How do you feel about older Men?

[Silbot.]

41 here. Definitely prefer older, and if it that's you in your avatar, gimme a call if it doesn't work out.

 

[Stabilo]

I have become the older guy and it amazes me how many younger men ( 30 somethings ) cruise me. When I was in my 20s, I did not consider older men as potential sex partners. As I aged a bit, that mindset totally changed. I currently find men in their 40s , 50s, and 60s to be HOT.

how old r u buddy ?

 

[Tight_End_SC]

how old r u buddy ?

I turned 57 last month

 

[weho48]

My wow moment came when the Queen of England read from her speech in Parliament that her government would introduce same sex marriage legislation and kept a straight face....she rocked!!!!

 

[weho48]

Didn't mean to go off topic. Was responding to hot throat la.

 

[worshipbig1s]

I'm 29, and have almost exclusively pursued older men - anywhere from 5-25 years older. I recently ended a relationship with a man who was 55. You don't exactly get to choose who you love, but I have to admit that I don't plan on pursuing relationships with men who are more than about 15 years my senior in the future, as I have found that such an age gap can create problems that I'd rather avoid.

Anyway, I get off on older men. There's something very masculine about it. Sometimes I see really good looking young men and think to myself "yeah, but he'll be 100 times hotter in 10 years." They are often more comfortable and less flakey. Plus I think grey/white hair is kinda sexy.

Do you ever get to Indianapolis??????
LOL!
I wish!

 

[BVERSE7]

Nothing is hotter to me than an older man. Especially if he is bigger than me. I love a “dad bod”. And I love a man that is experienced, in control, and knows what he wants to do with me.

 

[Tomtom10]

I think it depends on how the older guy acts. My first same sex experience was with a colleague who was 14 years older than me, but he came across younger in personality. He looked after himself and had a fairly well toned body.

 

[ohiorod]

I have enjoyed the maturity of some older guys and certainly liked their financial stability. In one case it made a nice change of pace as I had felt a younger guy pursuing me also was a bit too interested in my car, home and $. I think it is just a matter of attraction and more than anything..... the connection.

 

[AlexDB9]

I'm not hung up on age. I'm 49, the young ones are mostly what is coming after me these days. I'm currently seeing a guy 21 years younger than me. Initially I hadn't meant to get serious about him but he's proven to be a great guy so I'm giving him a chance. Before him, I was dating an older guy who was super sexy but turned out to not be boyfriend material.

 

[902369]

I don't know who bumped this but I'm 28 and I find that older gay men can be very creepy, pushy and have unrealistic expectations. Like the amount of 60+ year old gay men looking for a 20 something year old boyfriend is quite a joke. Additionally, a lot of older gay men want younger partners/sex buddies but feel uncomfortable and/or are not in the position to provide in terms of support, financial means or just general sound advice that you can give to someone much younger than you since you are so much older. My last statement is what really bothers me about older gay men because I see so much of it and their sense of entitlement to someone much younger is unreal.

I also question those who claim that guys much younger approach them because from my experience, those younger guys have issues that older gay men either are not aware of or take advantage of.

 

[Tbprivate]

I don't know who bumped this but I'm 28 and I find that older gay men can be very creepy, pushy and have unrealistic expectations. Like the amount of 60+ year old gay men looking for a 20 something year old boyfriend is quite a joke. Additionally, a lot of older gay men want younger partners/sex buddies but feel uncomfortable and/or are not in the position to provide in terms of support, financial means or just general sound advice that you can give to someone much younger than you since you are so much older. My last statement is what really bothers me about older gay men because I see so much of it and their sense of entitlement to someone much younger is unreal.

I also question those who claim that guys much younger approach them because from my experience, those younger guys have issues that older gay men either are not aware of or take advantage of.

I wasn’t sure whether to take the time and effort to respond to your over generalisation as no one will convince you to change your opinion. Just accept that not everyone likes what you like.

I met my partner when he was 22 and I was 54. We were together for more than 6 years and lived together as a loving couple. He came from a financially well off family and we complemented each perfectly.

Now I’m 64 and get messages daily from young guys who love older guys and enjoy the passionate sex.

 

[902369]

I wasn’t sure whether to take the time and effort to respond to your over generalisation as no one will convince you to change your opinion. Just accept that not everyone likes what you like.

I met my partner when he was 22 and I was 54. We were together for more than 6 years and lived together as a loving couple. He came from a financially well off family and we complemented each perfectly.

Now I’m 64 and get messages daily from young guys who love older guys and enjoy the passionate sex.

Sure...

 

[giovannib]

I feel very attracted to older men.

 

[Brodie888]

The only problem with older guys is that you are more likely to get a mismatch in sex drive as time progresses. Obviously not a big deal in an open relationship but can be frustrating in a monogamous one.

 

[Tbprivate]

The only problem with older guys is that you are more likely to get a mismatch in sex drive as time progresses. Obviously not a big deal in an open relationship but can be frustrating in a monogamous one.

Yes, frustrating when the older guy is the hornier one in the relationship

 

[timmybaltimore]

Love older guys.

 

[Bunny35]

Im 44 and much prefer younger guys....anyone looking for a dad, hit me up

 

[notN2pussy]

Not much into older myself, due to my own age! I do get offers pretty often from much younger, but they just seem to only want my cock

 

[radoveden1]

When I was in my 20s, I always was interested in the "under 30" (now I lol when I see these young guys doing that). Once i hit early 30s, I became attracted to older men as well. Now I'm 40, I'll easily stare down a 20 something but a fit silver fox turns me on maybe more. Something about the maturity is hot. Somebody like this.