How Do You Feel About Gay Men Enjoying Your Pics On This Site?

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Sometimes I'll be scrolling through pictures and videos here and find a guy I really like the gallery of, and then I'll see on their profile that they're 100 percent straight, and then I usually feel guilty and stop exploring their gallery.

I suppose some straight men on here are exhibitionists that like being admired by anyone, but I don't want to assume that is the case with everyone.

The majority of my friends and people close to me throughout my life have been straight men, so I trained myself very young to never indulge in an attraction to a straight man, so I'll feel bad even looking at pics of a straight dude's dick at this point.

I love men, so the last thing I'd ever want to do is make them uncomfortable. How do you feel about so many men on this site being aroused by your galleries?
 

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As long as comments are respectful, it doesn't bother me at all.

Sometimes rarely but sometimes the comments are downright disrespectful and if you complain to the person in question, instead of answering respectfully they accuse you of being Homophobic and that does bother me.
 
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Sometimes rarely but sometimes the comments are downright disrespectful and if you complain to the person in question, instead of answering respectfully they accuse you of being Homophobic and that does bother me.

Agreed. I look at it like the shoe is on the opposite foot. If I were to approach a woman and speak in this manner, would it be appropriate? There is a difference between complimenting, and harassing. If you know that she isn't in to you... then leave it at that.

To your point, if a gay guy knows I'm straight, and wants to give me a compliment. THANKS!
But don't tell me what sexual things you want to do, or try and pressure me into sexual conversations with you.
 

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Sometimes rarely but sometimes the comments are downright disrespectful and if you complain to the person in question, instead of answering respectfully they accuse you of being Homophobic and that does bother me.
That's awful and not okay. Those guys are creeps. The fact you would be accused of homophobia for that infuriates me, since it trivializes the real issue of homophobia and uses it to manipulate and shame someone for protecting themselves and calling out the shitty behavior.

In my personal life sometimes I've counted on my straight guy friends to let me know if whatever gay guy I'm into makes them uncomfortable because they'll feel it before I will. There's a lot of predators and abusers out there and they need to be called out, and I have known guys who will say that they're being persecuted for their sexuality when in fact they're being called out for being a creep.
 

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Sometimes I'll be scrolling through pictures and videos here and find a guy I really like the gallery of, and then I'll see on their profile that they're 100 percent straight, and then I usually feel guilty and stop exploring their gallery.

I suppose some straight men on here are exhibitionists that like being admired by anyone, but I don't want to assume that is the case with everyone.

The majority of my friends and people close to me throughout my life have been straight men, so I trained myself very young to never indulge in an attraction to a straight man, so I'll feel bad even looking at pics of a straight dude's dick at this point.

I love men, so the last thing I'd ever want to do is make them uncomfortable. How do you feel about so many men on this site being aroused by your galleries?
Don't see a problem, its not like this site restricts it and you are showing off for the internet
 

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When I first joined it was a little odd but as long as the comments are respectful I don’t mind at all. Ive gotten to where I enjoy the comments on my pictures and I’ve made friends here gay, straight and bi.
 

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Well posting something on internet can lead into any use or miss use of it. Irs could be running big data over dick pics ( some believe income is correlated to cock size ) to detect tax evasions.
So if it’s there enjoy but I don’t wanna know about it.
 

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I could care less and if guys are aroused or even beating off to my pics more power to them. Any pictures of myself I have here are free to be viewed or enjoyed by anyone else. While I would like to think they are mostly being viewed by women, I am not naive and know that is far from the case considering both the demographics of the site and the simple fact most female members do not give comments or compliments to guy's pictures in the same vein they receive them from guys or men give other men.

So with that being said, I agree with some of the other responses here in that one must take what one can get and I do appreciate any likes or comments from other guys as long as it's respectful and they realize I'm not here for the dicks. A simple compliment like "big dick", "nice body" or similar is acceptable, welcome and can be an ego boost and I will either "like" their comment or might even thank them. Telling me what you want to do with me sexually, especially in a graphic way, will get you ignored.
 

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I don't really have a dog in this fight as I do not post pics nor vids, but I really appreciated reading this:
Sometimes I'll be scrolling through pictures and videos here and find a guy I really like the gallery of, and then I'll see on their profile that they're 100 percent straight, and then I usually feel guilty and stop exploring their gallery.
In the grand scheme of things anybody should be fully aware that their pics can be seen by anyone and so should simply accept all admiration isnt going to stem from the targeted audience, but your first instinct implies a level of respect and restraint not shared by far too many of our homosexual brothers, and I happen to think that's something that should be called out for how good that is.
My advice to you is essentially the same mantra I practice in my visual lust for women; Its my burden not theirs. As long as you're not commenting, poking and prodding, enjoy away especially for content put out to see. Watch the pic or vid, drool, jerk off if it suits your fancy...until you make the additional effort of "liking" or commenting its no boundaries tested, no harm no foul.
 

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More power to who ever I'd enjoying my pics how ever they want to. Comments are appreciated as well.
Some have been extremely graphic in telling me what they'd like to do to, and with me. It's all good. No biggie. I'm just glad they took the time to look, like, and comment on my pics.