or at least partially bi if there is such a thing? Would this revelation make you run, turn you on, turn you off, say "hey let's have a three way", indifferent, or what? opinions please ...gracias
Interesting... (the silence).
Maybe you could reword the TITLE of the thread to something more controversial. E.g. Can a bi guy ever be faithful?
Personally, I wouldn't want to be with a bi guy. I was married to a guy for 10 years before he came out of the closet as gay... so I guess he was, in reality, "bi" the whole time we were together. And as soon as he stopped being "bi", it was all over. So, for me it's "Once bitten, twice shy."
And in my humble opinion, women are "nesters" -- they want to feel like their man belongs to them. If a guy truly is bi, then how can a woman actually "have" the guy? How can he ever be faithful with all those yearnings toward the other sex?
If he was going to be faithful to me it wouldn't bother me one bit, we can be lots of things but we don't have to exercise those parts of us.
I don't think you can ever "have" someone in a relationship. They must freely give themselves to you. True
If a bisexual man loves a woman and wants to be only with her, why can't he be faithful? That question has yet to be answered adequately in this board, for my liking. If the relationship is only about sex, then it's rather shallow. Agreed
That's a problem for me. Call me petty, insecure, silly, whatever; I could not marry a man KNOWING that I would never be enough to satisfy him. :redface:
Aaaaah! njqt466... you're reinforcing all my fears!!! :wink:
All men are different hotmilf, if they're a cheat they're going to cheat whatever their sexuality is. If they're an honest guy their sexual orientation doesn't alter that.
Interesting... (the silence).
Maybe you could reword the TITLE of the thread to something more controversial. E.g. Can a bi guy ever be faithful? Ouch! That sounds angry and a bit leading. Actually there was a thread that asked exactly that a while ago and I believe the answer was, "yes of course bi-sexuals can be faithful "
Personally, I wouldn't want to be with a bi guy. I was married to a guy for 10 years before he came out of the closet as gay... so I guess he was, in reality, "bi" the whole time we were together. No, he was a gay man living a lie. Unfortunately this happens all the time. And as soon as he stopped being "bi", it was all over. So, for me it's "Once bitten, twice shy." Totally understandable!
And in my humble opinion, women are "nesters" Not all of us are. -- they want to feel like their man belongs to them. Hmm, I think you have nesting mixed up with a feeling of security. If a guy truly is bi, then how can a woman actually "have" the guy? How can he ever be faithful with all those yearnings toward the other sex? I'm not altogether sure thats a bisexual problem. I think cheating is a personal problem with each individual. Lest we forget all the bi-sexual women in the world that would never dream of giving up pussy for a man even if she were married to him.
Perhaps the OP can help me out...
OK, Mr. XplorYourBody... I have two questions for you...
A) How "bi" is he? (Let's say my bf hasn't had anal sex with men, never wants to, but HAS had oral sex with 4 men in his past. Hasn't done it for about 8 years, no "huge" desire to do it, but WOULD do it in a three-way... IF I ASKED HIM TO DO IT.)
B) Would YOU be able to be faithful to one person, one sex in a meaningful relationship with a person? Or would it drive you nuts?
I don't think you can ever "have" someone in a relationship. They must freely give themselves to you.
If a bisexual man loves a woman and wants to be only with her, why can't he be faithful? If the relationship is only about sex, then it's rather shallow.
Interesting... (the silence).
Maybe you could reword the TITLE of the thread to something more controversial. E.g. Can a bi guy ever be faithful?
Personally, I wouldn't want to be with a bi guy. I was married to a guy for 10 years before he came out of the closet as gay... so I guess he was, in reality, "bi" the whole time we were together. And as soon as he stopped being "bi", it was all over. So, for me it's "Once bitten, twice shy."
And in my humble opinion, women are "nesters" -- they want to feel like their man belongs to them. If a guy truly is bi, then how can a woman actually "have" the guy? How can he ever be faithful with all those yearnings toward the other sex?