Phil Ayesho
Superior Member
My introduction to sexuality was thru a quasi-molestation by some older boys during my "tweens".
So, my first two years of sexual experience were with the same sex. My first 20 or so orgasms were with a dick in my ass and, usually, one in my mouth.
I use the term"quasi" because of the BIG SECRET that most folks don't speak about regarding this kind of molestation... that is, that a lot of molestations of adolescent boys occur over long periods of time (i.e. are not isolated events) that most victims are willing to travel to their molestors, and that their molestors do not 'threaten' them to keep them from telling... you don't tell for two reasons. 1 you don't want anyone to know and 2, you don't want it to stop.
I never really had any problem dealing with the fact that, to a large extent, it happened because I liked it. I liked everything about cock. But then, I had been "imprinted" with it. Unlike a lot of "willing" molestation victims... I accept my own culpability in what occured... and, really, I would not give up those formative experiences for anything.
I was almost shocked to find out, by the age of 15, that I was really far more attracted to girls. As much as i enjoyed sucking a cock, it was girls that I wanted to cuddle with and kiss and fall in love with.
I realized at some point that, for me, the guy thing was purely sexual in nature... just the animal pleasure...
Not that I could not fall in love with a guy... it just never happened...
Unlike men 'born gay'.. I did not have the built in wiring for attraction to men...
Still... there was that imprinting....
I had several other sexual experience with guys over the following years... as I predominantly dated girls.
And eventually married, at which point my gay experiences ended.
12 years later, As that marriage started to decay I had a couple MMF experiences, that included plenty of male male action, that were probably the most fun I have ever had, sexually...
But then I met another woman who was and has been the light of my life ever since... and I am all for her now.
Yet... there is still that early imprinting... I still fantasize about cock... I love gay porn every bit as much as straight porn...
however- if I never touch another guy again as long as I live i'm fine with it.
My early experiences made me a more tolerant and understanding person... enabled me to appreciate the homoerotic as well as the ordinary variety...made me an early advocate for gay rights.
It makes me, I think, A better lover to my woman.. and gives me compassion for a wider spectrum of human variety.
And it satisfied a curiosity that, otherwise, might tempt me had I known only women my whole life.
My research into history, particularly pre-christian history, and what I have learned of other men's experiences has drawn me to the conclusion that, for men to have sex with men, even starting from a very early age, is the most natural thing in the world.
To some degree, every guy likes sex, and every guy likes cock.
The very first time I felt a cock shoved into my mouth, it felt like my mouth was made to fit around it.
That's why I came back for more.
I prefer women... but I entirely understand homosexual attraction.
So, my first two years of sexual experience were with the same sex. My first 20 or so orgasms were with a dick in my ass and, usually, one in my mouth.
I use the term"quasi" because of the BIG SECRET that most folks don't speak about regarding this kind of molestation... that is, that a lot of molestations of adolescent boys occur over long periods of time (i.e. are not isolated events) that most victims are willing to travel to their molestors, and that their molestors do not 'threaten' them to keep them from telling... you don't tell for two reasons. 1 you don't want anyone to know and 2, you don't want it to stop.
I never really had any problem dealing with the fact that, to a large extent, it happened because I liked it. I liked everything about cock. But then, I had been "imprinted" with it. Unlike a lot of "willing" molestation victims... I accept my own culpability in what occured... and, really, I would not give up those formative experiences for anything.
I was almost shocked to find out, by the age of 15, that I was really far more attracted to girls. As much as i enjoyed sucking a cock, it was girls that I wanted to cuddle with and kiss and fall in love with.
I realized at some point that, for me, the guy thing was purely sexual in nature... just the animal pleasure...
Not that I could not fall in love with a guy... it just never happened...
Unlike men 'born gay'.. I did not have the built in wiring for attraction to men...
Still... there was that imprinting....
I had several other sexual experience with guys over the following years... as I predominantly dated girls.
And eventually married, at which point my gay experiences ended.
12 years later, As that marriage started to decay I had a couple MMF experiences, that included plenty of male male action, that were probably the most fun I have ever had, sexually...
But then I met another woman who was and has been the light of my life ever since... and I am all for her now.
Yet... there is still that early imprinting... I still fantasize about cock... I love gay porn every bit as much as straight porn...
however- if I never touch another guy again as long as I live i'm fine with it.
My early experiences made me a more tolerant and understanding person... enabled me to appreciate the homoerotic as well as the ordinary variety...made me an early advocate for gay rights.
It makes me, I think, A better lover to my woman.. and gives me compassion for a wider spectrum of human variety.
And it satisfied a curiosity that, otherwise, might tempt me had I known only women my whole life.
My research into history, particularly pre-christian history, and what I have learned of other men's experiences has drawn me to the conclusion that, for men to have sex with men, even starting from a very early age, is the most natural thing in the world.
To some degree, every guy likes sex, and every guy likes cock.
The very first time I felt a cock shoved into my mouth, it felt like my mouth was made to fit around it.
That's why I came back for more.
I prefer women... but I entirely understand homosexual attraction.