How do you feel when you do not receive you're used too

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This got me thinking if your former partner was large and your used to his volume in you. Something happens, parish the thought, find yourself looking for love again. Your lover, partner is not what you used to have. How you feel about him and the relationship?
I know sex in is not all mechanical, its emotional, love, caring, and spiritual. But I would think you might feel kind of lacking? I respect whom you are as woman, the size of your vagina does not make you less of a woman and a person.
 

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I'm not sure why you are asking but guys have asked that question before and I think they worry about it too much. I think to some girls size might be a major concern but I don't think bigger necessarily means better. Personally, once I satisfied my curiosity with a bigger bf, my whole mentality changed a little and it hasn't been an issue with me.
 

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I understand what you're saying. We have a big guy now. When he's gone and we have to settle for a little guy will we be missing the extra mass. The answer is no.

It's not like I'm gaping open all the time when he's not inside of me! Believe it or not, there's a lot more to intimacy than shoving a telephone pole up there. And sometimes I'm just not in the mood for a telephone pole, and we try other things. It's those other things that I would miss tremendously!
 

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I understand what you're saying. We have a big guy now. When he's gone and we have to settle for a little guy will we be missing the extra mass. The answer is no.

It's not like I'm gaping open all the time when he's not inside of me! Believe it or not, there's a lot more to intimacy than shoving a telephone pole up there. And sometimes I'm just not in the mood for a telephone pole, and we try other things. It's those other things that I would miss tremendously!
you sound like a great woman