just because he jerks off with his roommate doesn't mean he's gay, per se. he may just be into and/or comfortable with that. whatever.
dude...if he's straight, just forget about it. you've gotta live with this guy and you don't want it to be awkward. if he knows you're gay and he's into it, let him approach you and look for any openings (no pun intended) that he might provide. he might be bi or "bi curious" or whatever we're calling it these days and you might get lucky. but if you force the issue and he's not into it, it's going to end badly. find someone who's going to want you for you.
Yeah, I agree! He probably is just really curious...
Hngteen22, if you guys end up talking about sex one day, just ask him what he is into and what he likes for people to do to him. Most likely he'll end up asking what gets you off; he probably knows what you will say, but say it anyway! "Oh, well fucking is nice and all, but I really enjoy sucking!" or something along those lines will be suffice.
And if anything, now that he knows you are gay... he may try to find a way to let you know he wants his tool worked like, like the_reverend said.
Trust me, I've done it before. :tongue: If he is horny enough, and if he has jacked off with you before, I'm sure a few ideas will pop into his mind. Man, this story made me want to go out and find me another straightie.
And, to those of who think this: why the fuck can't somebody have sex with somebody else without having to be labeled something? A guy I used to date was completely gay, but he definitely didn't mind the ladies sucking his dick. Did that make him bi? No way! He would never want to date a girl, but a dick is a dick and sometimes it just wants to be satisfied.
Anyway, I think those that make a big fuss over what is "straight" or not are just very insecure about themselves. :wink: