How do you get a guy to let you suck him?

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Hey, if the guy is having a j/o session with an OPENLY gay, HE is open to getting his cock sucked.. He knows you are gay, just ask him if you can suck him off. the answer might surprise you...
 

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just because he jerks off with his roommate doesn't mean he's gay, per se. he may just be into and/or comfortable with that. whatever.

dude...if he's straight, just forget about it. you've gotta live with this guy and you don't want it to be awkward. if he knows you're gay and he's into it, let him approach you and look for any openings (no pun intended) that he might provide. he might be bi or "bi curious" or whatever we're calling it these days and you might get lucky. but if you force the issue and he's not into it, it's going to end badly. find someone who's going to want you for you.
 
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just because he jerks off with his roommate doesn't mean he's gay, per se. he may just be into and/or comfortable with that. whatever.

dude...if he's straight, just forget about it. you've gotta live with this guy and you don't want it to be awkward. if he knows you're gay and he's into it, let him approach you and look for any openings (no pun intended) that he might provide. he might be bi or "bi curious" or whatever we're calling it these days and you might get lucky. but if you force the issue and he's not into it, it's going to end badly. find someone who's going to want you for you.

Yeah, I agree! He probably is just really curious...

Hngteen22, if you guys end up talking about sex one day, just ask him what he is into and what he likes for people to do to him. Most likely he'll end up asking what gets you off; he probably knows what you will say, but say it anyway! "Oh, well fucking is nice and all, but I really enjoy sucking!" or something along those lines will be suffice.

And if anything, now that he knows you are gay... he may try to find a way to let you know he wants his tool worked like, like the_reverend said.

Trust me, I've done it before. :tongue: If he is horny enough, and if he has jacked off with you before, I'm sure a few ideas will pop into his mind. Man, this story made me want to go out and find me another straightie. :rolleyes:

And, to those of who think this: why the fuck can't somebody have sex with somebody else without having to be labeled something? A guy I used to date was completely gay, but he definitely didn't mind the ladies sucking his dick. Did that make him bi? No way! He would never want to date a girl, but a dick is a dick and sometimes it just wants to be satisfied.

Anyway, I think those that make a big fuss over what is "straight" or not are just very insecure about themselves. :wink:
 

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Maybe you missed the part where the OP said he and his roommate jack off together?
mea culpa, mea culpa


just because he jerks off with his roommate doesn't mean he's gay, per se. he may just be into and/or comfortable with that. whatever.

dude...if he's straight, just forget about it. you've gotta live with this guy and you don't want it to be awkward. if he knows you're gay and he's into it, let him approach you and look for any openings (no pun intended) that he might provide. he might be bi or "bi curious" or whatever we're calling it these days and you might get lucky. but if you force the issue and he's not into it, it's going to end badly. find someone who's going to want you for you.

GREAT ADVICE!!! :smile:
 

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I don't care about reciprication at all...

It's reciprocation, and I never understood what was so wrong with it--you give, you receive. Wish I had a quarter for every time someone said reciprocation, reciprocation, reciprocation.

I dont think him jacking off with you is a particularly straight thing to do

Sometimes when you're a teenager it is.

If All Else Fails ......Try Offering Him Money

lol He's not a hooker. :eek5:

Have you tried getting him drunk?
Maybe once's he loosened up a little, or a lot...LOL

You do that to a lady and she could claim date rape.
 
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So my roommate, is so hot. Nice body, six pack abs. And a nice...huge...cock, I've seen it more than a few times as he likes to flash it (does whatever he can to "accidently" or "jokingly" pull it out).

But, he's totally straight. Well he says he is, but he likes to make gay jokes...alot.

I don't care about reciprication at all...just want to suck him dry and swallow it all...

We've jacked off together before watching porn and stuff. But now he knows I'm gay and it may be more difficult...

I alwasy figured it wasn't gonna happen, but you can read on here so many stories of guys getting other straight guys....so any tips or ideas?

Just tell him that it's not gay to let other men give you a blow job. Tell him that you're there for him any time if he's horny and needs the best blow job he could ever get. If he'd say that he don't think he'd like it, just tell him "then we'll never do it again". It is as simple as that.
 

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I don't totally agree with that. I'm not saying a homosexual experience is the end-all and be-all and that the roommate can't ever just date women and have a regular, chill life, but you forget that if the guy is really straight, it's a big step out of his comfort zone to say the least.

I don't know if the OP is really perceiving this as objectively as he can -- maybe wishful thinking -- but I think the guy is giving him signals. I don't care how big you are. Dudes will draw attention to it if they want someone to take notice, whether that's a girl or another guy. If he's consciously and deliberately wanting his roommate to notice his dick, then he's nonverbally showing interest.

I say get all the awkwardness out of the way, call him out on what he's doing, and say that you're interested. It may be unexpected. He's expecting you to be coy, but hell... you don't have time for all that foolishness.
 

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I asked my very, straight, best friend several times before he finally agreed. We jacked together and then ended up blowing each other. We never had a problem feeling wierd afterwards. We double dated with our girlfriends all the time. I was always wanting to do it whenever we could, but the times he agreed were far and few between. He usually had to have a good buzz going and straight porn on. The only problem was I struggled with my desire to do it more than he wanted to. We are still best friends to this day. Both married to great women. And...on occasion....When the time is right......it just happens.
 

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If All Else Fails ......Try Offering Him Money

lol He's not a hooker. :eek5:

How would you know he's not?:rolleyes:

Arliss' comment is based on an old Spanish saying:

You can get want you want in this life, but you're going to have to pay for it.

N.B. I'm not endorsing this course of action though.:wink:
 

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People are honestly suggesting the OP get his friend drunk and violate him? isn't that kind of devious?

pretty much. isn't that on the same scale as date-rape? but honestly, you really shouldn't inebriate a guy to let you play with him. he'll only become even more pissed if he remembers the event after.

just ask or try to steer the convo to that topic and find out his feelings.
 

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Eish, My old gaffer had a saying for most things, but I suppose the most pertinant would be that when it comes to work and room mates, don't crap on your own doorstep. Equally ...if in doupt do naught! Why can't you just enjoy what you've got, with out messing it up, most men are curious, and if he does get curious enough he'll make that move.
 

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Um If it was me in your position I would just mention the next time he has his cock out that if he ever wants a bj that he only needs to ask. Im sure that if he is comfy enough to jack off with you that he would not freak out if yo said that to him.

Let me know how it goes I wanna hear more about this
 

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I have never had any experience with this, but here is something to think about. Why not try this: The next time you and him watch porn or even talk about sex, why not bring up the "what would you do?" Then, after he tells you, and if he has not said ...what it is that you wish to hear. Ask
" Well would you let another guy go down on you, if no one would find out?"
If he says maybe or sure. Then reply " That's cool."....! Me too!"

and see where it takes you...just a thought.

:cool:
 

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Instead of preying on your straight male friend, why not find a gay man to go down on? Aren't they good enough for you?

The replies on here would be very different if the OP was a straight man wanting to screw his lesbian friend, or a straight woman wanting to have sex with her gay male friend.

:Flush:
 

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some people must live a miserable life to put down every aspect of lpsg.org, why are they here? because they have nothing better to do than put other ppl down. GET A MISERABLE LIFE SOMEWHERE ELSE!!!
 

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I agree with those that say just ask him. HOWEVER, don't do it while he is drunk or under the influence of anything. That is not right. Timing might be critical however. It probably is not a good idea to ask first thing in the morning as you are eating breakfast. If you are both watching porn and jacking together, dicks in hand..great opportunity!!