How do you feel about your role in sex?

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  1. RandyL

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    I see and jerk off to a lot of internet porn. On free sites, naturally.

    I see the women in various positions, like on their hands and knees getting pounded from behind.

    I was wondering how women felt about their role in sex, which is basically "bend over and take my cock, baby". So they are in some position while a man pounds away into them.

    Or they are bent over a desk, or on their back, or even when they are on top, it looks like their purpose is to receive the cock and make the man squirt a load.

    Just wondering how women felt about it, but they are probably fine with it, because what else are they going to do? Grow dicks and fuck their men so he can see what's it's like to be the bitch?
     
  2. ManlyBanisters

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    Have you ever had real sex with a real woman?

    You really think that for women the "role in sex [...] is basically "bend over and take my cock, baby"" and that the only alternative is to "[g]row dicks and fuck their men so he can see what's it's like to be the bitch"?

    Holy fuck - please stop watching shit American porn and go out and fuck some real women!

    Sex can be as diverse or as repetitive as you make.

    Certainly I like to be laid down (or stood up, or hung from a light fitting, etc., etc. :biggrin:) and fucked - but that is far from my only role in sex.

    You've obviously never had a woman lay you back and fuck you. Shame.
     
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    I have a good buddy at work, from hanging out with him on occasion its obvious he's addicted to porn. He is 28 yrs old and hasn't had a productive relationship with women that's lasted more than 2 months his entire life. He is well-endowed and wonders why women won't stay with him because...well...that's what they like in the porn he watches :rolleyes:

    A basically nice guy, just misguided.
     
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    I have a nice stap on OP. Bend over and take my cock bitch!
     
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    Porn shows very little about REAL sex. Real sex has many different styles and flavors, including sweet, raunchy, rough, fun.

    Trust me, if that's all you did (porn style sex) with a wife or girlfriend, you will not keep her long.

    I recommend reading some books to increase your awareness of the "other faces" of sex: Maybe a shortened version of the Kama Sutra, or maybe the Joy of Sex.

    Check it out.

    WOuldn't you rather be a great lover (than a little boy acting out porn movies)?
     
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    That is a misogynistic view. It's also passive aggressive because you're really not asking women what they like. You're telling them to be a doormat and just GET FUCKED. No reverse cowboy for YOU!
     
  7. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    I don't even know what to say.

    MB said it all for me.

    ::walks away muttering:: "be the bitch, eh? I'll show him bitch...."
     
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    I think sometimes, like on the guys birthday then we're (speaking for myself) there to do what they want. Not to the point of being porn degraded and being treated as a living doll and only there to let him do what he wants, but its his time so let him decide how things go.

    But it also works i reverse.There are times when its all about what i want (like my birthday). But the same applies, i wouldn't make him do anything he wasnt happy to do.

    and then. yes there are things like doggie where it looks like the guy is having all the fun but its a good position for us girls to. Where you see it as him just pounding away i see it as the chick getting hit in all the right spots. :wink:
    However the way it is presented in porn is very unrealistic and one sided
     
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    all the women here are right. porn depicts women as objects and nothing more. it's not real sex, it's fantasy. real sex is about what both people want. sometimes i want to lose control and let go of all my inhibitions. and other times i want to be in control and have things done my way.
     
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    Pick the guy who will die a virgin.
     
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    What? :confused::confused::confused:

    Oh, thanks you answered it for me...
     
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    LMAO!!!
     
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    RandyL,How do you feel about your role in sex?

    I grew up on a farm and the funniest thing to watch was the sheep or pigs getting wild.Seeing the male humping and bouncing all over realy tickled my funny bone.When I watch porn thats the image I see all over again.Little piglet bouncing and grunting for all he's worth!lolI won't even get into what the ducks and chickens were doing!So when I watch a porno and the guy's all revved up and making her take it,I see piglet bouncing around and it just kills me lol!!!
     
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    Open your mind my friend:

    Strap-On Sex - Femdom

    :rolleyes:
     
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    Forget the OP, he seems like he's not the type to open up a bit to have a little fun.

    Now I on the other hand...I'm there for the taking. :wink:
     
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    Well I know I am stepping away from porn. I met a woman who I was able to express my true inner feelings. We were able to discuss things naturally and she made me feel what really goes into a healthy relationship. It is too bad that she didn't reciprocate my feelings. She is moving away and I want to stay in touch, but I sometimes wonder if it will be worth it or she may be blocking from someone else coming into my life. Any opinions would be helpful, especially from other women's point of view.
     
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