How do you feel about Trans women/men?

[johnweek1]

I am a heteromantic bisexual, so I have no attraction to men romantically, but I absolutely love me some dick and am happy to declare that. As a bi person, my ideal female partner, strictly sexually speaking, is thick. Boobs are my biggest turn on with females and a well endowed girl with a nice ass will make me cum in seconds! Younger cougars/milfs in their late 30's to late 40's are a super turn on for me.

I think I am more straight than gay in my bisexuality because generally speaking, any female body type will get me hard, but for the bros, I am far more selective as I am only into twinks or twinkish body types. Gimme a big dicked geeky twink and I will scream. Love seeing long cock with a big, flared head on a sexy little twink frame with a big pair to compliment.

That said, I think this is partly why I am totally cool with trans ladies/bros for the most part. I would love to hook up with one sometime as I never actually have. Though I do admit, it depends on how far they have gone with surgery in their transition. A male to female that either has a pussy via surgery or still has their dick is pure fire to me. Love me a hung trans. And if the male to female trans lady has had surgery and now has a pussy, then to me its the same as hetero sex and that is totally fine.

On the flip side with females to males, a hot twinkish male body with a warm, tight pussy to fuck check's like all my boxes as a bi person. Hot twinkish male body, check! Tight warm, sexy pussy, check! Though my sexual attractions lead me to a preference for female to males that still have a pussy. Because of biology, FTM dick just doesn't do it for me because of the size.

So when you take my desired female traits and put a nice cock on her, I am all over that because its like twink meets the female form. And on the flip side, when you take my desired twinkish male body type, but the person still has a pussy, its like omg now I can fuck this person too! Hell yes! (Side note, I am not attracted to penetrative anal sex, so I only have penetrative sex if there is a pussy to do it with.)

This is just my own personal sexual interests when it comes to trans peoples; curious how other bi people feel. The hetero and gay communities seem far less attracted to trans people as sexual partners from what I have seen because gay and straight are naturally less fluid then bisexuals. On that note, any gay or straight people that want to comment on this thread have my blessing assuming the mods are ok with that, it would be interesting to hear their perspectives as well since sexuality can be hard to define and I imagine there are plenty of straight/gay people that have feelings contradicting my earlier statements and would love to share their thoughts as well.

 

[WilliamG]

Never heard the term "heteromantic" before. But I think that fits a LOT of us bi and bi curious guys. Love women in emotional, and physical, and sexual senses. But with men it's purely sexual. And like you I'm a bit selective. Guys that are way out of shape don't do it for me. No wanting to kiss them either. But a woman I give a fair amount of leeway for physical appearance and body shape. I think that has to do with the emotional connection.

If I had choice for a guy, I would like a big dicked nerdy twink a well. But an older in shape guy that keeps it mostly shaved is fine too! And being in my 60's... A younger twink would be a real surprise!

As far as trans go, I kinda like the male to female to have a slight male look to them. Those with huge implants and Botox are not my thing. Now the female to male is a new concept for me. Maybe adult media has been slow to recognize them? I personally know relative who's transitioned from herself into a male. She was cute before. And is now cute as a 20 something man. I'm not aware though if he has had surgery to create a penis. He's strictly into women though.

 

[deleted817718]

As a more pansexual man if I find you attractive I find you attractive. It doesn’t make a difference if you are trans, non-binary, male, female or any other sex. They are all valid, all perfect and all beautiful

 

[merc41]

Sounds the same for.me. Not interested in men except for sex or friendship. Pre op trans women are.the best. Must be feminine in appearance, big tits and ass a plus. To me.they have it all sexually. Female beauty , tits.,cock, balls and ass what more could you want. I truly think they have the libido of a man and No drama .

 

[dickthrobbing]

I have taken a few Asian T-girls / ladyboys, Trans on theatre, dinner dates, parties its fun to listen to other guys comment on how women comment on how attractive my 'girl friend' is , and guy comment how sexy my 'girl friend' is.

Little did they know of the wonderful set of jewels these 'girl friends' had

 

[Dojo481]

Transphobia is a massive thing with us misogynist gays. Ironically, many of us also associate pursuing transexual people with not being a good gay (ie., the "transitory bisexual") or forsaking some social pledge noone has ever actually made. For years, I refused to even watch a transexual scene on pornhub.

I put my own bizarre fears aside during a skittles-fueled bday celebration a few years back and had a delightful time flip-fucking and flip-fucking and flip-fucking with a pre-operative MTF trans guest - a gorgeous immigrant from the Phillipines with a stunning face and long cock and small tits (hormones). With guys, I tell myself that I prefer bottoms of all types of fit/handsome men with nice genitals (masculine or feminine) and "more masculine" tops.

The shifting power dynamics and energy were very nice and thrilling and... avant-garde. This was one of my more passionate and thrilling escapades-the best aspect being that I had no idea what to expect during the next position, etc., and I can only compare that long night to an exciting and brand new amusement park ride, lol, that challenged my rules and "narratives" instead of a fear of falling to my death.

I haven't hooked up with another trans person since then, merely due to most trans women I come across being working girls (not my thing), but younger generations of trans women seem somewhat more diverse! I highly recommend that more "100% gay" men who instantly rebuff transexuals try to be less misogynist and more open-minded... maybe there would be less posts about confused sexual beings, or about stimulation and intimacy issues?

 

[halcyondays]

If I bring an MTF home and she has a cock it's never stopped me. No Crying Game moments here.

It's fine with me. Same goes for a FTM with a vagina tho that has been rare.

 

[thom_green2003]

As a friend, anyone everyone is great!
Sexual, not for me.

 

[Alex Sommers]

Huge turn off for me. I'm bi, but I like men to be men and women to be women. No mixing of parts. If you're into it, fine. But it's something I prefer to avoid.

 

[PeachyDistance]

I believe that there are some beautiful trans individuals in this world. Inside and out. Jaimie Wilson comes to mind. As people outside of a pornographic/sexual nature, I have many trans friends who I adore to pieces. My cousin has been transitioning for years now and she’s happier than ever. Her happiness makes me happy.

When it comes to inside the realm of sex, I’m 100% gay. I love penis. Point blank. I love the male form and all it’s glory. Trans adult stars and trans sexual attraction simply isn’t there. There are a number of porn trans individuals who can be so mean and spiteful when you make that statement. That behavior doesn’t make matters better at all. The trans community has a large number of people who have a tendency to throw “phobic” a lot when gay men like myself state that we’re not interested.

Like I’ve said in the past, I don’t have to sleep with you to be your friend and ally. I can support you without the sexual aspects.

 

[KRising]

Huge turn off for me. I'm bi, but I like men to be men and women to be women. No mixing of parts. If you're into it, fine. But it's something I prefer to avoid.

Obligatory response- but trans men are men, trans women are women. This “mixing of parts” rhetoric is harmful, love and support our trans allies They’ve been there for the rest of us time and again

ETA: I don’t believe anything malicious was meant by your comment, but the words we choose are important. “I like cis men and women” gets the point across without invalidating trans men and women

 

[WilliamG]

“I like cis men and women” gets the point across without invalidating trans men and women

Many of the terms used today are foreign to a large number of the population still. Especially to those over say 50 or living in a small rural environment. Most of us are wise enough now to Google new terms as we read or hear them. But this whole gender identity thing is still VERY fluid for many of us. I've heard the term "cis" but have never personally used it in conversation (yet).

When I see a beautiful trans woman (hold your thought on that term for now), the term "gurl" comes to mind (thanks porn industry...). But then I have second thoughts on my choice of words. First, I've learned women over 18 are not girls. Second, I do not know if that person is identifying as man or woman (looks are not always the sign). So when I'm talking to someone in a non sexual situation I might say trans person just in case. Then I second guess and think "trans person" is like the slang "midget" to a little person. So I think OK... This "person".

And then it gets more confusing:
I personally know a woman (lesbian) that transitioned to male in appearance. Had her breasts removed, taking hormones, and has facial hair now. This person keeps and uses their female birth name and still has a vagina. This person is considering having a penis constructed but has not yet. This person still has relationships exclusively with women. So now I'm learning about all the new pronouns... It's a process.

And BTW? I fucking love woman with cocks (what ever they identify as).

 

[KRising]

Many of the terms used today are foreign to a large number of the population still. Especially to those over say 50 or living in a small rural environment. Most of us are wise enough now to Google new terms as we read or hear them. But this whole gender identity thing is still VERY fluid for many of us. I've heard the term "cis" but have never personally used it in conversation (yet).

When I see a beautiful trans woman (hold your thought on that term for now), the term "gurl" comes to mind (thanks porn industry...). But then I have second thoughts on my choice of words. First, I've learned women over 18 are not girls. Second, I do not know if that person is identifying as man or woman (looks are not always the sign). So when I'm talking to someone in a non sexual situation I might say trans person just in case. Then I second guess and think "trans person" is like the slang "midget" to a little person. So I think OK... This "person".

And then it gets more confusing:
I personally know a woman (lesbian) that transitioned to male in appearance. Had her breasts removed, taking hormones, and has facial hair now. This person keeps and uses their female birth name and still has a vagina. This person is considering having a penis constructed but has not yet. This person still has relationships exclusively with women. So now I'm learning about all the new pronouns... It's a process.

And BTW? I fucking love woman with cocks (what ever they identify as).

Referring to someone as a trans man/trans woman is 100% acceptable. Saying “I like my men to be men” and “no mixing of parts” implies only cis men are male, and ignores the fact that women with penises exist. I can definitely understand where it can be confusing (especially for the above mentioned demographic) but at the end of it all trans men and women are just as “real” in their gender identity regardless of where they are in transition.
It can definitely be a lot to learn, but def sounds like you’re open and willing! Which is a stellar place to start

 

[nhguy78]

I think the sexual term would be androsexual. You like masculine presenting people or penis-owning people who ever they identify.

 

[uncuttexasdad]

I have a fantasy/bucket list desire to see a FTM in person. I know one, just don’t know of he would allow it. Mostly wonder how the the clit looks now….

 

[johnweek1]

I have a fantasy/bucket list desire to see a FTM in person. I know one, just don’t know of he would allow it. Mostly wonder how the the clit looks now….

There is porn out there of it, plenty on PornHub. If they did not do readjustment surgery, it doesn't look any different. If they had a dick constructed, it looks like a very, very small cock.

 

[uncuttexasdad]

There is porn out there of it, plenty on PornHub. If they did not do readjustment surgery, it doesn't look any different. If they had a dick constructed, it looks like a very, very small cock.

Right I know he had top surgery and is on HRT and now is hairy and bearded

 

[d_jnes]

Attraction trans women with big cocks is what led me to bisexuality. I have some great experiences with trans MTF transexuals.

 

[Ace1175]

I find some very interesting some are very attractive and sexy then I see a big throbbing cock I do a double take to make I saw what I saw

 

[ag897]

I do know I love masturbating to the Trans tab on Chaturbate. Women with giant cocks is a really exciting concept!