I hate how people make themselves "authorities" on what someone else is.


Sad but true. And many more clever posts in this topic, thank you.
Actually, many people don't get it. Sometimes I feel that I'm hated by heteros for being 'gay' and by gays for being 'hetero'. Some think that it's just lying... the only way is to scr** it and seek people who think your way. Sometimes I just want a man, sometimes - a woman... when I am single. Why is it such a problem? I'm faithful in my relationships.
 
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"Some people" think being Bi is taboo. Its only their preconceptions
about what ''indoor (sex) games'' we play. I have an earring in my RIGHT ear; and am
wanting a relationship with a guy; not a girl. Though there are women i would love to bed;
I want a guy with huge cock to f my ass and hold me. Hugs to those who want one.
Check out the photo of me with John Holmes dildo.
 

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im curious, like if your parents found out etc. there are lot of old school people who will "insist" that if you are bisexual then you are actually gay. But they neglect the fact that you like the opposite sex for some reason. its like how people call Obama black, but he is equally white as much as he is black. i guess some people dont want to see the other side a coin. I hate how people make themselves "authorities" on what someone else is.

If my parents found out, I'd probably move far away. It would just be awkward for the rest of their lives and I already have a strained relationship with both of my parents as it is, I wouldn't want to have to deal with this too, it could tear the thin fiber we have apart. I don't think I could ever say to my mom, or especially my dad, "Hey dad, I like giving blowjobs and taking it up the back door." Well, not quite those words, but you know what I mean LOL. :p A few older members of my family are "old school" who will probably insist I'm gay, they probably wouldn't understand that I am attracted to both genders.