How do you feel about sharing your woman?

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by B_mylipswet, Dec 31, 2008.

  1. B_mylipswet

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    My man tells me all the time about how he would never share me. I know he has shared other girls and he thinks of them as cheap. How do you feel about that?
     
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    Is this the bi-polar guy or someone else?
     
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    I don't know.....I'd be open to it if I was more attractive and could get other girls...but since I'm not, I don't really feel comfortable with it. Besides I'd worry about contracting STDs
     
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    I personally would not do it. I'm not interested in something cheap and uninteresting. After the fact it's not likely someone you tend to keep your respect for a long term relationship.
     
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    I was thinking the same thing!! What gives? I'm confused.
     
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    I don't have a woman, but if I did I don't know how I'd feel about it. Hope that helps.
     
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    I'm open to the idea of more 'communal' experiences with my significant other, provided we both actively participate.
    The standards required for me to consider someone would be fairly high - of either gender.
     
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    So he shares the girl willingly and then calls her cheap? What a double standard.
     
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    What about the "woman" in question? After all she's a human being, and should decide who she wants to be with.
     
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    poly-queer girls don't believe in ownership or imposing limitations on another person's sexuality. any jealousy or possessiveness would be my issue to deal with.

    ML

    seconding what Hung Jon said. he is a very smart boy.
     
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    So long as she also has time for me, it's none of my business.
     
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    it's the old double standard that many males including myself have. i wouldn't want to share my woman, but would share someone else's. i'm ashamed to say it, but that's the way it is.
     
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    To me, I would only share my girl with someone I could trust. Someone she wouldn't mind messing around with. As long as we are both comfortable, that is what matters.
     
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    No honest statement needs shame.
     
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    I would never share my girl. Absolutely not.
     
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    My sentiments exactly. I don't own anybody else, so I don't tell them what they may or may not do with their bodies. I own myself, but I share.

    As for the original post, sounds a bit like a double-standard to me.
     
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    not into sharing...
     
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