How do you define your sexuality?

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I put 60% gay 40% straight. There was a time I had the patience and interest in having sex with women. I actually like women a great deal. They make great best friends. But since I live with a man, sleep with a man, put my dick inside a man, put my man's dick inside my mouth, and generally love him, including being legally married to him -- I'd have to say I'm gay.
 

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For me, it was pretty easy. I am sexually attracted to men, I am not sexually attracted to women. I love women, I just have no sexual attraction.
 

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I want to settle down with a woman and raise 2.5 kids. Being that I had to wait so long before I could get a woman into bed, I started playing with other guys. I got good at it and started liking it. However, I still get hardons when I see an hour glass figure from behind. So I consider my self 50/50.
 

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So how do the rest of you judge your sexual preference?

This has been asked so many times that I finally formulated an answer which I saved as a word document. I just do a copy/paste when necessary.

"I'm 41, I have never experimented with a woman, nor have I ever even considered the possibility. At no point in time has it ever occurred to me to kiss a girl or do anything else to verify that I am straight.


I am not confused. Most women who put 100% straight are not confused. Women who put 100% Gay are not confused. Men who put 100% Gay are not confused. We just KNOW.

For the most part I think the men and women here who have various %'s know what it means to them. I do understand your confusion though; I was pretty confuzzled as to what all these %'s meant myself when I first got here.

Men: If you love eating and fucking pussy, sucking tits, have a girlfriend or wife and children; but enjoy having your ass filled with cock, or penetrating another mans ass, sucking cock or being sucked by a man and cannot imagine life without that. You are bi-sexual 50%/50%. It doesn't matter that you have never been in love with a man at that point; it is the inability to live life without anal sex or oral sex with a man that makes you bi-sexual."


That's just my 2 cents.

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This has been covered many, many times before:


100% Bullshit

Straight Open Minded

Question About % Gay to Straight

Percentage of gay/straight, how you decide

Sexual Preference Percentages
 

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Let's ask this:

For those of you who self-identify as gay, could it be that you have simply not yet encountered a female to whom you are attracted?

For those of you who self-identify as straight, could it be that you have simply not yet encountered a male to whom you are attracted?

In other words, while you might find sex with somebody of the other/same gender not to your liking based on what you've experienced thus far, is it not within the realm of possibility that you might find it, if not enjoyable, then at least something that you might consider trying, simply if you were to meet the "right" person?
 

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I'm queer cause it's political to be queer and I'm a political queer (but thankfully not in politics myself).

When the rubber hits the road, though, I form romantic relationships with men and really, really, really love cocks, but if I were single would happily have sex with women with lotsa curve and lotsa hair. Like Catherine Zeta Jones or Pamela Grier from back in the day.
 

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P.S. I know I could never land Catherine Zeta Jones or Pamela Grier. I'm not that conceited.

And I'd totally do women who are all punked-out.
 

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i cant remember what mine is, 90/10 i think? that would be because men are the ones i am naturally attracted to, the ones i look at when i walk by to see if they're attractive, the ones i picture myself with and the ones i have sex with. the ones i orient towards, i guess.

on the other hand, i enjoy the thought of sex with a woman. i think its a breast thing mainly.. i love the thought of sucking another womans nipples or kissing her with our breasts pressing together. double-ended dildo fun sounds good too :p i do, however, think i'd enjoy these acts a lot more if there was, or ended up being, a man involved. so i guess i'm not huge amounts of bisexual.
 

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Oh please! :rolleyes: 'Bi' means two, bisexual means attracted to two sexes. There is NOTHING wrong with being bisexual. From what you said in your first paragraph you are bisexual, deal with it.

Pansexual sounds too spacey, new agey, made up bullshitty to me. I google the definition everytime someone brings it up and the definition is constantly changing. :wtf1: When they come up with one easy to understand definition for pansexual to which everyone adheres, then maybe I'll accept it.
Luckily no one cares what you're view of sexuality is. Pansexual is very accepted here, as is the other types of sexuality.
 

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I deem myself 100% straight but I guess it could also be 99 - I haven't felt attracted to a man yet but I think the male body is awesome and have a good deal of respect, curiosity and openmindedness when it comes to my own gender. I'm not at all uncomfortable with gays and bisexuals and am more than happy to get comments and such from them. I can see when a guy is good looking or when he has a nice cock and I don't mind calling that like it is. I'd also be fine with doing say an mmf threesome - not that I'd want to touch the guy per se but I'd be totally at ease with the situation. So while this isn't gay behavior as such, I do realize that I'm far easier with other men and their sexuality than a lot of purely straight guys are.
 

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I put 99% gay and 1% straight because I really dont like labels. But in saying that, I know what I do like. I can say that because I do have a daughter so I must have been with a women somewhere down the road. I also put it that way because I don't hate women(not even the ex-wife even though I'm pretty sure she hates me) and I can appreciate a woman's beauty but just don't want to sleep with them.
 

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I listed myself as 90% straight and 10% gay because I am more attracted to men. But I have a curiosity about women, I think I could get into that, of course it would be more fun with a man involved.
 

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I'm a repressed bisexual. I've slept with two women and liked it, but probably not enough.

I'm 90% gay because I fuck guy's asses and suck their dicks, The 10% covers the bi thing.
 

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I put my percentages at 70/30. I have a boyfriend and have had sex exclusively with men with for the past decade-plenty of men, as it happens. However, I only watch straight porn and in my early sexual days slept with women and enjoyed it.
I also like eating pussy, big breasts and have begun to fantasize a good deal about having sex with women-that straight porn I'm watching is working.
I think it's all good.

My profile: MANHUNT.net
 

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When I was a teenager, and even in my twenties, I tried to convince myself that I was straight. Later, in my mid to late twenties, I did my damndest to convince myself that I was bisexual. Somehow, I came to my senses in my thirties: I cut the crap, and accepted that I REALLY like men--everything about men: cocks (obviously), faces (esp. eyes and smiles), hands, feet, hairy bodies, the sounds of a male voice, the way men move, the shape of their butts, and so on and so forth.

Here's what kept me from embracing this reality when I was younger: I had bought into the notion that as long as I behaved like the typical "straight guy" in just about every situation (naturally, not pretentiously), even though I fantasized about (and was having sex with) men, I couldn't possibly be a true homosexual. In other words, I wanted to correlate certain so-called masculine traits I exhibited with being heterosexual or bisexual. I was fucking around with guys, but I wasn't effeminate, so I refused to classify myself as "homosexual."

Now that seems ridiculous to me. And I believe that until our society fully recognizes and accepts that your average, everyday guy-next-door might actually be attracted to other men, regardless of how he looks or behaves, a sizeable percentage of homosexual men will continue to hide their true sexuality and live two lives--and many will remain fully repressed behind a facade of heterosexuality simply because they don't want to feel rejected by those who make up the majority (and there are still so many who shun the notion of homosexuality--just think about the place where you work, or the couples you see at the park or beach or mall).

How unfortunate, really. And how unnecessary.
 

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It is so interesting to be 100% straight and actually feel like an outsider. So many of us were taught this binary view of sexuality as children, that to see so many men who, while basically straight, still admit at least curiosity, is fascinating, because I have not the slightest interest in men's bodies at all, or even in male sexuality, but I just lose it around women at the slightest provocation -- their bodies, their scent, their mind, the way they touch me, everything. I seem to fit this sexist, homophobic stereotype of the "masculine" straight man, and yet around here, I'm a complete weirdo! I love it! You guys rule.
 

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Why do we sweat this question at all. In my own experience, I early found myself in a relationship with a high school friend and over time we discovered a part of our sexuality which we had never considered before and for two years we bonded in friendship and bonded in our shared experience of man-to-man sex. After we graduated from high school we both went on our separate journeys into the fulness of our individual sexuality. We both married. I was married when I found the one person I was willing to bet the rest of my life with. I have not forgotten the joys of sex on my "other side" and I think I have found it easy to be accepting of all varieties of sexual orientation. I do not seek out sex with another man, but, were I free I can imagine that I might be inclined toward that side of my sexuality which has been dormant (except in my fantasy life and memory) for such a long time. I settled on 70% straight and 30% gay, but that is a pure guess.