How Do You Get A Blow Job in a Bookstore?

[D_Petherick Lullabylips]

Hey JJkrkwood,
Exactly where is the East 4th Street Peep? Same for The Gallery.

 

[FleshlightMouth]

Read my blog for some pretty damn exciting experiences at my favorite local adult bookstore / video arcade:

http://www.lpsg.org/blogs/fleshlightmouth/

And leave some comments if you like the stories

 

[Sabln9A]

"Quote:

The "regular" is the guy who walks in with loose shorts on, a fucked up old shirt and kneepads. He knows the terrain, has marked his territory and has an agenda to get as many cocks in his mouth as possible. This guy will most likely be your enemy after the first time you cross paths because you'll notice that he's everywhere you want to be. You'll notice that he'll even try to do things to catch a potential meal before you, cocklbocking, if you will."

Guilty! Except I don't wear kneepads (wish I did). At the bookstores in my town, if you sit with the door of your booth ajar and your pants zipped and kind of suck on a finger when a guy looks in, you are looking to give a blow job. He will generally enter, lock the door, unzip and fuck your face.

If you stand in your booth rubbing your cock with your pants zipped or sit with your dick out while masturbating, you are looking to get sucked. The other guys will usually enter, lock the door, and drop to his knees while you adjust your cock to be blown.

Pretty simple. I do it all the time. Usually, I can get as many as 15 cocks sucked in an afternoon, and I can also get mine sucked at least once.

Warning: There are more suckers than suckees, but that should make you better able to get a blowjob.

 

[D_Pubert Stabbingpain]

These sleazy bookstores sound like a relic leftover from the 1950's, '60's and '70's. Like sex in public restrooms or parks.

I go to a Border's bookstore. I buy a sugar-free vanilla latte and sit in a chair by the window to skim through a new arrival or a history book.

I don't want 3 or 4 strangers coming in my mouth in a dark, dank clandestine setting.

I like keeping it more open and less illicit: Dinner, movies, then back to my apartment.

No sticky floors or furtive back-alley sex.

I remember walking into 1 of these when I was looking for a COLT vid in the 90's. I was so sickened by the huge stench of bleach (or bleach/cum?) I got out of there and never thought of going back.
I'd rather JO than put myself through that but some guys get off on it and when you are in the closet, that is all the M/M sex you get. So sad.

 

[2322]

I went again last night as I was so horned-up and again, nothing happened.

First place there were a few booths with lights on, I went in to the next one, pulled it out and.... the guy next door would leave. That happened three times. When I left that booth I walked around and the place was nearly empty! I cleared it out!

I went into another booth, got my thing going, another guy entered the booth next to me.... and left!

So I went down the road to the other bookstore. Walked into a booth next to one where another guy was standing and he walked away. None of these guys were so hot that they could afford to be so damned picky. So I figured I was just going to enjoy myself. I left the door unlatched and just started to enjoy myself with a good bear vid and twice some guy came up to my door, peaked in, and walked away. Another guy entered the booth next to me and started stroking himself through his pants but he had latched his door. There aren't any GHs in this place, just buddy windows. He barked at me, "Use your other hand idiot!" ('cause I was using my left and I guess it obscured his view. I closed my side of the window on that asshole.

And that was that.

I'd say your experience is pretty typical so I wouldn't say you're doing a lot wrong. The only suggestion I have is that if you want a blowjob, get one -- don't give one. Some guys go to suck, others go to get sucked. Not a lot of guys go to do both (at least not on the same day). So go in exuding confidence and looking to get sucked and I think you will. If you go in looking to suck, guys pick up on that and are less likely to suck you. Probably not what you wanted to hear, but I hope this helps.

Didn't work. I went in like owned the place, looked around, but didn't look anyone in directly in the eye. Perhaps I should have done that? Maybe I look like a cop?

This guy is right.
Why don’t you just pick up one guy to this on the regular for you?
Not a boyfriend just someone to scratch an itch and vice versa.

Oh I wish! I go on Squirt and various other sites and it's always the same guys who can't host (i.e. married), older for younger and younger for the same age. It's a joke. There seem to be very few single and out gay guys around here. I've known that for a while but it's discouraging and I find it difficult not to find that a reflection on me.

Jason-one thing I've learned about ABS' in my short time in the scene is that the men are always waiting for "Mario Lopez" to walk in and offer his cock to them (or offer to suck them...whatever).

Guys in bookstores feel as if they're offering so much and that they have some sort of right to get exactly what they're looking for. Niceties and gentlemanly behavior is left in the backseats of their cars along with their wedding rings. It's all about secrecy, efficiency and catering to their needs.

Many guys don't reciprocate because they're not looking to do anything "gay"...that's a whole 'notha can of worms that I'm not going to dig into, but you know what that's all about. Anyone who is an active LPSG member should be aware of that struggle.

Part 2:

There are two types of guys who frequent bookstores. The first is the "sucker."

Degrees of sucker range from novice to "regular." A novice guy is one who doesn't spend that much time trolling around porn booths looking for a cock in his mouth. He's most likely married and frustrated with his lack of male-male sex. He won't be very good at oral, but his dedication and straight-acting persona will make him a wanted target.

The "regular" is the guy who walks in with loose shorts on, a fucked up old shirt and kneepads. He knows the terrain, has marked his territory and has an agenda to get as many cocks in his mouth as possible. This guy will most likely be your enemy after the first time you cross paths because you'll notice that he's everywhere you want to be. You'll notice that he'll even try to do things to catch a potential meal before you, cocklbocking, if you will.

You, Jason, are somewhere in-between. It seems as though you know what you're doing, but are not a full on cock-hawk.

The guys who hang out in front of the booths are most likely suckers because they wouldn't be trying to sell goods if there were others around wanting to be serviced. Generally, guys who want service don't waste their time hanging out in front of the booths because they know that they will be followed as soon as they enter the place. Unless there's some reason why no one's following that person.

Part 3:

The suckee.
Most suckees are the bi-sexual or masculine gay men that spend most of their days in their role as a straight man. Sometimes they'll shed that act as soon as they cross the threshold into the bookstore and sometimes they carry it all the way into the booth where they feel like they can live out their fantasies.

There's two types of suckees. The choosy type and the free-for-all type. The choosy suckee will brood around the bookstore looking for that one person who is his particular type...all the while running from everyone else like they've got the plague. They'll do things like cover up their cocks when you walk by or walk away abruptly if they think you're going to start conversation with them. They're most likely never to reciprocate sex and least likely to ask for a contact number after their finished. If you're their type the sex can be gratifying since you've found the formula to get them when everyone else stares in jealousy.

The Free-for-all suckee would walk into the store with his cock out if it wasn't illegal. They like to get sucked by any and everyone and can sometimes be annoying with their desperation. At times they like to sample the merchandise, allowing one person to suck them for a period and then switching to someone else for a different style or technique. They're a selfish group, but are more likely to reciprocate as they probably are more into having sex in general, unlike the choosy types.


I know this was a super-long answer to a question, but it felt like the right time to give this info and you seem like you'd benefit from knowing.

I should have re-read this before I went. It's good stuff and seems very true. Thank you very much for writing this. I'm not a cock hawk. I'm just astonished that I left both bookstores pissed-off that they're full of married guys looking to get a blow job and do nothing in return or don't know what the fuck they want. I told myself beforehand not to go in with any expectations and not to settle. I didn't settle but I guess I didn't quite surrender my expectations as I tried to.

you must be really young...

adult bookstores are mainly for gay married men...normally on Monday and Friday is when they are looking for a BLOW AND GO...

guys stand in the door..cuz...they have no where else to stand...if u have the balls...ask them if they are planning to use the booth...they will move...anyone standing around..doesn't have any money to feed the videos.

does the place not have gloryholes..? if not...u'd be better off going to a bookstore that does...and for the record..u will have better success at a bath house if ur looking for sex...annonymous or otherwise...

and dood...why would u swallow three or four loads? could be that is the reason guys were avoiding you..i dunno...and if ur not packing...u don't get to choose...the big cock pics you...and if he is married..he doesn't care what u look like or how small u r...all he wants is a blow job...and if by chance he feels ur body and finds some really nice curves and bumps, chest, pecs, biceps, triceps and great ass...and less we forget...the bulge...then its a whole new event...

That seems to be the case. Obviously whatever I have isn't of interest to other guys. This has been a recurring problem for me. I used to think I was ugly. Now I think I'm just average -- I don't send people running on the streets :biggrin1:-- but I don't think I'm attractive to other men at all. It's rather odd and it does get me wondering what I can do. I see other guys, older, fatter, and they get action. For whatever reason, I don't and it must be something in my behavior or attitude that I haven't quite identified.

 

[D_Ireonsyd_Colonrinse]

Jason, what's up with all the seedy, dank bookstore sex? Is furtive, clandestine, anonymous, illicit (potential) sex such a big turn on?


You seemed so pleasantly demure and reserved once upon a time. What happened to that string of nice young men you were dating around January? (around the time you were contemplating coming out to your mother "via Email"?). You were very winsome and searching -- and a touch coquettish in those dates you described!


Bookstore sex and triple X videostore booth sex is so.... well, it's unenlightened, Jason. It's a relic of a bygone era which hasn't totally become extinct yet (like Larry Craig-style airport men's room sex). I'm no Ann Landers, but I don't think you're going to meet Mr. Wonderful peaking his head inside the jerk booth or sticking his dick through a gloryhole.

 

[Bbucko]

It's been a long, long time since I haunted the peeps. Some of these posts brought some of it back, which has put me in a kinda odd state of mind

To the topic [focus! focus!] at hand (and/or mouth as it were):

I think that the missing ingredient in all this is probably attitude and confidence. The less-than-perfect guys who score so well there do so because they (a) are not very picky; and (b) are very aggressive.

Being aggressive in that kind of situation involves explicit stuff (grabbing your own crotch/JOing, mumbled appreciation of a passing guy, reach-outs, etc) and less explicit stuff (firm eye contact, posture/stance, making sure people see what you're doing, etc).

It also means that you'll probably need to decide on a role and stick with it for that visit. Except when I was in my mid-teens, I always went to those places looking to be the cum-guzzler, not the other way around; I've always found it much easier to find a guy to suck on than one who'll suck. That's just the nature of that kind of venue. Maybe it's my size or maybe it's the nature of the beast, but I've found that those places are better for a tugjob than a blowjob.

One thing I can relate this to are my recent visits to the bathhouses here in FtL. My last several visits were always with someone else; we'd cruise together and separately as these were very casual FB situations. One thing I've noticed is the extreme reluctance on the part of much of the clientele in those places to actively engage: so many want to stand, watch and JO with absolutely minimal contact. They would crowd around and watch while I fucked someone but recoiled from even a nipple-tug or ass-slap; anything more direct would cause them to leave. This was much more apparent on a late afternoon/early evening than at 2:30 in the morning, when it's basically open bar for anything you'd want.

Married men of a certain age are really savvy about STDs, and are loath to bring anything home (with good reason). I'd bet that that is the inhibiting factor as much as any wariness toward you in particular. Getting a BJ has its risks, but giving one is considered much more so (justified or not).

I find your openness and frankness about all this highly commendable. This is real life, baby :biggrin1:

 

[2322]

I'm not looking for Mr. Wonderful in a bookstore. Trust me.

There was no string of guys either. There was one guy, great date, spent three hours together, and never heard from him again.

There are no gay venues where I live. Tonight I'm planning on driving to Moosic, PA (78 miles each way) to check out the Northeast Pennsylvania Leathermen's monthly party. I live in a county of 379,000 people and I have to drive out to god-foresaken PA to find a gay bar in hopes of finding guys who might live somewhere near me. I'm really frustrated.

 

[Bbucko]

Jason, what's up with all the seedy, dank bookstore sex? Is furtive, clandestine, anonymous, illicit (potential) sex such a big turn on?


You seemed so pleasantly demure and reserved once upon a time. What happened to that string of nice young men you were dating around January? (around the time you were contemplating coming out to your mother "via Email"?). You were very winsome and searching -- and a touch coquettish in those dates you described!


Bookstore sex and triple X videostore booth sex is so.... well, it's unenlightened, Jason. It's a relic of a bygone era which hasn't totally become extinct yet (like Larry Craig-style airport men's room sex). I'm no Ann Landers, but I don't think you're going to meet Mr. Wonderful peaking his head inside the jerk booth or sticking his dick through a gloryhole.

There's Mr Wonderful and there's Mr Right-Now. I'm actually kinda surprised by your puritanistic attitude, WT. Jason's an adult and fully capable of testing and pushing his own limits.

And part of the erotic charge is precisely the clandestine nature of the encounter; not everyone fantasizes about lover sex on cool blue sheets with soft jazz playing on the hifi. Leave him be.

 

[2322]

There's Mr Wonderful and there's Mr Right-Now. I'm actually kinda surprised by your puritanistic attitude, WT. Jason's an adult and fully capable of testing and pushing his own limits.

And part of the erotic charge is precisely the clandestine nature of the encounter; not everyone fantasizes about lover sex on cool blue sheets with soft jazz playing on the hifi. Leave him be.

No, no. I dream of stuff like that only on white Irish linen sheets with something aggressive on my hifi. I loathe jazz. I don't find bookstores erotic either. These are the same places that I've been going to on and off for years. Any mystique they once had is long gone.

What I was looking for was a no strings blowjob, nothing else.

 

[D_Ireonsyd_Colonrinse]

Bbucko:

Sorry. Do not mean to sound prudish nor puritanical.

But "bookstore sex" is the same kind of randy sex - like public-park-sex-in-the-bushes - that people like Bill O'Reilly and social conservatives love to point to as gay depravity. Or zeroing in on the 2 or 3 drag queens at the gay parade.


Bill O'Reilly was even offended by a "Gay Day" the San Diego Padres sponsored. In which only a small part of the baseball audience, a few gay groups, were offered a discount. Bill O'Reilly was OUTRAGED. Yet another example of militant, in-your-face homosexual activism.

Bookstore booth sex, bathhouse sex, public park sex, restroom sex --- they're all activities the gay movement must evolve past. It's not about being puritanical. It's about being practical in order to advance the gay agenda in today's politics.

 

[Mrmaxwell]

Roam the erotica section wearing bulge showing bottoms.

 

[2322]

Bbucko:

Sorry. Do not mean to sound prudish nor puritanical.

But "bookstore sex" is the same kind of randy sex - like public-park-sex-in-the-bushes - that people like Bill O'Reilly and social conservatives love to point to as gay depravity. Or zeroing in on the 2 or 3 drag queens at the gay parade.


Bill O'Reilly was even offended by a "Gay Day" the San Diego Padres sponsored. In which only a small part of the baseball audience, a few gay groups, were offered a discount. Bill O'Reilly was OUTRAGED. Yet another example of militant, in-your-face homosexual activism.

Bookstore booth sex, bathhouse sex, public park sex, restroom sex --- they're all activities the gay movement must evolve past. It's not about being puritanical. It's about being practical in order to advance the gay agenda in today's politics.

Why must we evolve past anything to satisfy homophobes? I agree that public park and restroom sex are inappropriate but I take complete exception to bath houses and adult books stores where age of entry is restricted.

What you're saying is that we have to assimilate to be accepted. Meanwhile straights are boinking each other all over the place including public parks, parking lots, and restrooms (albeit usually in age-restricted bars and clubs) without any comment from the homophobic press. What you're actually advocating is a double standard and that doesn't advance anyone's agenda beyond those who believe that if society is to accept gay people that it requires that they hide their sexuality outside of private (or even in private in the case of bath houses and bookstores). These pernicious people want gay people to appear straight, restrict their sexual obviousness, and essentially become acceptable by being house niggers to straights. "If you want acceptance you'll have to do it on our terms," is bullshit and not a single civil rights victory has ever been achieved by pretending to be something you're not.

 

[2322]

Roam the erotica section wearing bulge showing bottoms.

Hehe, I tried wearing bulge-enhancing jock last week and it didn't show a damn thing. I have an issue with buried penis so when I'm flaccid I appear tiny and I'm smaller-than-average to begin with.

 

[bigbulgelicker45]

Back in the mid '80's I started going to the bookstores after the bars would close (because my friends wanted to) and since I was usually driving I was pretty much stuck.

I didn't want to go (for fear of possibly a raid or some type of violence) but eventually it became a part of our weekend routine. Most of the time I wasn't looking to suck and I just played the video games and to my surprise I ended up doing quite a bit of sucking by not acting interested. I also tried to stay away from most of the action by browsing movies in the lobby or going into the main theater.

Everyone was there for a reason and as far as signals went, I'd look into some guys eyes, maybe purse my lips, look at his crotch and then seem uninterested. It usually worked but not all the time.

I think a lot of it has to do with the location of the bookstore too. The one that we frequented a lot was pretty safe (and somewhat large) and another one was in a strip mall type of setting. Cruising that one was more difficult since they took the doors off the booths later. I used to have the most luck at the second store.

Since my friends were always picking guys up I'd do my thing and sometimes they never knew it (until later).

It's been over a year and a half since I was at a bookstore (right down the street from me) and even though it's a lot smaller I was able to go down on a guy and had an audience to boot (the booths are so small two people can't fit in them) so I did him right out in the open.

 

[slurper_la]

Sorry, I can't get past the idea you let three total strangers cum in your mouth.

YIKES!

 

[bttmfantasy]

If only there were glory holes in Barnes and Nobles, definitely some hot geeky book twinks in there, YUM.

 

[D_Pubert Stabbingpain]

Why must we evolve past anything to satisfy homophobes? I agree that public park and restroom sex are inappropriate but I take complete exception to bath houses and adult books stores where age of entry is restricted.

What you're saying is that we have to assimilate to be accepted. Meanwhile straights are boinking each other all over the place including public parks, parking lots, and restrooms (albeit usually in age-restricted bars and clubs) without any comment from the homophobic press. What you're actually advocating is a double standard and that doesn't advance anyone's agenda beyond those who believe that if society is to accept gay people that it requires that they hide their sexuality outside of private (or even in private in the case of bath houses and bookstores). These pernicious people want gay people to appear straight, restrict their sexual obviousness, and essentially become acceptable by being house niggers to straights. "If you want acceptance you'll have to do it on our terms," is bullshit and not a single civil rights victory has ever been achieved by pretending to be something you're not.

What Jason said PLUS everyone knows those who scream the loudest (the Bill O'Reilly's, Rush Limbaugh's, Ted Haggard's, and pretty much every other vocal homophobic far right-winger out there) are typically those that eventually get caught themselves in those very same places.

As for some of the behavior at Pride Parades, etc., there will always be some people who come screaming out of the closet with their new-found self-discoveries. Others, like me, attend a few of these things, tire of all the "show," opt for more "behind the scenes" volunteer work and don't feel the need to show the world that we prefer to have sex with those of our same gender.

 

[sbat]

Are you all being serious about sex in bookstores? Or is this a joke thread?

 

[Enid]

oh, i sure do miss jason els.