How do you get hard really quick when you need to?

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I noticed that while it's easy for me to get hard initially, if I try to have sex then I'll loose my erection and have a really hard time getting it back. On the other hand if there is lots of foreplay and not rushing it then staying hard afterwards or getting it back if I go limp is no problem.
Normally I have plenty of time to go through the motions but sometimes I need to be hard at a moments notice (for various reasons).

Do you have any techniques that you use to get hard right away, like some ancient Chinese nerve pinch or something.
 

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It's all in your head most likely. It's possible there is a medical issue, but honestly, with how easy it is to get sexual stimulation from the internet, it desensitizes you.

Cut off all porn and stimuli. Masturbate less often, too. Try to get to once a week. Whenever you have a sexual urge, let it go. distract yourself. and if you can't help it, only masturbate using your imagination.
 
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It's all in your head most likely. It's possible there is a medical issue, but honestly, with how easy it is to get sexual stimulation from the internet, it desensitizes you.

Cut off all porn and stimuli. Masturbate less often, too. Try to get to once a week. Whenever you have a sexual urge, let it go. distract yourself. and if you can't help it, only masturbate using your imagination.



Good advise.... To much internet stuff around too convenient.
 

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Totally agree with above, but also its quite funny how we as a guy always has to be able to perform and get really hard and turned on instantly, and that we feel that we failed if we doesn't ...

But if a girl doesn't gets in the mood or get's an orgasm, that is also the guy who 'failed'

funny in the age of 'gender equality'
 

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Totally agree with above, but also its quite funny how we as a guy always has to be able to perform and get really hard and turned on instantly, and that we feel that we failed if we doesn't ...

But if a girl doesn't gets in the mood or get's an orgasm, that is also the guy who 'failed'

funny in the age of 'gender equality'

Everything is always "OUR" fault
 

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dont easy question mate and worst after 30 years old
unless guy fall extremely in love and feel his bride is in same way
so them all is automatic,pulsation start in the brain and drive direct to dick
the rest of the situation could take differents time period special if we want consider. moment dick is full rigid
due the period in semi condition is long but anable a dick to penetrate
but guys suffer premature ejaculation all is matter of one or two minute i talk for cum many of them in rigid condition and other soft
sensation go faster than erection process
 

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dont easy question mate and worst after 30 years old
unless guy fall extremely in love and feel his bride is in same way
so them all is automatic,pulsation start in the brain and drive direct to dick
the rest of the situation could take differents time period special if we want consider. moment dick is full rigid
due the period in semi condition is long but anable a dick to penetrate
but guys suffer premature ejaculation all is matter of one or two minute i talk for cum many of them in rigid condition and other soft
sensation go faster than erection process

Well.... yeah.... but not if artichoke, gin bottle, leaf blower, ham sandwich, flyswatter ,...
 

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I noticed that while it's easy for me to get hard initially, if I try to have sex then I'll loose my erection and have a really hard time getting it back. On the other hand if there is lots of foreplay and not rushing it then staying hard afterwards or getting it back if I go limp is no problem.
Normally I have plenty of time to go through the motions but sometimes I need to be hard at a moments notice (for various reasons).

Do you have any techniques that you use to get hard right away, like some ancient Chinese nerve pinch or something.

Don't think about getting hard. If your erection goes down start sucking titties, eat her out, lay down and relax...... guide her hand down to play with your dick while kissing.

Do anything except sit there thinking about how to get hard. You know sex is supposed to be fun for real tho..... don't make it such a task. I like to tryn approach sex like sports... I prepare well but every now and then we all have a bad game. If she cant understand that then on to the next chick and let her benefit from a four rushing touchdown game from my dick.

Lighten up my dude..... you gonna give urself a stroke before you even get some sex...LOL.
 

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I just do.

I agree that it's most likely just in your head. If you think it won't get hard chances are it won't. The more you worry about it the more difficult it will be for you to get it hard again. It's like when you worry about cumming too soon...chances are you will cum too soon.

Cock works best when the owner is relaxed.
 

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Totally agree with above, but also its quite funny how we as a guy always has to be able to perform and get really hard and turned on instantly, and that we feel that we failed if we doesn't ...

But if a girl doesn't gets in the mood or get's an orgasm, that is also the guy who 'failed'

funny in the age of 'gender equality'

Seeing that BULGE I wonder how long it actually takes you big guys to get fully hard... It takes me like maximum 30 seconds LOL...